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Hey- i'm Emily. I love my friends and most ask for my help with various situations... so I guess i'm good at giving advice lol. I am a freshman, i love the band, and i am somewhat outgoing. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help. :)
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This is pretty long and it sounds wierd but its an easy 5
Okay well you know how you hear a voice inside you head when you read. well 1 time i read this advice from someone named shrink2be and it wasnt my voice inside my head. It was one of the twins at my school. And now im thinking about them a lot and its wierd bcuase i dont have a crush on them or anything like that. My question is, is it normal and if yes, why?
Yeah it's definitelly normal. I do it sometimes lol. You usually do it when you are thinking about that person. Sometimes all you have to do is see them in the past few minutes and read and be like, Whoa. So yeah it's normal lol.
Irefo! e!
can someone give me a sentene with the word BEDLAM in it?
rate 5s
bedlam: insane asylum, something loony, crazy, or insane
After the verdict was given, the entire courthouse was in bedlam!
ok this is really stupid but i 4got what the north south west and east things are called.. can someone please tell me. i will rate.
i dont know what you are talking about but i will try AND PLEASE DONT RATE ME BAD FOR TRYING! umm, never eat soggy waffles? a compuss? they are umm directions? I'm sorry I truly have no idea.... :) Irefo! E!
ive only had two boiyfriends in my life and they have always ended bad..how do i get the right guys to notice me...
im 14 and a female
I believe you have to go through a few relationships that end badly to hit the one that goes just right! The only thing you can do is be yourself. If you are a loud person, be loud. Quiet? BE QUIET! Maybe in a week, month, year, some guy perfect for you will come along who is crazy about a (blank for wutevr you are) girl and then will start to notice you more. If you are not your true self then someone will not like you for the real you, and then you will get tired of putting on an act. Then THAT relationship will go down the drain.
Hope I helped (irefo) E!
Well my friends and I are trying to decide on costumes. I have NO idea what I want to be. I mean something cute but not very sluttly... maybe just a tad lol. I mean I'm almost 15 and i want to be cute/hott! Do yall have any ideas of what I could be? Please help. Good answers get 5's! xoxo.
p.s. some that work in cold weather or some that work in just good temps. I dont want to wear a bathing suit when if it is like 50ish degrees! Even though I don't think it will be that cold though.
Thanks in advance!
A Target employee, hobo, mermaid, mailbox, rock star, mona lisa, black eyed pea, goth, atrist, skater wannabe, some famous person(mocking them), mummy, buy a chicken suit -chicken-, hippy, mime...
I dont know if your a girl but you and your friends could be the Fanta girls (?).
These are just a few ideas Hope I helped :)!
irefo
Does anyone have any quotes about life or inspirational or optimism that they wouldn't mind giving? Thanks ahead of time!
I dont have any (very sry!) but go to google, type in quotes + sayings . make sure you have a space b/w the + and the words. You might find something there!
I am much of a procrastinator, & I have this biology test tomorrow. I didn't start studying yet (its 8:45 PM) & I am so bad at studying and remembering things. Does anyone have any good & helpful study tips? Thank youuuu.
Make flash cards and try to focus...VERY HARD. Anyway, flash cards help a lot. But to make sure you're just not memorizing the answers in the order, every once in a while switch them around.
SorrySoShort, HopIHelped!
:) irefo
14/f ..i know this sounds dumb but i really want to know....my boyfriend and i have braces and i was wondering if they can really get stuck together when you make out?ill rate high for a good answer ...thanks
There is a very low chance that this migth happen but that doesn't mean it's impossible. Other words, it HAS happened before. The metal can hook together and I highly doubt either of you are so talented you can unhook it without looking. Try talking to dentists and ask them if you can kiss someone with braces, WITHOUT getting attatched...by the mouth.
Sorry so long. Hope I helped though!
:) irefo
hey, umm i have problems concentrating on work. its really weird though. At school, i can concentrate fine, but at home i can never concentrate on studying or homework or projects etc. do i have ADHD (or whatever its called) or is it just that i get distracted easily? i rate 5's/ danielle x0x0x
Well, just make sure you have no music or TV on while you are doing your hw. If you keep getting distracted then tell your Mom or bring it up with the Doctor! The Doc might have some ideas and if you tell your Mom she could just ask for you! lol hope I helped! :) irefo
Flirtingg...
Okay..so on saturday my best friend is having a party and her cousina nd I met over the summer and I had a crush on him but theres this other guy that I wanna make jelous and soo do you have any ideas on how I can flirt with the guy from the summer.Btw 13/f and my brother will be there
Well I dont really want him to get jealous..I dont really know how to say it..I realllllly like him ALOT and have for 3 years..but he likes another girl so I was just kindda thinking that like I could try to flirt with another guy to kind off makee him think im not wrapped around his finger or something...sorry this is really confusing and if you atleast try to help you get a 5.
To make that one guy jealous try talking about how much fun you had over the summer or something and you wished you could have talked with him more to amke THAT OTHER GUY feel jealous lol... I didnt get the rest of it but I hope I helped with the first part! :) irefo
hey, im 14 5'1" and 111 pounds, i guess not fat but i feel like im getting "chunkier" than i used to be. Cheerleading starts in 6 weeks and i want to be a little lighter becuase im going to be a flyer, i also want to get rid of some tummy fat and the really annoying flab on my inner thighs! Any ideas that dont need equipment?
thankssss
Try and do lunges. If you don't know what those are bend down on one knee, hold for two seconds, and then come back up and do it on the other knee. Those will help with the inner thighs. Stomach fat? DONT do crunches. If you do, you will build muscle there and THAT will push the fat up, making it not look too pretty. I dont know what you should do there, but I hope I helped... :)
irefo
I started my period back in June. This month I got it on October 10-16. Then I got it again October 19-21. It stopped for a few more days and came back again on 24th ( It only lasted a day ) Is there a reason for gettin it 3 times in one month? I know they will be irregular for a while but is this normal?
You may just be continually having your period for a two-week period. Sometimes you are heavy, sometimes not. This might be the case. It's not normal to have a two week period though so talk to your Mom.
It's also not normal to have a spread out period... you REALLY need to talk to a doctor or your mother.
irefo :)
hi im running the mile tommorrow in school, and i was wondering how I could get a better time. i'm a 13/m, around 5'2", 99lbs. last year i got like 7min 16sec, but i would really like to get under 7minutes this year. any tips on how to get a better time? (when to sprint, when to job.. etc?)
Thanks in Advance.
All fives.
Run regularly if you want to get used to running quicker and better than usual.
Start out with a in between jog and sprint, like a steady pace. Keep this pace and every once in a while speed up for a few seconds and then run at your regular pace for 100 yards. (100 yds equal one straight.) Works for me!
Ta- ems IREFO!
A few weeks ago, I noticed one little red bump on the back of my thighs near the bottom of my buttocks on the right side, then i noticed a few more then they were appearing on the other side, it has been a few weeks with them there without getting worse, now I have one father down my thigh. I went to the doctor and he said it is probably just due to dryness and to moisturize but I have been and its not working!! Any ideas?
thanks i will rate high
They could be ingrown hairs from shaving back there. If thats what they are they eventually go away after a week or so. Did you ask your mom/dad? they might tell you if not go to your doc and explain again.
Ta- ems
So there is this guy that I like, and I want to tell him I like him tomorrow. Problem is that I don't know how I should. Should I write a letter or tell him in person? What do you guys think is best? Also, I'm kinda shy, so how can I get over my shyness? 5's for helpful advice.
Guys find it OK if you get a friend to ask them if you LIKE them just not if they'll go out with you. Get a friend to ask him if he likes you more than a friend.
That way he won't see you get crushed and they won't REALLY know if you like them or not if they say no to liking you. And if they dom like you: GO FOR IT!!!
good luck always!!!
Ta- ems
OK im 13/f i got my period for the 1st time on sunday and i do not have a mother or any brothers or sisters to talk to ..... just my dad.... i dont wanna tlk to him about this .. i have some supplies that i got from the talk but they are runnimg out very quickly... how can i bring this subject up with my dad without making him freak out...... thanks a million ill rate u a 5 no matter what!!!!
Don't ask for money and go behind his back. That way when he finds out(b/c he eventually will) he will be hurt you didn't come to him and tell him.
There is no really great way to bring this subject up. Just tell him- it may come to him as a surprise but afterward at least you will have it out of the way.
Good Luck! Ta- ems! =)
What can I make for breakfast? like really quick. and easy and yummy. I dont have like pancake mix or anything, and im kinda hungary! please hurry, and if you have any questions just post it then i will answer it under EXTRA info , and then you can edit yours with the real answer!
easy 5's!!!!!!!
Here are some ideas:
*Toast- cinnmon and sugar, jelly
*Cereal- everyone loves it but if your on the go you can put it in a tall mug
*Frozn Waffles- pop 'em in, warm up some syrup and your good to go
*Smoothies- have any frozn fruit? put in some frozn fuit, orange juice, and yogurt. Liquify it in blender and there ya go!
*Fruit Bars- NutriGrain, WheatNhealthy, some others
*Oatmeal- fast and good for you
Not so fast but very filling: EGGS!!!
Ta- Ems
my dad and my mom are brokin up, and my dad and step mom fight all the time and i can't take it i hate her (step mom) she is so mean if my sister says something to me like "SHUT UP" and i say it back she gose tells her mom and the my stepmom tells my mom and i get in trouble and i want to spend more time at my moms now because of her but i love my dad and i want to be with him but not her! please help me!
Talk to your Dad. Since he loves you try explaining things to him and your situation. When you see your Mom explain that you say it back to your sister andshe should get in trouble as equally as you do.
If all else fails and I know you don't want to but go and tell your Stepmom that its not fair you also get in trouble when your sis does the same thing.
Ta- Ems
Okay, I'll be honest here: I'm so jealous of a friend of mine. She has something that makes everybody like her in SOME way.
All the guys like her, which is one of the prime reasons I'm jealous. A guy I like always hangs around her and I think that he likes her (She knows I like him; She doesn't like him like that).
It's so frustrating, because I'll be hanging around her and then everyone will swarm around her and ignore me. It makes me feel so inferior to her, and it's come to the point where it's hard for me to hang around her anymore. What can I do? Thanks!
I have this problem to. DO NOT try to be an exact copy of her just so boys will like you. Pretty soon you will get tired of putting on the act and you feel guilty b/c he doesn't know the real you and you are being a fake.
Be yourself- someone will come along, just be as unique and independent as you can be in your own way.
You should also talk to your friend about it. If the other twqo things dont work for you, you might try asking for some tips from your friend if she has anything to say.
Ta- Ems ;)
13/ F
Hi, I live with my grandparents. My grandmaw doesnt want me to wear thongs or use tampons. I was in the shower last weekend, and I had two thongs in the dryer with my clothes. My grandmaw took my clothes out and saw them. I think she threw them away. So let me get to my question; what can i do about her, because she is so old fashion, how can i have thongs and use tampons with out her knowing about this and doing something stupid.
Thanks, i Rate 5's
signed,
Confused
Try and talk to her. Give her reasons for wearing them (tampons) or using them and tell her the advantage of them. Ask her why she doesn't approve of them.
About the thongs... Try avoiding going behind her back. If she finds out then you will have broken a major trust bond with her.