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Wtf is wrong with her?
Okay, this girl, Samantha, was my best friend last year. Two words...huge mistake. She used to be so nice and funny. Now, she's just stuck up, a jerk, and plain out annoying. She did a whole bunch of crap to me over the summer, but I forgave her. Now I don't even know what the hell is wrong with her. She's been telling all these made up stories to her mom about me and my best friend not sitting with her on the bus on the way home from school and not talking to her. Well, what the hell?! We try to start a conversation with her and all she does is just say, "Oh, yeah." And just stares at the ground like she doesn't even want to talk to us. Then, on the bus there's no way for me to sit with her. I get on the bus three minutes before her and someone always comes up to me and asks if they can sit with me. Plus, she doesn't even talk so it's incredibly boring. Ugh, what the heck is wrong with her?
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Well it seems like she doesnt know what to talk to you about... because she did something to you.. and she doesn't want to do anything else like that again. [She might say something stupid]
So she might be telling her mom that stuff because you may not talk to her a lot... even though she's not saying much.. she's probably not realizing that she needs to have a big part in conversation too.
She also might not be saying much because you have a new best friend and maybe she's upset about it. It's kind of intimidating.. because you dont have that close bond anymore.. and you're sharing it with someone else.
Maybe save the seat on the bus? When someone asks then say you're saying the seat and wait for her.
Try to talk to her like you did before.. it might be kinda hard if she's not really partipcating in conversation.. Maybe ask questions like.. "what do you think?" to get a longer answer than "oh yeah"
but if she isnt trying much, then you shouldn't care what she tells her mom or anything. she's not being a good friend.
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she might be shy now, or she's feeling bad for what she did to you, or she's got something on her mind.
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