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this are great,but inlooking for something new to make new fonts and put new stuff to my pictures,nd so people could think i have photoshop..im sorry
Sorry i haven't been on in a while.
but try www.dafont.com
To use them download them, then open up the file. afterwards open up Paint or whatever you're using and the font will be there (:
What's the difference between an ipod and a Zune? I'm thinking about buying either one but I don't know what's the diffrence? Like how are they diffrent?
I've had both. I love the Zune SO much more. Theres alot more features on it, such as you can change the backround of it. You can send songs to friends. The only bad thing is if you have a Mac. You can't use the Zune software from what I hear. iPods are so annoying and overrated cause they have an Apple on it. (;
I have a Sansa c240 mp3 player
http://www.buy.com/prod/sandisk-sansa-c240-1-gb-mp3-player-refurb/q/loc/111/208353408.html
[link to where i bought it from]
Its a refurb, but it works fine.
It came with 5 songs already on it, probably from whoever had it previously if they sent it back in.
Is there any way i can delete those songs? I've searched all of the files, in and out of WMP, but i cannot find them. I can see, however, all of the songs I put on it.
Thanks in advance.
When you plug it into your computer there should be this file on the computer. Go to the My Computer file, and in there should be your MP3 Players folder, open it and you should see the songs in there and just click delete, that's how my old Mp3 Players worked anyway. Sorry if thats not how it works too.
15/m
ok so I've been friends with this girl for 2 and a half years and we're really close and I've liked her for about that long too I've waited for my chance but everytime I would try someone would beat my to the punch and the same thing would happen everytime they'd end up cheating on her she always dates older guys which I think is stupid because they're more likely to cheat really anyways well she's been dating this one guy for about a year now and back in november they broke up and so and I told her how I felt about her but she was still unsure because she still had feelings for her ex so then about 3 weeks later they're back together and I was sad I didn't talk to her for about 7 months because I never saw but then finally I got to see her and surprisingly she was more friendlier than usual she gave me more attention than usual we run cross country together and she always wants me to run with her and one she texted me which she never does and then one she IMed me which she never does so I'm wondering did she miss me does hse have feelings for me o and she's still with that guy though too but is she finally starting to like me?
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so yea I just found it that the girl that I really like who is also my friend had broken up with her boyfriend 2 weeks ago but my friend doesn't know why it just happened so how long should I wait to start 'talking' to her? and did she do it because she has feelings for me
Honestly noone can tell you if she likes you or not. In all, she could just want to be close with you which is why she's texting you and such again. Just go with the flow I'm not sure what else to tell you, theres alot going on in a girls mind and their not always easy to understand lol.
well my best friend went on a mission trip and met this guy and now she really likes him. and then today they went out together and he asked her out and she said yes! they have only known each other for a week and a half and shes only a sophmore while hes a senior!! im really upset. i think it was really stupid. shes never had a boyfriend because shes usually smart about guys but now shes making bad decisions. they started holding hands and stuff before they even dated! and i wouldnt care but THEYVE ONLY KNOWN EACH OTHER A LITTLE OVER A WEEK! and shes said YES whan he asked her out!! i just cant be happy for her because now i know shes gonna start kissing him and im upset because i want to be happy for her when she gets her first kiss and when she has her first relationship but i feel like shes giving up for a guy she barely knows!!!! i of course will talk to her about it but what should i do? he does seem genuine but neither of us hardly know him! if shes thinks hes right shouldnt she at least wait a little? especially before she gives up her first kiss and who knows what else!! please help :)
most of the reason why im upset is im really worried about her getting hurt. a guy broke my heart and i dont want her to get close to him and trust him for him to betray her. if she knew him better i would feel more comfortable about trusting him but i cant trust a guy shes only known for a week 1/2! and i do think they should date just..not yet.
Honestly I understand you don't want to see her get hurt in the long run. It's her life though, you can't make her decisions for her. I know it's going to be difficult to watch her give up her first kiss and such, but it's her choice, not yours.
oh my god.... one of my closest friends is married with a kid and her god forsaken husband cheated on her again. and he lied about it until she threw proof at him... she is the most loyal person i know and she is very loving. she takes care of everything and works and studies in the same time (not to mention her daughter) and her husband just sticks to the tv and does nothing because he is really really addicted to wwe and ufc. (he records and re-watches them every hour of the day) if not he is playing video games. she even got him a job through her contacts as a game tester and filled in his college application and loans and everything... and then she found out what he'd done and was on the verge of suicide.. i calmed her down that is not the issue but she doesn't know what to do next and she wants to leave him! i really want to help her get rid of this (her family is not too keen with divorce and i live with five roommates!!) she works part time and she studies and i know if she tells her mum she'll force her to take in all this crap and suck it in... i don't think it's fair that she has to suffer through this!!! what should we do? we live in canada. is there a way that i could help her out? seek help and get rid of this!?!?! i mean we don't have alot of money ... what is our option right now? please help!!
Well, divorce doesn't appeal to me ever but this circumstance is one of the only I could ever personally see a divorce being nessacary. If her mom says "just suck it up" she has to take her mothers opinion but that doesn't mean has to listen to it. It's your friends choice not her moms.
my bf rubbed my virgina and that night i had periods but to be honnest i have never had sex before ma i pregnant
Lolz, no. You're not pregnant, if there was no cumming involved you simply cannot be pregnant. If all he did was rub, and you did nothing back to make him cum you're fine.
I'm 16/f, and I've been known to have anxiety and panic attacks but nothing severe. The worst was when I was dizzy for a few moments and I felt like I wasn't getting enough air. However lately it feels like my heart is being clenched, but not where I'm crying or anything. Just occasional short off-beats that don't feel good at all, and also I feel short of breath. They last about 10 minutes each and this happens maybe three times a day. Are these just short panic/anxiety attacks? Is it possible that it's that I don't eat correctly all the time, you know, not enough vitamins? Or is this something totally weird and it would be best to see my family doctor?
Thanks,
A-tad-bit-worried.
Hi, well I used to have it happen also. I talked to my doctor and they gave me an Inhaler for Asthma. So you culd quite possibly have Asthma. See your doctor
I had sex and my hymen broke i believe. But i only bled for 2 days, and i was in some pain but it wasn't pain like my period. My period last normally for 5-6 days. It wasn't a lot of bleeding but it wasn't just spotting either. Is that normal?
Of course! You're breaking a tissue in your body, you're supposed to bleed :D
recently i went down to visit my dad a few states away from me, i was there for about 2 weeks. & in those two weeks i met some amazing people. i liked one of the boys at first, then realized he was just a friend to me & realized i really liked his friend. well me and that boy were just laying in bed together and he had his arm over my back and he just kept looking at me and smiling. and then i told him i liked him. i could tell he liked me but wouldnt tell me because he is like basically taken. anyways. one night we were going to sneak out and meet up with eachother, really just to talk because i was leaving in 2 days. well that never happened. but the next day we were laying in bed again and he put his arm around and told me that im beautiful and to not let anyone tell me different and smiled. i had to leave the enxt day. so the day i got home, i was on the computer talking to him and he goes if you tell anyone i will never talk to you again, but i like you. and idk i was so happy! like i knew he did, but i wanted him to say it. we talked until like 5 in the morning and he was so sweet. he is the most amazing guy i have ever met. i just hate thinking about how we live so far away from eachother because i really like him. i wont be able to see him til either november, december, or february. i just dont know what to do. any advice since im not really asking a question.
No matter what it will be difficult. You live a few states away, so no matter what you will NEVER know what is going on with him. Even if you have other friends telling you "Heyy, you know him and Sherri and have been getting friendly lately" you won't know if their really only friends, or more. It will be hard. If you go down in November, maybe then you could advance into a relationship for the amount of time your there, but when you leave you'll be back to being clueless. My suggestion is to just get to know eachother better.
Knowing him for 2 weeks maybe have allowed you to get the basic idea of who he is, and such, but you don't know what he is about. Where he came from. You may know some, but for now, you don't know it all. And if you are to advance into that kind of relationship it will be very, very difficult.
Okay here's a really weird question but when your giving head do you have your eyes open or closed? and where do you put your hands??
I have no expiriance with this, so I referred to a few friends, some said open. Some said closed. It's a personal prefrence, don't fight it. If they want to close, close them. And vice versa. With your hands, some of them said use them to help you, others said rub the body. Like I said, personal prefrence, do what comes naturally.
I am WAY to shy! I am starting highschool this year, in 2 weeks and I REALLY want to make some new friends. I mean, I guess I have a lot of friends but I'm finding it more and more difficult to act like myself around them. Even my best friend in the world can't entertain me. I can't hold up a conversation at ALL so I usually find myself complaining about something as a sort of "default conversation topic", which I KNOW people find complaining annoying but it's better to be talking about something than not be talking at all right?? I just don't know how to do this. I'd like to have a little group of best friends that all like each other and then a larger group of friends to hang with and stuff. Most of my friends don't really like each other, unfortunately :( there's also this little group of friends I know that are really cool and we have a lot in common but i'm not sure how I would approach them...I just don't know. PLEASE help me!!!
Being shy is honestly extremly common and normal. The only way to get over it though, is to conquer your fears. I know how hard it can be, I've been there with other fears too. If your in Science class one day and a girl has a shirt on you like, just say "I like your shirt." That happened with my little sister (but it was shoes) her and that girl have been best friends for years. It's all about over coming fear, once you can get past the whole scaryness of talking to someone you don't know you can meet more people.
If your having a hard time talking to people your already friends with, don't talk. If your friends into soccer, go out side and play. I can almost garuntee you, it will lead to some sort of conversation. If they like theater, watch a play (maybe DVD version though), theres endless possibilities, it just takes some creativity.
Okay, I've been reading a book on the Wiccan religon and have been thinking of converting to it. However, my mom is very Catholic and thinks that Wicca is evil. I don't know how to tell her I want to be wiccan without her getting mad at me. What should I do?
13/f
I would skip the whole conversation. I understand she is your mother and you want nothing more than to make her happy, however she'll flip shit. She will be convinced your headed to hell. Convert if it is what you, personally feel and spiritually connect to. If one day it comes up, she can do nothing to make you change your mind.
If you would really like to talk to her, tell her how closely you feel connected, why it draws your attention. It will no doubt cause a whole lot of tension between you two. But she is your mother, she will only freak because she will try and protect you, even if it really isn't protecting you.
Well, Levi and I have been together 2 years. We're both 18. He's going away to College on the other side of the state. I'm really torn up about it because I'm not a strong person. We love eachother and want to make it work but whenever I've suggested something like, I move over there with him, and we rent an apartment or something like that, he says I'll be a distraction. He says I mean a lot to him, and I think I do, it's just that I'm so hurt and depressed over things like this. And I ask him to reassure me that everything will be okay. And he says he's not good at that kind of thing [[ which is true ]] he's an aquarius and isn't very vocal with his feelings. Whereas I'm a cancer and the polar opposite. We've made promises like no drinking and smoking in college, things like that... But I'm worried he might find someone over there. We fight like every other couple. I'm his first girlfriend and I'm worried maybe he's curious if there's someone better out there?
Though he's promised he wants to make our relationship work and he's fighting for us [[ which is true, he's made some real sacrifices]] but I just can't help but feel unimportant... Maybe I'm too needy? To make things worse, my best and only friend is moving to the other side of the country. I haven't got anyone and I kinda worry that Levi's taking the blunt of my emotions. But then again he doesn't help to make me feel better. So I guess I'm asking if I should say something to him about it? Or just be stronger?... I don't know... I just don't know what to do... I don't know if I can make it 4 years without just completely breaking down. I'm really insecure and have separation issues. And I just won't know what's going on when he's hundreds of miles away...
Thanks in advance, and sorry if I seemed like I was rambling... lol.
Well, first moving away from anyone you love is going to be hard. However, you need to learn to survive without him around all the time. If your constantly depending on him to make you feel better, and such what happens if you two were to break up. You would essentially be unable to take care of yourself. So maybe the time away will allow you to learn somethings.
You shouldn't force yourself to move across an entire state to be with him. I know, it's the one you 'love' but, your life shouldn't revolve around anyone else. Long distance will not be easy, but for the times you two are able to see eachother, you will be so incredibly happy.
To anwser your question in short: Yes, you need to be stronger. Cherish the time you have now, and learn to look forward to upcoming times. That is honestly my personal best answer.
can a guy only get a girl pregnant when he is hard? cause like can you both get naked and play around and finger eachother without the guy getting you pregnant even if his penis is around you but not in the vagina? i want to be safe :]
thanks.
f/15
Well techinically, if the guy cums and it were to get on his finger and he were to continue fingering, yes you should get pregenant. So, yes it is possible.
Sorry, there must be a lot of hair questions xD but I need help fast. Yes, I've already asked a question similiar to this, but I need more/different advice. I'm 13/f, asian, and I have black hair of course. xD I'm going to get a haircut soon, at least I hope, and I want choppy layers. Oh yea, I have side bangs. I'm into the emo/scene hairstyles. Does anyone have any pics they could give me so I can show my hair stylist? I want choppy layers, but I don't want anything too extreme, and yet nothing too plain/boring either. Here are some pictures I've found. This might sound weird, but I also don't want my hair to look "too emo/scene" xD....
http://www.bosshairstyles.com/images/hairstyle-pictures/bangs/lg/25.jpg
http://www.bosshairstyles.com/images/hairstyle-pictures/bangs/lg/28.jpg
http://www.bosshairstyles.com/images/hairstyle-pictures/bangs/lg/97.jpg
(pay no attention to the bangs, only the choppy layers xD) Those pictures are ok, but I'm not "in-love" with them. I just wish I could find an awesomeeee pic online. If I said I wanted choppy layers, would that be a good enough explanation? Also, I have NO idea where to get my hair cut! D; I have one place in mind, but it just seems like an adult place. My sis who is now 18, she went there before. Is it weird if I ask to get my hair cut there? I'm 13, so it just seems weird to me. Thanks sooo much!!
Lolzzz, don't be afraid to go there. Just call ahead and make an appointment. Also, I got my hair cut a few months ago and I didn't find any pictures online so I just said "Choppy Layers" yeah, that didn't work. I got NONE. It was like a plain haircut. It was ridiculous. I'd suggest looking around some more. Or show them those pictures and explain what you want and I'm sure they can figure it out.
i get like 10 or 11 hours of sleep in the night and then the next day i'm always sleepy and tired the whole entire day for some reason.
how do i stop being sleepy and tired all the time????
All you need is 7-8 hours of sleep a night. If you're still tired when you wake up you probably got too much sleep. Which is normal, and happens to my friends and I all the time. Ha. :D
I have a friend that is a guy and im a girl but we're not aloud to have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship so i don't want to become his girlfriend but i do want a stronger friendship between us what do i do?
Hang out more, but do things both people like. Lawlz, Also Talking more. I really only talk to guys, so if you need help on deciding how to talk I can help you.
Just think of him as a girl. Really guys and girls aren't much different lmao. Once you learn what is chill to talk about with him, your friendship will become so much better, it'll be super rad. :D
im dating a 15 year old guy im 19 i know bad choice hes really mature for his age though any way i want him to get checked for any typ of std if i go in the clinic do u think that they will call the cops? and i will get sent to jail?
I'm pretty sure they wouldn't take it thatt far.. but you could always just be like "I'm his sister" or something if anyone asks. Lolz.
im a 15 year old boy and i have a 12 year old brother. recently we have started to masturbate together in my room whilst watching porn on my laptop, but we NEVER touch each other. before and during masturbation i feel this is the right thing to do but then after i finish i feel incredibly guilty. im a straight lad and i have had a few girlfriends, but sometimes i worry that masturbating in the same room as my brother is morally wrong. is it natural for us to do this or is it perverted and wrong??
please help me!! :(
well...its your thing. I personally feels it's a little weird. I mean the last person i would want in the room with me is my sister ahha. But hey if thats what gets you guys go for it...i just wouldn't broadcast it to everyone lawls.