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confused about bf or bff since a party
13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party last night. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and my ?bff?. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and showing me off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? But im the kind of confused gothic rough girl and hes the kind of prepy nice guy. Other guys I used to like and they liked me would be rough im rough to everyone also. But hes to nice. Is that what it should be like. But hes been wearin a lot of black and going depressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him. Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf?) and my other bff (she just broke up). And he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she(bff he was talking to) started truth or dare. And it started out just my 5 bffs and him(bff) and another guy. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think about and write about.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How does he like me?
What should I do? What should he do?
How do you kiss? Ive never had a bf! But I turn down a lot of guys.
how would i tell my mom?
How do I change what happened?
What else should I do?
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hmm this is a hard one.
I think you should tell him you like him. Tell him that you felt you were on the spot last night or whenever it happened. Tell him that you really do like him and then ask him how he feels about you.
Since you guys are so close, you will probably stay friends, even if it doesn't work out.
Good luck!
ALWAYS&&FOREVER
MELiSSA
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