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ok um 15 yr old girl been giving advice for about 2 years but just found this site last year. hint I'm not good with does he like me probs.

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Okay well i was walken downtown with my 2 friends today and this druggie/badass was down there and he called over this geeky guy called Josh and all of a sudden he starts beating him up! i was so scared i didnt know what to do.. he almost started to cry and before he left he said im callen aaron (the cop in our town) and my friends r like dont tell him we were here. im afraid hes gunna tell the cop and he'll ask me and somehow it'll get back to the badass and he'll beat the shit outta me .. im a gurl btw and he hits girls and stuff and he like knows how to set up bombs n shit cuz he put a bomb in our school one year.. if the cop does ask me shoudl i say i witnessed it?

yes but you can tell the cop you don't want to be called as a witness unless absolutly nessisary if it goes to court

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Ok, well I want to make my own website. I got help by this website.(Thanks advicenators!) I have url.Now the problem is HOW DO YOU GET STUFF ON YOUR WEBSITE!!! I don't have a backround or anything. My website is askmeny4u.cjb.net and if you go to it and you see nothing and if you think your computer is fucked,it's not.My website is a blank screen. They may drop me from their url and i'll be back to square one.

ok here some site for back grounds and music http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html
http://www.soup-faerie.com/

and heres one for over all help
http://www.lissaexplains.com/

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I've been having these visions in my sleep that it's going to become the end of the world by next Friday. I wake up in a cold sweat and see pink gay bunnys everywhere. Then all the sudden the damn rabbits start making out with my pillow. Then the frisky lil things take out bb guns and start shooting my TV. My house then catches on fire, causing the next house to burn up too (some how, i don't know how, though). ...and so on. Then the whole US is on fire. Our president, bush, thinks we're getting bombed by iraq so we go to another deadly war. Then china launches a gigantic nuclear fusion for the hell of it, and the world blows up.
But some how I manage to survive bc/ i can breathe in outter space. Then, I rule the universe! Muhahahaha



What should I do about these dreadful nightmares?


well seems like you may have a fear of the end of the world or mabey u see that bush is an idiot who could drive us to the end of the world n the bunnies shooting the tv could represent lying media or sumthing like that the fire could represent power n the outter space ting could be some sort of special gift you have

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Well here's my situation. My mother was seeing a man for awhile that seemed totally normal, well as time passed he began to become controlling and totally weirded out. He was suppose to be this guy living "the good life" with money ect. ect. Well things started to get weird whenever everytime we were suppose to visit his house the meetings would get "cancelled." After awhile he started to turn my mother against me. He convinced her that I was a hell raising child who needed to be locked up, and I needed help because I was "Ill in the head." All of this was far from the truth. Anyways, to make an extremely long story short, we found out he's not who he says he is, and he has a major criminal record, just got off parole for MURDER. He has an obsession over me (For God only knows what reason) and now the police are after him and he dissapeard before they got the oppurtunity to arrest them. This has brought so much strain on our family. My mom is constantly drinking, and I just can't look at her the same after the things she did to me because this psycho told her to. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas as to what to do in this situation. I want things to be better in our house-hold after this, but I have no idea where to start to mend it back together. Sorry it's so long, thanks for the help.

Well first off get your mom off the drinks try to help her she'll trust you agian n see he was wrong then may help the police

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i am being forced to move from my home in texas, to the cold and mean streets of chicago. my mother got a new job, and she is carting me up there in february. however, my father lives here in tecas. i have the oppurtunity to live with him, but i never have, and we arent very compatible. should i go with my mom, or stay with my dad?

wow tough situation. List the pros and cons of boththen compare the two to see which one would be better suited. Btw cold isn't always bad I love going up there snow is a lot of fun and a pain at the same time.

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there's this guy in my school who seems to dislike me . maybe i'm just being sensitive , but sometimes he repeats what i say in a funny/mocking way .he teases everyone , but i have this feeling he doesn't like me . maybe i'm too sensitive , cuz i don't like it when people tease me or make fun of me . how should i respond to such things ? ( ps : i don't know him that well )

It's possible ur being too sensitive n it's possible that he dislikes you. Either way don't pay too much attention to it, so one person may not like you so what there are others out there that do.

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i put this under Random Weirdos cause it doesnt really fit anywhere else. every winter i get painful dry skin on my hands. the skin cracks, splits then bleeds. it is only my hands and only in the winter! lotion helps a little, for about 10 min, but then my hands hurt again! what can i do/put on my hands?!

see a doctor they may have special medications for problems like this

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have you ever thought about comitting suicide? and how much do you weigh? idn these r reandom ?'s but you havent had one in a while! so i thought that you needed 2!! lol ok well hope you answer but you dont have to answer them haha i just felt like asking them
lol ok well bye bye!

um actually yes I have thought bout committing suicide twice but I didn't n now I'm glad and wiill help any one who is thinking about it. on the weight thing probly more than I should but hey I'm not so far over it's insane so I'm ok with it

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!-HeY bAbE-!

interesting sumone calling me a babe...........

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hi im 13/f and my mom still wont let me babysit. its rlly embarrasing bc i am 13 but she thinks im not "matture" enough. i feel like im being treated like a baby. how do i get her to let me start babysitting so tht i dont hav to hav a babysitter? thanx ~steph~

well if you have a little sib show her that you can take care of her help her with dinner spend more time studying than chatting practice any instruments u have more than usual then after a week or 2 of this ask your mom agian or if she doesn't work ask your dad be sure not to whine when asking!

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What should you do if you keep on babysitting and they always say they will pay you but never do, and you are too nervous to ask them to pay you?

talk to your parents they'll help you get the money or stop babysitting until you are paid if they won't listen to your parents

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What's a good rate to charge for babysitting a 1 and 3 yr old?

let the parents decide they know their kids enough to know what their worth ;)

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i have a question about pop-ups, and i didnt kno which category it was under. do yu guyz have those pop-ups and itz like 'shoot the monkey and win a free laptop'? well, do yu actually win with those things? or are they just there...


thx! =)

most of those are just scammers who want your credit card numbers and stuff so they can use it don't ever give out your name or other info expecially if you don't know the company (Instant messengers and stuff are ok it's just those popups and banners)

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my parents get mad at me whenever i say something about religion that doesnt agree with their views. they tell me im to young to have an opinion about that kind of stuff. and i do. and im not that good at communicating. so should i just tell them that i believe in god? even though i have doubts?

thanks.

ur not too young to have an opinion god given right u can belive what u want tell ur parents to back off and let u learn your way after all we learn best from our own mistakes

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I just recently moved out of my house and into my uncles house and he is a hardcore Christian man and believes that anything not christian is "of the devil", I myself am a follower of the old pagan type religions and he kind of found out and alwayz makes little jabs at me for not believing in god and tells me im going to hell and i dont know how to deal with it..if i tell him that i dont believe in god, he might kick me out of his house....what should i do...pretend not to believe what i do or tell him to stop?

ok I'm a christina too n u can tell him that his god saysin the bible if u read closly u are not to force somone to be christian but are supossed to try kindly and nicly and accept all ppl

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ummm this has nothing to do with sex....but most people look here(lol i wonder way)....

are humans at the top of the food chain(i noe the answer...i think....but i just wana make sure...

because we eat everything below us or did at one point

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well this past weekend, me and my friend snuck out. these two guys pciked us up. one which was her bf and this guy that i use to haev a crush on but we're jsut rfiends. he's going to be a senior and im goign to be a sophmore.well they were'nt suppsoe to pick us up it was suppsoe to be my exboyfriend nad his friend. but it turned out the other way well we went to the seniors house and we ended up hooking up i really like him now thougha dnwe're still talking.. he broke up with his gf. and were hanign out and talking ot he phone. but my ex found out and he acts likeit's nothing but hes pissed, especially since me and him use to be "hook up" buddies.. but i'm so confused. i fell bad b.c the senior had a gf. when we hooked up and shes sweet. and my hook up buddy idk i like him too..i guess i like them both. but i really dont kno what to do.. we're all in deiffernt grades. and idk im' soo lost.

I thinkit's great that your giving this guy a chance but don't cheat and just be careful with yourself not all seniors are that way but some are just make sure he respects u

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well when i was younger i thought having sex at 14 was horrible. but now im starting to think well maybe its not so bad.. sex at 11 or 12 is bad. i know people who have done it and theyre younger than me. im 13. so what is a good age for sex.. does age even matter?

confused..

elle

no age 14 is baaaaaaaaaad for sex baaaaad bad very bad 1 the school will find out n u'll be hated by all n if you get a disease or pregnant it's your fault and you may not be with that person forever and u'll never forgive yourself!

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What are some ways to make money? Im only 14. And I have 2 ways so far, baby sitting and team read. You get paid for reading to elementary kids. What are some jobs for 15 year olds though? ( Im tunring 15 in 2 months ) thanks.

car washing pet sitting or a jpb at a store near your neighbor hood

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I'm 14 / f .. I currently reside in PA. Well, the past 5 weeks have been the best weeks of my life because I haven't had to go to piano lessons. I know its a stupid theory but here goes. I hate PIANO! SO MUCH, i wasn't forced to start, but when i was 11 my best friend did it, and i wanted to be exactly like her, so i joined it. my grades have been suffering, and i think its because of piano, on sundays-wednesdays i worry about my piano lesson because my teacher is so mean. i wanna quit so bad, but how should i tell my mom, i think she knows i want to, but. i don't want her getting disapointed because i already quit band this yr because i didn't like it, she spent 1,000 dollars on a piano and shes been payin 12 dollars a week to let me go for like 3 years, what should i tell her? any help will get 5!

well it may just be your teacher also in most cases music helps your grades but if you really don't like it get yourself out of there quick your mom will understand the real way to disapoint her is to do somthing you don't want to do besides it'll save her some money too right?

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