hEY iM MELiSSA.
iM REALLY ENERGETiC AND i LOVE TO PLAY SPORTS. MY FRiENDS WOULD DESCRiBE ME OUTGOiNG, ATHLETiC, SMART, NiCE, AND GOOD AT GiViNG ADViCE, SO i DECiDED TO USE MY "TALENT" TO HELP OTHERS. i AM REALLY FRiENDLY AND EASY TO TALK TO SO PLEASE DONT BE SHY AND ASK ME ALL THE QUESTiONS YOU WANT TO.
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
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Age: 14
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13/f my best friend and i have know eachother for 3 years. We had two major fights that lasted atleast 1/2 a year each and i know her to well and i noticed shes changed. In the sixth grade we both made a promise to eachother as to not let eachother turn into a preppy know-it-all b***h. and now we dont talk as much as we used to and she started hanging out with the people she said she hated (preps) she tried to go anorexic too because she thought she was fat, and shes not even close to it, but i made her eat. Shes been really bitchy latly too. the other day we were texting and then she started saying how she was fat and i told her she wasnt fat at all. then she says well atleast i care about how i look unlike someone. and she was refering to me because im not one of those girls who spends 2 hours on hair, make-up and all that stuff, more like 30 minutes. Well she said sorry after and she made up the crapiest excuse ever and said that she was just moody and i know that she only says that when shes lieing to i have no idea what to do because i've tried talking to her and that just ended up with us yelling at eachother so please help me i dont want to lose my best friend (link)
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She is probably feeling bad about being anorexic. She realized you were right about having to eat, and she is mad and happy at the same time. If that makes sense. Like she feels its her business, but at the same time she is really happy you did it.
Just talk to her and get it settled out. Then go to the movies or something. Or vice-versa.
Good luck
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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13/f 110lbs 5'4'' you can see my ribs but below then my stomach is all fat. im fat in looks but real small in # weight. below my ribs is real big my stomach and thighs and calvs but my ribs and above im too skinny i hate it you can see my ribs and i just look sick im too skinny on top. i wana loose weight on bottom but gain weight on top. i know i cant do that but how can i fix it. like loose weight then gain muscle ive been trying for a long time plz help mee (link)
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Do sit-ups!! They really work!! If you add a twist like when you are coming up from the floor it really helps. And when you come up breathe out and when you go down breathe in.
good luck
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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I really need a b/f all the guys except one is nice and stuff to me...what should I do? (link)
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You never NEED a boyfriend. But casually flirt with the one guy that you like. Don't try too hard or he will turn away. Then eventually tell him that you like him.
Good luck and remember your beautiful w/o a b/f
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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you know the fat between boobs and armpits? how do you get rid of that? i am f/17 and want it off of me!!!!! (link)
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Lift weights with your arms. That is the only thing I know of.
Good Luck
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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whats bronzer for? is it just foundation? when you have foundation on your face do you put it on top of it all over your face? im just confused about it and if its any different than powder foundation. (link)
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First you put foundation on. Then you use bronzer which is usually a powder. You put it on like blush, except it makes you look tanner (bronzer). If you use it make sure you put it on your cheek bones.
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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i am extremely slender and always have been, im also tall at 5'8". however i all of a sudden have a lower tummy pooch and want to get rid of it fast. i havent been eating any candy or snacking more than usual. what can i do to get it off asap? i dont have much time, so quick and easy exercises and i cant cut out any more food really. why is this happening? (link)
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Do some sit ups. If you add a twist to them, that helps too.
GOOD lUCK!
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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heres the problem this may sound crazy but ive had a freindship with this guy who lives in a diff. state and we never met before, and we almost talked on the phone before. hes my age 13 and i talk to him alot i fully trust him dont tell me hes some rapist hes real hes given me proof and ive talked to his sister. but like i said i have alot of trust in him i tell him everything all my secrets and he tells me his too and i feel so stupid when i tell him "your a really great friend i love you and care for you so much, and so on but when i tell him he just types "aw thank you" and...what do i get??
just that i dont get the same thing back.
i would like alittle credit i mean ive known him for a year now but..i never once get any credit he worries me so much bc he gets beat up and teased for the way he dresses (tight pants ext.) and god i think bout him more than anything.
so can anyone tell me the problem why he wont give me any credit? and when he tell each other stuff he just types "but we tell each everything we cant secrets from each other blah blah"
WHY WONT HE GIVE ME CREDIT?!
and i need to hear something positive :( (link)
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He probably just wants to really meet you before he says anything. Im not saying meeting him is a really good idea, but I think that is what is going on. If you do meet him bring your parents and make sure he brings his. It might make things a little less comfortable, but safer.
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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Well I have a crush on this boy and he knows since everyone told him. I saw him look at me like a 1000 times and so has my friends. He did the whole things where he tells his friend and the friend looks at the person to approve, at least it looked like it. But he asked my bff out, he asked her out 3 months ago and then he found out she likes him so he asked her out. So does that mean he doesnt like me now? (link)
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Not really. Boys do that a lot. If they think that you don't like them, but they find a girl that likes him. They'll go with the girl they know likes him.
He could also be doing that to make you jealous. =)
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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well last night this guy that i like ALOT asked me out,and i was extremely happy.but heres the catch..hes extremely close friends with my ex boyfriend whom i went out with for 6 months and liked for a year and he was my first love..and now my ex boyfriend told my boyfriend he doesnt wanna talk to him ever again since hes going out with me..and i feel really,really bad. not just about the fact that he lost a friend due to this, but also that im going out with someone whos that close with someone i loved..because i talked to my ex boyfriend today and he made it very very obvious how hurt he is. i just hate hurting people and i do wanna be with my boyfriend but at the same time i dont feel as strongly about him as i thought i did..and im not even sure if this is what i want..maybe its just fear im not sure but if anyone could help me thatd be amazing..thank you. (link)
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It really depends on who you like more. It also seems like your new boyfriend is really not that good of friends with your ex, because he wouldn't do that to him if they were good friends.
If you like your ex more don't go out with your new boyfriend. If you like your new b/f more stay with him, because it doesn't seem like they have that great of a relationship.
Good Luck
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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On Seventeen.com, they are supposed to show the winners of the daily freebies. But they only have March and February posted, not April. Does anyone know the deal, or where I can find April's winners? Thanks if you can help =] (link)
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I do that too! Ohkay sometimes it just takes them a few days to update it. So continue checking in this week and then they'll eventually have it.
hope you win!
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MEliSSA
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ok. 1st of all i hardly never burn in the sun i just tan. and if i do get burned some its gone the next morning. ok, yesterday i was outside most all day and got burned..alot. and i noticed some kind or rash or something on my ars yesterday. then this morning it was gone and i went outside in the sun for something like 30-40 minutes. I noticed my arms looked like the pic up there. Its mostly smooth and looks like that but in some spots there are bumps, not large ones but just the size of a pimple but for the most part its just flat. its all over my arms and some on the top part of my leg. ive not been in the sun anymore today and its been like 4 hours since ive been in the sun and all of that rash or whatever it is is still there. 1st off, my dad has lupus. does this look like lupus to you and is lupus heridatary and could i have it? 2nd, what else could it be? could it be sun poisioning? if so what caused it and when will it go away? what else could it be and what would have caused it? (link)
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it is a sunrash.
just try to stay out of the sun for awhile.
Next time you'll be in the sun, try using a broad-spectrum sunscreen with UVA protection (see the label)
hope it gets better
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
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Hey!!wuts up ppl?? ok, well, i'm 14/f and my skin has some bumps on it. and its not like pimples or anything, its like a rash. see, i was using this clenser stuff to clean my face and i had been using it for a while, but the other day i got these bumps on my face. my mom said it was probably to strong for my face. so she gave me this other stuff to clean my face and try to get rid of the bumps, but it made my skin dry. and the bumps are still there. i've had the bumps for like, 4 days and i figured the bumps would start going away, but there not. so does anyone know of some clenser stuff that works really really really good on any type of skin??? cause on my cheeks, forehead, and a tiny tiny bit on my chin there are these stupid bumps!!! thanks!!! (link)
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There is this good stuff called Clean and Clear you can get it at Walgreens.
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
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So today I just bought a really nice miniskirt (along with white leggings) but I'm really self concious about my thighs. They aren't fat, but they aren't slim and slender. Are there any easy exersizes I can do in my spare time to help tone them up? Maybe a certain diet I can go on? Anything would be nice.
Thanks!
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SQUATS, SQUATS AND MORE SQUATS!!!!!!!!!
their miracle workers
good luck
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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ok well i have to questions in mind
14 female
the first question is about my stomach. so when i flex and everything i have a 4 pack, not a very defined one, but a 4 pack none the less. ok but after i eat and stuff my stomach gets big (obviously) but it looks like it's lower then everyone elses stiomach because it really gets like big below the belly button. and then like when my stomach gets big and stuff it goes up to a little below my belly button, then like gets pointedish, then slopes back to be flat. it's weird, it looks like i'm pregnant when i do that. so could it be possible my stomach is lower then most people, because i have heard of something like that
the second question is kind of odd, ok well after softball practice yesterday i got into the shower (at my house) and i smelled B.O. and i thought it was my arms, but it wasn't, it was the crack in my boobs, and i find that highly repulsive, is there anyway to like stop that because it's gross, and i'm goin on vacation soon and i don't want to be running or something in my bathing suit then my boobs start to smell, so any ideas what i can do to prevent that?
an answer on either would be appreciated =] (link)
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About the second question:
Use spray deodarent.
My friend does that and it works.
Good luck
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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my friend emily is totally in love with this guy named... matt. matt is like the epitome of american hottness, with tan skin, blue jeans, blond hair and blue eyes. she is infatutated with him, and has sent him valentines and everything, BUT has not asked him out yet. i am getting sick of hearing sighing and giggling over him from emily, especially since i like love him too, but only for a shorter time than hera nd i haven't sent any valentines or anything, considering itz april now. emily doesnt know that i like matt too, and i dont want her to get all freaked out at me. not to be mean either, but i so think that he would be so more likely to go out w/ me and not her, but i am so afraid of asking him out since emily is one of my best friendz. (link)
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First think to yourself:
What relationship do you like more?
Then stay with that one.
I would personally stay with my friend. If you and Matt break up, you aren't gonna have that friend's shoulder to cry on.
Good LUck!
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
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Does anyone have any ideas for a REALLY cute easter dress, i need it to be great because my birthday is on easter and i want to start my new age lookin good haha!
thanx (link)
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Here are some cute ones from Forever 21:
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&product%5Fid=2036827962&Page=9
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&product%5Fid=2037721158&Page=2
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&product%5Fid=2034667728&Page=1
Hope you like them!
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
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13/f
i sweat a lot.
i put on deoterant (sp?)
but it always wears off in like an hour.
now i havent had any sweat stains or anyhting yet.
it just feels really gross.
is there like a REALLY REALLY strong deoterant i can get.
thanks!
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use spray deodarant
make sure they dont contain bad chemicals
hope i help
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
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I do track with some of my friends who are juniors and I'm a freshman. Whenever we hang out we laugh soo much and we have a really good time but we never hang out outside of track and I want to, but I don't want to be like the clingy loser freshman girl or like I don't want to be like hey do you want to go the movies?!! and have them be like uh..actually I can't I have to do something.. I guess I just can't handle rejection haha. What should I do because I really don't want to sit around and wait for them to ask me. Help please :) (link)
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Instead of just asking the juniors invite some of your freshman friends too. Say something kinda casually like, "Hey, I'm getting some people together to...."
If they laugh with you a lot on the team, I really doubt that they would say no unless they really did have something to do.
Good luck
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
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13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party last night. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and my ?bff?. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and showing me off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? But im the kind of confused gothic rough girl and hes the kind of prepy nice guy. Other guys I used to like and they liked me would be rough im rough to everyone also. But hes to nice. Is that what it should be like. But hes been wearin a lot of black and going depressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him. Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf?) and my other bff (she just broke up). And he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she(bff he was talking to) started truth or dare. And it started out just my 5 bffs and him(bff) and another guy. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think about and write about.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How does he like me?
What should I do? What should he do?
How do you kiss? Ive never had a bf! But I turn down a lot of guys.
how would i tell my mom?
How do I change what happened?
What else should I do? (link)
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hmm this is a hard one.
I think you should tell him you like him. Tell him that you felt you were on the spot last night or whenever it happened. Tell him that you really do like him and then ask him how he feels about you.
Since you guys are so close, you will probably stay friends, even if it doesn't work out.
Good luck!
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
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Hey what I want to know is how I can make my boyfriend horny. No I am not being a tease because he told me he loves when I do it but I don't know how I did. I don't want to ask him because I kind of want to suprise him. Also I can't really dress in "sexy clothing" and I don't talk dirty. No strip teases or lap dances either. But can you give me some information on places where I can touch or kiss or something that will turn him on.
Thanks sooo much! (link)
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I think I already answered this question...but like kiss him on the ears or around the neck. At the same time rub your hands through his hair.
Or lightly rub your nails up and down his forearm kinda like your tickling him (NOT HARD)
hope that helps
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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