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am i a lesbian?
okay so i have always been turned on by a naked female but i always thought so did everyone period and that it didnt mean i was a lesbian. but lately i have been craving more and more to be with a girl sexually and emotionally. i end up catching myslef having a crush on a girl and wanting to hook up with her but i cant bring myself to actually do it. idk if its because i really am not a lesbian or if i am and dont know how to get something started with a girl. can somebody help me?
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I agree with the other answers... it is normal to be attracted to other women. Sometimes I think omg shes hot but then I'm like I could never date a girl. You can tell if you are gay by thinking in a sexual way like... would I want to fool around sexually with a girl and feel comfortable? It sounds like you wanna have a little bit of an experience with a girl and that's pretty normal bc it goes through all girls minds but most don't go through with actually doing it.
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Experimenting is normal.
Just because you get turned on by watching other females doesn't mean you are gay. It's normal.
If you find yourself attracted to a certain woman and actually want to have sex with her, but you also like having sex with men, and are attracted to them as well, you are a bi-sexual.
If you are only attracted to women, and want to have a relationship with one, that probably means you are a lesbian.
But why label yourself anything? You are who you are, and it shouldn't matter who you are attracted to. =]
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you know I know very few girls who don't get turned on my other girls...I have had those "cravings" to. It doesn't mean I am going to go through with it it's just thoughts.
The real way to know is to ask yourself if you are into guys. If you are in to both you are probably bi! To be a girl and bi is so much easier than a guy. Most people I have encountered embrace girls that are bi.
You are still young and just don't fret it.
hope I helped
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You're still young. It's normal [at least by general consensus] that you're feeling these things.
If you imagine that you'd do these things, but you can't bring yourself to actually do them, you might be a lesbian, but maybe not.
If you want to see if it's for you, there's no harm in trying it out. Not that I personally would, but it might help you decide your sexual preference.
Generally if you're sexually AND emotionally attracted to the same sex, you're lesbian/gay. But some people will say that unless you actually do things with the same sex, you're just curious.
But you're still young and you have a lot of time left to figure out your sexuality. There's no need to rush it.
--Jack
(16/m)
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