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my bf and i have had 'dry sex' but only for a short amount of time and not even rubbing all that much like i rubbed up on him but his penis wasnt like on my or pushing up against me and only for like a min or two or w/e so is it bad? cause its kinda the movements of sex and we havent been dating long and im really catious but when we did it i didnt even know it was dry sex and i liked it but it totally didnt seem that bad to me or that sexual. thanx for the help :) (link)
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There is nothing wrong with dry sex, no risks involved its basically kissing and being affectionate. Personally, i wouldn't talk about it much to friends or family because they may get the wrong idea and if you just started dating you don't want people getting the wrong idea.
Hope I could help. o^-^o
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14f;;
okay, me and my boyfriend went out for 6 monthes and he broke up with me on our 6monthanniversary. i really loved him. like alot alot alot. and he broke up with me because i was supposidly being mean but i really don't think i was, and he also liked another girl. 2 monthes later he asked her, no they have been going out for almost a monthe on the 14th, i still really like him. and when i see him i cry and i usually don't cry infront of people unless i'm close with them. he says he still wants to be friends but he won't talk to me unless i text him and i don't that much because i don't want to annoy him. what do i do? :/ (link)
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People spend their whole lives looking for that special someone. If this guy only waits 2 months before he has another gf then he's not the guy for you. A lot of guys say they love a woman but only say it to make her feel better, and in most cases it works and the woman lowers a lot of barriers. Most guys love control, most women love security, forget about this guy and go on with your daily life. If you have problems letting go, bury yourself in a hobby or homework or something you love doing.
Hope I could help. o^-^o
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I dont know if I spelled that right but do they really work? (link)
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They shouldn't be taken for granted. I used to think it was all fun and games until I tried one. Probably the most horrific experience in my entire life. Then me and my friends tried to burn it by throwing it in our camp fire and it just burned the corners. These things shouldn't be taken lightly.
Hope I could help. o^-^o
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How do I tell my boyfriend I want time with him thats not forced time?
Its hard to explain.But im going to try.
We are always hanging out. But a lot of the time its like forced. Like hes going to help me study or me help him. Or the biggest reason his mom watches my brothers. Or I have to watch my brothers and I need help.And its not always forced though and sometimes when its not forced all he does is play video games and i watch then we have sex. I want to watch a movie or play the game with him-nothing forced. But im not sure how to tell him that.
So how do i tell him that?
And thanx in advance!
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Hi,
it sounds a lot like you're worrying too much about everything and just need to get away from it all with your bf. I suggest a night out, go to a movie or theme park. Or if you're in the country or wanna go somewhere quieter, go on a picnic to your favorite park. Seems like you just want to relax. Do something fun, tell him you want to play video games with him. I never hurt to ask right? So why not say to him whats on your mind?
Hope I could help o^-^o
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do girls get top or bottom? (link)
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Top or bottom all depends on how much control you want, how it feels, and how the other person feels about it. Being on top can make you feel more in control but not everyone likes that. So really, its up to the couple.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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15/f
ok so im a fresham, and like i went to a private school before, now i go to a public one. and i talk to like everyone at this big table in one of my classes, and this one girl will be like you never repeat your clothes. and they call me spoiled and everything, and say i have everything. which i mean, im not used to talking to people who dont have as much as me. because at my old school, id be like oh i have 15 pairs of jeans. and another girl would be like oh i have 20. you know what i mean? how can i stop myself from saying about things i have? they always talk to me about it. so its not like im bragging. (link)
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Jealousy is a common human trait. These girls are just upset that you have what they would like to have. I suggest that you find something your good at (e.i. a hobby or talent, music, art) and talk about that in your conversations. Avoid questions that involve how much you have by saying something along the lines of "that doesn't matter" or "what does that have to do with what were talking about." When I went to school it was the same, I was spoiled and would tell everyone about it, but then I stopped and avoided those questions and I became quite popular. By the end of school I was the most popular person in school.
Hope this helped and good luck o^-^o
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ok well i used to have this boyfriend and we broke up last december.. soo thats a really long time ago.. soo now i really really like him , and i really want to tell him but i dont think hell like me back, we dont talk that much and more but i really miss him alot.. hes in all of my classes so i dont want to embaress myself..
help please?? what should i say? and how can i get him to like me again
any help would be great (link)
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Honesty is often the best way. Isolate him from his friends in the hall or class during a break and ask him how he feels. Remember, you can't force him to love you and have to respect his wishes and move on if he doesn't want to get together again.
Hope this helped and good luck o^-^o
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how do you get a shy guy to become sexual with you? like are there any moves or hints i can make? (link)
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Honesty is the only answer if he is shy. I'm 17/m and very shy, the only way my gf managed to get me to ask her out is by out right telling me that she wanted to go out and i still thought about it. Most men do not look for hints or suggestions, they either know or don't know. Be straight forward with him and you will get the answer you are looking for.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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This is gonna be long, sorry!!!
Theres this guy. Let's call him Jim. He's been one of my best friends since i was about 3. It's because his dad used to work with my mom. his parents are from england and have heavy british accents. however, Jim doesnt. I used to sleep over at his house, i almost used to live there. his sister, (lets call her Polly) now lives in London. Jim goes to London to visit his grandparents every summer. Oh, did I mention that i am in looove with anything british? I want to go to London so badly and a british accent is one of the hottest things i have ever heard. Jim is kind of short and i am really super tall. idc about that though... anyways, i dont see him a lot anymore because we go to different schools. Also his dad doesnt work with my mom any more. i think i have a crush on him... i only see him every tuesday when i go to church school. i want to look really good when i go, and i get all nervous when i get around him. but somehow i still think of him as my best buddy jim. im not sure if it actually is a crush. actually it seems that he has a crush on me! i was talking to him and my other friend Darren one tuesday and Jim commented that my voice was hoarse (i had a throatache that day). and Darren was teasing Jim saying, "Yeah, Jim, i bet you dream about her voice!" Jim was blushing and telling Darren to shut up. I was laughing and blushing a little too. So im not sure if i see him as a potential boyfriend or just a friend.... thanks for reading all of that and thanks for your answers in advance!!! (link)
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It sounds like a crush, if you pursue this guy it could develop into a serious relationship. I'd go for it and hope for the best, he sounds like a really cool guy. Since you've spent so much time over at his house then you probably know his parents really well which would be a bonus if you dated him. I found that the hardest part in dating my GF was getting her family to like me.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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Ok so Me and my friend have been bestest friends for 7 years almost 8 and yeah were tight and stuff. She moved like 3 years ago to her house wich is like 2 hours away from me and so now we dont see eachother alot only like once every 2 months. Anywayz when she moved up there then she became friends with alot of ppl and I was happy for her. Well her friends became my friends and so like this chick Amber that were both friends with Has a brother Jesse. Well my bestest friend is like in love with him and he's in love with her. But like a year ago we both liked him and he knew it cause we both told him and he said that he liked both of us 2. So yeah we flirted with him and stuff but then like a couple months after that then he said that he only liked her and I asked him why and he said just cause I live so far away and he hardly see's me. So it took me a while but I finally stoped liking him but I was still like heart broken cause I liked this dude ALOT. Well just like a couple of months ago I started liking him agian and Jesse and my bestest friend are like going out. And I really really dont want to like him but I do and now he is coming in between our frindship and we argue alot and I know that one boy shouldn't ruin a friendship of 7 years. But it is starting to I cant talk to her about anything anymore because she is alwayz talking about what her and Jesse did of something sweet Jesse said to her and like all she wants to do is talk about Jesse or nothing at all. I dont know what to do and I really need some help on how to get our friendship back to how it used to be before Jesse came in.
Kaleigh (15/f) (link)
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This may sound a little harsh so I apologize in advance. See, as people grow and move they change to suit their environments. It seems like your friend, even though being friends for 7 years, has began to change. Maybe in a way that could be irreversible. When I met my gf I noticed the change instantly. However, this may not be the case. Try talking to her about the old days when you two used to hang out and try to arrange a camping trip or something fun so you can get together again.
Hope I could help.
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its my best guy friend. he's the most amazing guy in the world. he has the most respect for women i've ever seen in a guy his age. we're good friends and he has no idea i like him. he does these little things that make me want him even more, for example if i'm upset and about to cry about something he holds my face and presses his forehead up against mine and just tells me not to worry because he loves me. but he means it as a friend. when we're that close i've always wanted to kiss him but here's the problem. he likes one of my friends and she likes him back. he's planning on asking her out and being as sweet as he is, this is how he's going to do it. he's surprising her at work with a rose and is going to ask her out. to make my situation worse, i'm the one who told him exactly what to say and he was really appreciative about it. i was happy that i made him happy but i was sad that he was going to ask her out. they're not even going out yet and they fight everyday. i know that when they start going out and he has problems with her he's going to come back to me. so how can i show him i dont want to be his therapist anymore i want to be his girl?!! (link)
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Sometimes telling him exactly how you feel can be the best answer. This would be one of those times, but, only do it when you know he's about to come back otherwise it might look like you set him up with her for him to get hurt. sit down with him and, little by little, tell him how you feel. Make sure he gets a clear picture because, as a man, i know that not all of us can understand signs.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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15/f
Ok well i have two best friends. Let's call them Anna and Austin. Well, I've liked Austin for the longest time and he likes me. Like we reeeeally like each other. The only problem is that our best friend Anna, who I've been best friends with for 10 years, likes Austin too. And me & Austin really act like we're dating. We just don't kiss in front of Anna. And she's telling us that if we want to be together, then we should because she'll get over it. But I can tell that she's lying. And I really want to go out with him and actually have the promise of a relationship, but i don't want to hurt Anna. And some of my other friends that I've talked to about this situation, keep telling us to go out for goodness sake because they've known for months that something was going to happen. And know its finally so ridiculously close, and the biggest road block is in the way. I just want to know what to do because I can't wait until Anna gets over him to go out with him, because that could take months. Help?!?! (link)
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Go out with him. Your friend already told you that she would get over him. The most likely thing is that you could grow a little farther apart but since you and this guy already hang out with her it could strengthen your relationships. There are times when to think about others but do this for yourself and you'll feel much better.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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i gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time tonight.. and i was wondering how long it should take for me to get him off? i felt like i was doing it for soo long.. is this bad? if i was doing it really well, wouldn't he come more quickly?
what are some good tips or things guys really enjoy while receiving bjs..? (link)
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As a guy I can tell you this, we're all different as far as sexual things go. Me, I could go for an eternity and never "get off" no matter what but for someone else just thinking about it could get them off. Pay attention to the facial expressions and body language when giving a bj if you find a something that he really likes keep doing it. Try to pay attention to his more sensitive areas (i.e. the head and right below it) Another thing, ask him what he would like you to do, he shouldn't hold anything back because sex is all about getting to know your parter better, there should be nothing with-held no matter how embarrassing it is.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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so i was doing my duty answering questions on here and i saw a question about orgasms and i felt retarded becuase i had no idea what any of it meant haha.
what is a gspot and what is a clit??? (link)
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The clit is a very sensitive part located right above the vagina and is made of the same tissue and nerve endings as the head of the penis. The G-Spot is inside the vagina, its this one special spot that if stimulated properly can cause multiple orgasms.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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does anyone know any good songs that i could put on a sports warm up cd?? pretty much anything would be helpful if its gonna pump us up for the game. thanks! (link)
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My current work out songs consist of:
Home- 3 days Grace
Change- Def Tones
Rock Bottom- Eminem
Short Skirt, Long Jacket- Cake
Colors- Crossfade
The Bad Touch- Blood hound gang
1985- Bowling for soup
Mama I'm Coming Home- Ozzy
Stuck in the middle with you- Steve Miller Band
Tweeter And the monkey man- Traveling Wilburrys
I found that it helps if you grow attached to songs so its more enjoyable and you can just drift off.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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14/F
Could someone pretty please tell me what shape my face is?
Here's a (highly unattractive) picture of me:
http://i16.tinypic.com/4zc2vwp.jpg
Thank you so much :) (link)
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Not to knock the other guy down but my opinion is that its more oval shaped, kinda like an egg flipped upside-down bigger on the top and smaller at the bottom. Your face seems to be commonly shaped and if anyone compares different, its them not you.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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when people dont get enough sleep do they become cross eyed-ish? (link)
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The answer is no. I'm 17/m and pull all-nighters all the time. Never have I gone cross eyed. The most thats happened to me as far as eyes is they get a little blurry.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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ok well i'm gonna have sex w/ this guy, but i'm a little worried that his penis might be too thick for me to take. is this a stupid fear? will my vagina be able to stretch to accomodate it? ...and will it hurt a lot? (link)
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If you think thats its too thick try putting a little bit of lubricant on it and take it a little bit at a time. The body is made to have babies and stretches like an elastic band, it will hurt if its your first time after a while it'll all go away.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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15/f
okay ..
this is probably gonna be kinda sorta long but ohh mann. so like,
I just got my first kiss on valentines day this year and I was rlly relieved cuz i thought i would NEVER get kissed and omg i was SO nervous .. well like, im rlly scared to do anything sexual for some reason
im like, prude
ha i dont WANNA be but i dont wanna be a slut either
well .. the guy i kissed is the ONLY guy ive kissed and yeah, weve kissed more than once
but never made out
and okay .. i just have a few questions i would like answered.
1. how do you makeout and is there a wrong way to do it ?
2. about blowjobs ? is it like, nasty ? is there a wrong way to do that ? and how do you do it?
3. handjobs? same concept.
4. sex ? does it rlly hurt for girls as bad as everyone says it does .. i wanna do it butttt im more scared of it hurting then getting caught or anything.
if someone could answer any of these questions, i would greatly appreciate it
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1. Making out should come natural to any person. Just do what feels comfortable and try to keep your lips relaxed, this makes them softer and easier for the guy as well as yourself.
2. http://www.pottymouth.org/wetspot/wetspot095.html
3. I find that when my gf gives me a hand job its always a little dry, if you like to get your hands wet then you should like this one. Try using a message oil or lubricant, though saliva can work just as well. Focus on the more sensitive parts such as the head or right below it.
4.It is true that sex for the first time can hurt. Just tell him to go slow and pull out as soon as it hurts. Lubricant can also help for this, but after a while the pain all goes away and nothing but pleasure remains.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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I'd like to learn how to become a better artist. My problems are shading, and making things look realistic. Also, I need help with clothes, hair, and anatomy. Does anyone have tips or pictures they could give me about the things I've named? Websites are fine, it would be great if they had all sorts stuff like drawings and tips on them! :]
Clothes - I'm not that creative :[ I'm not sure how to draw wrinkles, etc.
Hair - I'm not so creative on this area either + I'm not sure how to shade the hair, etc.
Anatomy - I can't really draw hands, the body, and legs etc. Sorry I tried my best to explain! If anyone give me tips from their own experience that would be great! Thanks! (link)
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Well then, you wanna draw anime hmmmm???? My advice to you, go to www.deviantart.com and use lots of refference when drawing.
Happy drawing
hope I could help o^-^o
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