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a freind in need-- getting a divorce!!!
oh my god.... one of my closest friends is married with a kid and her god forsaken husband cheated on her again. and he lied about it until she threw proof at him... she is the most loyal person i know and she is very loving. she takes care of everything and works and studies in the same time (not to mention her daughter) and her husband just sticks to the tv and does nothing because he is really really addicted to wwe and ufc. (he records and re-watches them every hour of the day) if not he is playing video games. she even got him a job through her contacts as a game tester and filled in his college application and loans and everything... and then she found out what he'd done and was on the verge of suicide.. i calmed her down that is not the issue but she doesn't know what to do next and she wants to leave him! i really want to help her get rid of this (her family is not too keen with divorce and i live with five roommates!!) she works part time and she studies and i know if she tells her mum she'll force her to take in all this crap and suck it in... i don't think it's fair that she has to suffer through this!!! what should we do? we live in canada. is there a way that i could help her out? seek help and get rid of this!?!?! i mean we don't have alot of money ... what is our option right now? please help!!
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Well that is a very mean thing the husband is doing. It sounds like he dosen't care at all. I would tell her to just go ahead and get a divorce because you can't be married to a guy like him who dosen't do anything but watch tv and play video games. Even if it is hard for the kid, i'm sure her daughter will eventually understand though. If she gets the divorce, then have her live with you until she gets enough money to get an apartment room or she could rent out a place until she gets back on her feet. I know you said you already have 5 roomates but i don't know any other place she would go if she dosen't get the house and she dosen't have a lot of money. Good luck! Hope this helps!
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Well, divorce doesn't appeal to me ever but this circumstance is one of the only I could ever personally see a divorce being nessacary. If her mom says "just suck it up" she has to take her mothers opinion but that doesn't mean has to listen to it. It's your friends choice not her moms.
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Seems like a lost merriage, Divorce seems like it is necessary in order for her to get rid of that lazy bum and try to make a life of her own, It's hard to take this steps when you are short of money, sometimes there are state program's that can help seeing it is necessary to take this steps for the safty of you and you're child. Good Luck
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