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ok so im still young and im allowed to start wearing makeup.. i wanna know know tips that will help me look pretty and not slutty and is good for a 13 year old.. i have pretty pale skin but not that pale. i have blue eyes and light brown hair. thx i really need some help cause i have no idea how to wera makeup.. omg please dont ask me to ask my mom lol

heey...i think you should start with brown mascara to make your eyes pop out but not be too drastic of a change and try a pinkish blush but donntt put too much on other wise it will look funny (apply it to the apples of your cheeks) and make a fish face so you can see where to put it.
lip gloss! everyone looks good in lip gloss so any kind would work

hope i helped
pleasse rate!

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Is chocolate bad for you face? like will it give you alot of pimples!? is there anything that you can eat that would help like your skin be healthier and more clearer!?
thanks babes

your face looks so good haha like clear and alla that! what do you use on your face?! do you eat alot of junk food!? haha just wondering :)

hey im not really sure if it is bad for your face but i've heard it was.. but hey i eat it whenever im sad and it makes me feel better hah.. idono i guess not eating junk foods would be good but im not POSITIVE so sorry;; :-\

thanks! i use clean & clear pore cleanser and blackhead scrub or something and yeah i like them and they both work good!

let me know if you need anything else ♥

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ok how long does a hickey last for and does it hurt when you press on it or when your getting it

well ive never had one that hurt but my friend said she did... it doesnt hurt when your getting it it feels good! haaha to get rid of them just rub a bottle cap on it and itll fade slowly
xoxo

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lets say my name is shelly and my friends name is sarah

okay well i am gonna try and talk to this guy on aim..well im gonna have my friend talk to him and then if she leaves for a sec i'll get on and be like oh hi this isnt sarah anymore..this is shelly..sarahs friend..but then the guys will be like okay..then what do i say because it would be kinda awkward and i would feel like he wouldnt wanna talk to me since he dont know me and all..you know? and i wouldnt know what to say so itd be a boring convo and i dont want him to get that impression of me!! but i want him to know that i exist! hope ya know where im comming from

yeah! good start.. just say things like.. what are you doing over break.. and that you wanna meet him sometime. and ask if he has any pics to send you because you thought he was hott hah.

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this kid in my class talks to me sometimes..or well here is the story.. lets say my names kristen

this hottie in my class like wont actually have a full conversation with me..but like one day outta nowhere i will be talkin to my friend and he'll be like KRISTEN SIT DOWN! and i'll be like no and i dont know if he is ever kidding or not..then the next day he might do something like You little BITCH or Cunt or something like taht..he always says stupid shit like that..i mean i dont know if this is because he doesnt like me or what? but then somedays i feel like he is looking at me..or it could be another PRETTIER girl like next to me..i just dont know!? and its hard to flirt with him because everytime he says somethin like swearing or something and i never know what to say back. AHH what do you think!?

hey

well maybe you should just start a conversation with him. like be like "what are you doing over break? and just simple things like that to get him talking and do you remeber the old saying how guys used to throw rocks at girls because its a sign that they like them? well you probobly havent haha but i have and yea that just reminds me of it.. maybe he wants to get to know you more so let him!
hope i helped
xo

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um how do you give a blowjob!? haha i think it would be kinda gross tho..the boys penis in your mouth!? hmm..but i hear about these girls doin it all the time. but what else is kinda fun/sexual haha. well thanks..ne thing will help!

http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/ht/fellatio.htm

theres the best answer i could give you!

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ok so i was at a sleepover party for my friend and it was all girls.. at we started to play truth or dare. it was stupid little dares at first but everyone kind knew we wanted to do naughty dares. so yeah then we started daring each other things like you know make out and then it got worse cause we started u know um.. lets just say we used whipped cream and we DIDNT lick it off ice cream. wink wink. the worst part is i actually found it enjoing and we stayed up all night. im kinda confused cause i loved it so much but i dont get crushes on girls i just fantasize about doing things with them?? am i lesbian or what?

it doesnt mean your bisexual it just means that you like to have fun with other girls and stuff.. a lott of guys think its hott haha but dont worry its not a huge deal or anything so have fun c ya!

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HI! :) im someone that asked you about my best friend likin two guys and how i thought one of them was hott but i didnt know what to do.but i found somethin out and wanted to kno what i should do noW!

Well last night my best friend called me and we talked for a bit...and i was like soo who do you liKe noW? and shes like i actually dont think i like anyone..and i was thinkin *YESSS* then i can like flirt with that one kid if i ever meet him..but the problem is how do i get her to ask him to hang out with us?! she is super shy! or just to be like yeah i want you to meet my friend..or my friend wants to meet you. because ive tried bringin up the subject like oh yeah you needa hang out with him (hoping id be there too) and then she just changed the subject tho or she just goes yeaa..so i dont know how i could get to meetin hiM! because we go to different schools so i couldnt try and meet him myself..and then like my friend has his s/n but then i dont wanna talk to him on there..so i was thinkin maybe one time i was over at my friends house she could talk to him on there for me or something? but what would she say! how do i bring up the subject with her about askin him to hang out. ahhhh! ANY SuGGESTIONS GORGEOUS?!

hey
well i think you should say that you wanna meet all of these friends of hers and that she should introduce you to some.. and then you can do the same for her when you meet new people.
when your at her house & you guys are talking you should just be like this is ___ your rreeealy hot haha or something to make him a lil cheerful and be flirty and then i dono once you guys get to talkin say that you should meet or hangout sometime! then just mention to your friend that it would be fun and youd really want to..
hope that helped if you need anything else just let me know! :-)

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anybody know any inresting, websites for realy bored people?

www.gamesloth.com
haha i love this site lol

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Do you have any idea how to mix music on Windows Media PLayer, or anywhere else for free online? Sorry to have to put you on the spot.

xcheerbabex108

hey, i dont really know exactly what your talking about but i found this when i typed it in in google:
http://www.acoustica.com/mp3-audio-mixer/
maybe that would work? sorry!!

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im gettin my haircut today..yay! :) haha
but i was wondering..i wanted to get more lowlights put in to make my hair look darker..but im scared because i know that it will make my face look paler..but im gonna be going tanning maybe soon?! maybe not?! lol but since you have dark hair i was wondering if you like it or not? or what do u think i should do!

hey dont worry im sure it'll look cute but if your scared of looking pale theres this stuff at walgreens that works AMAZING its called salon bronze and its like a spray bronzer and it looks kinda like a water gun haha and it comes with 2 contaiiners or tanning crap and washers.. you can put it any where on your body but i really recomend it because i use it every day! haha yeah c ya!

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I NEED A CUDDLE BUDDY :(
it feels like everytime im with my friends and we hang out with a couple guys im soo shy! well actually its like if there outgoinga and flirty then im not and if they arent then i am! and i get jealous if the guys flirt with them and then im just standing there. i love all eyes on me..but im not all that outgoing (weird maybe i know?) haha but anyways im not one to just go give hugs to a boy because i think they will be like "uhh okay? i dont even really know you wtf" and i will feel stupid or i just wont go sit by them and start flirting with them unless they start first. what can i do!?
thanksss!

well if you want things to start happening then you gotta be more open! you dont hvae to go get on a guy right away but you could go up to a guy and be like heyyy how have you been and start casual conversation and stuff like that and give a few peoeple friendly hugs. that way your not being realy shy or really outgoing and if you want them to flirt with you then start flirting a little bit and i think theyll take it from there
♥

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okay..well i kind of like this kid i dont even kno if i like him its just that im really attracted to him!!..he doesnt know yet tho..i dont know if he even knows me? maybe what i look like! haha anywaysss he likes to do stuff with girls i guess. or he has "gotten stuff" if ya kno what i mean. this makes me jealous because i know that he thinks other girls are hott! and that makes me really jealous..even tho i havent really even talked to this kid before but he is just hilarious and just a lil cutie! what do i do?! i really wanna makeout with him =0 thats a problem tho since i havent actually met him yet and i wont see him for AT LEAST about another 2 weeks..bummmer! but yeah and then when i see him its only for like 2 hrs and hes always talkin to other people..blahh! what do i doo? im really shy so that doesnt help..well when i first meet someone i am lol but i LOVE to flirt..just not right when i meet someone..well i do but yeah i dont knwo if you get it? and lately this guy is all i can think about seriously.. and i havent even met him i dont even think he knows i exist! but yeah .. when i go to bed i think about him every night before i go to sleep..like us bein together DREAMIN heheh.. maybe sounds obsessed? i dont know.. ahhh..got any ideas for me to get this guy!!
haha thank you dear

by the way we go to diff schools =(

heey
next time you hang out then get this guys number! call him up once in a while and get to know him and stuff and show something to let him know your interested. if you just wanna get on him then flirt with him a lot but not to much otherwise he might get freaked out or something. tell his friends you think hes hott and see what he thinks and dont shy up around him! be confident and smile alot and then see where everything goes from there

maybe he will start to like you and youll see a lot more of each other and everything will work its magic from there
♥

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whats somethin cute to wear sledding..like i dont wanna really wear snowpants?! embarassing?! lol but i dont really have that many cute things for outside! and i dont even think i have boots..haha but i dont wanna go buy any! DRAGGGGG!! lol i dont have anything cute..anything that i could put together that might look cute?! because if we see guys i still wanna look cute :) thanks babe

hey

welll... wear a cute little hat and your hair in pigtail braids! and get either mittens or gloves that are your cute.. and a scarf or something
instead of snowpants you could get really warm sweatpants? i did that and it worked just dont roll around in the snow or anything too much haha. and boots... maybe you could borow a pair of your friends or something
well sorry i couldnt help much
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well i shave "down there" or like the bottom part i do..i dont know its confusing but anyways how often should you shave it? or like keep it clean..everyday? and is it normal to feel kind of itchy and like prickles down there .. lol thanks.

do you think i should continue shaving even? do you shave 'down there'?!

sorry..alot of questions!

well if you wait a few days i guess its 'smoother' lol
so maybe do that if you want.. i think you should keep shaving because guys like it haha and yea!
erica

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so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..ist that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked by him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back..like "take it back" "take it back" and hes be like NoooOO! and then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
thanks love

i dont think hed do that because he doesnt like you i think he is trying to flirt with you, because thats how boys are :-)
i would flirt back and stuff and see where everything goes from there
xoxo erica

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my face has been really dry lately! and ive actually been puttin on alot of lotion (thats probly bad for it) but i dont know what else to put on it! and also i have a lot of pimples on like my forehead..i dont know there actually not pimples kind of like blackeads but when you get close you can see the little bumps.. *[embarassing]* and i use this stuff called noxema for your face. and i dont wanna get that pro-active stuff my mom wont let me and she also wont let me go to a dermatologist..already asked her lol. any other suggestions?

thanks love.

hey
i use clean and clear blackhead clearing scrub & pore cleanser and for me it works really good and doesnt dry out your skin
also dont put scented lotion on your face make sure its moisturizer
also i had some of those face pad things that are supopsed to make zits go away in like 3 days and those are awesome so try those! or ask your doctor what he should suggest you get
hope i helped!

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hey darling!
well ok i have a problem..
everytime i makeout or do somethin like sexual (not sex or blowjob or anything) but like just anything with a guy i feel so guilty especially like with my parents. i feel like i did something bad and i also feel like that when i drink a lil bit. =(
im 15/f.
what do i do?!

its probobly because you know your parents woudlnt aprove of it. if you dont want to do that stuff any more then you should find friends who are not into that sorta stuff, but if you are into it then reasure yourself that what your doing isnt horrible and try not to think about it and have fun
sorry i couldnt help more...:-\

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I really dont like my smile! My mouth is really small in the beginning and then when i smile my eyes get really squinty and i have like really high cheekbones so i have two like bulges under my eyes when i smile haha. and so when i see some hott guy i would LOVE to smile but since i dont like my smile what should i do? =( i really sucks!! like you know how you are suppose to smile alot when you flirt..well i doo but i feel so self-conscious cuz i hate my smile! i even had braces for the longest time and my teeth are straight but yeah i dont kno. hope ya get what im sayin!

"never frown because you never know whos falling in love with your smile"
haha you should use that because no one has a bad smile unless your doing a weird face. if guys are checking you out they probobly do like your smile or think your pretty so i woudlnt be self concious about it one bit! if you need anything else you know where to reach me

erica

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i like this guy...well i wouldnt say like him just REALLY ATTRACTED TO HIM! lol but you see the problem is ...so is everyone else =(
and like when i go to school events i think "im not that bad lookin..i think im kinda pretty" (not tryin to sound full of myself) but then when i get there, there are sooo many WAY prettier girls than me..and im like im never gonna get this guys attention. and i couldnt sit by him because he is always packed in with everyone else..with nowhere to sit..and the problem is i dont even know him. havent talked to him once. got any suggestions!?
ThANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!

ohh boy i have a problem like that at my school haha
first of all, i bet you are prettier than a lot of those girls out there so dont say that!! to get this guy to notice you, dont be all over him like everyone else.. do something different
say hey tohim in the halls and you should start to become friends with him and thats the key to start something because youll get to know him and can flirt with him and stuff!
if you need anything else drop some i the inbox

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