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heyy everyone
mi name is chelsea
i luve to give advice to friends, family, or anyone in general
i always have mi friends to thank for giving me great advice and i kno they can come to me too!
im normally put in tough sittuations too, and can give you adve from mi experience.
if yu have any questions feel free and ask away!!
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Last Update: December 6, 2010
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21:33] me: hiiiiiii
[21:33] me: hahaha
[21:34] me: yeyeyye
[21:34] friend: hii
[21:34] me: oops wrong person
[21:34] me: ahahaha
[21:34] me: ok bye
[21:34] me: XD
[21:35] friend: okayy
[21:35] friend: how meann
[21:35] me: how is it mean
[21:36] me: it was wrong person
[21:36] friend: haha nvm
[21:36] friend: byeeeeeeee
[21:36] me: ok bye
[21:36] friend: where do you have to go
[21:36] friend: ?
[21:36] me: no where
[21:36] friend: us aid
[21:36] friend: youu said ok by
[21:36] me: cause u said bye
[21:36] me: i wasnt supposed to im you
[21:36] me: haha
[21:36] me: so yeah ok byebye
[21:37] friend: haha ok whatever bye


am i mean for this? haha just asking

i dont think you should be blaimed for a short convo like this
i bet your friend was just joking around
it's deff. not mean on your part

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Ok im going out w/ his guy. We've been on and off for about 2 years now. Hes a junior and im a freshman. We both go to differnt schools and we hardly see each other. But i went to a football game w/ him and my friend came to hang out w/ me. And now she calls my man every day. And i keep telling her hes mine. And she doesnt lisen but me and my man barly talk anymore on the phone..

What the hell do i do???

confront your friend
tell her how he's yours and you feel like you dont talk as much
just be honest
also, talk to your bf
im sure he still likes you and not your friend
if you tell him how you truely feel, he'll come forward with his feelings about the situation

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I met this guy a few months ago and straight away we knew we were going to be really close mates. A month or two later he told me he loved me and that he knew he had a girlfriend and he loved her but he couldn't help loving me as well. Things happened anyway and a while later him and his girlfriend hit a rough patch and mutually split up (her idea) Anyway, he asked me out and we had an amazing few weeks, but after a long talk i realised he still loved her and told him i wanted him to be happy even if that meant losing him to her again. He is back with her now and we are still very close mates. .. But he is the only guy for me...I really think i am actually in love with him, but i want him to be happy! thats all i care about!
Please help me!
Lovesick Rock-chick
-xXx-

this guy sounds confused and so do you
if you feel you have alot of potential with him, tell him
it's his choice hether to stcik with her or not
she obviously doesnt love him as much as you do
just tell him how you feel and he'll come through also
give him all of your feelings and you'll be less confused
it may be tough to, but if you love him, then it wont matter
glad to help

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What is your opinion on brown hair?Do you think it is ugly?

brown hair should be natural
sometimes it looks good
but if you feel uncomfortable with the situation, then just keep your natural hair

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Are the lyrics in Christina Aguilera's song "Hurt" about her father? Did he die or something?

no, her father beat up her mother

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how do i change the fount on myspace to like strikeout or make it bigger or change the color?????????????

if you go to www.whateverlife.com it tells yu how to do all of those things [=

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how can you get eyeliner (on the BOTTOM lid) to stay on all day? it basically dissapears halfway through the day,

dont go with m.y.c. it doesnt last very long. use maybeliene new york it is GARENTIEUD to stay on all way. its so thin and its great! i use it all the time and it stays on when i dont rub mi eyes [=

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Okay
I like this boy alot [on and off for 3 years when he moved here]
When he first moved her, he flirted with me alot and invited me to walk with him around the neighborhood and called etc.
Then i found out he liked my friend, and he still flirted with me but constantly said he likes her so much.
Now , hes going out with her and sometimes he still flirts with me and sometimes hes an ass and he's really mean.
But no matter what I still like him, and I know he likes the girl very much but why would he still be flirting with me??


ps... during the summer , we kinda had a fling , and we madeout a few times and hungout alot etc..

well if i were yu id tell yur friend. being honest is the way to go. tell her every but yu mite want to leave out the off and on make out hing. tell her and let her talk to her bf. she'll totally understand and cant be mad at you. [= next time he flirts with you, tell him he's dating yur friend and that yur off limits [=

good luck [= [= [=

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Ok well what i'm asking is-
I'm really nervous for my first kiss, I know, I know, you'll be like "wait for the right guy, at the right time" but what I'm asking is- is there any way to be prepared for my first kiss? like any practicing techniqes??? and if you could, describe your first kiss to be. (if you've already had your first kiss) and be detailed!!!!
I really dont want my first kiss to be my worst experience ever. So again, any techniqes (sp?), tips, or stories?? THANKS SO MUCH!

well mi first kiss was a disaster... i didnt even rele like the guy and the timing was way off. what im trying to say is ive got tipps for yu.. wut not to do and wut yu should consider. chapstick in yur pockett is a must...maybe even mints. dont hesitate. guys like it when yur forward...not to forward tho. be extreemly natural. good luck
[=

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there's this guy and he's sooooooooooo hott...i think he knows i exsits but i'm not all that sure...he's so cute and i want him to notice me...i don't know wat to do...i don't even know his name...i think my best friend knows who he is but i'm not sure...and if i ask her wat his name is then she'll be like do you like him??...and i don't want wanyone to know yet...i want him to notice me and even talk to me..but i don't know wat to do!!!...
PLEASE HELP!!!

well the first thing yu have to do is get confident. next, start a conversation with him. act natural and dont try soo hard. then, whne yu feel extremely confident ask him out... or he'll ask yu. remember to be yourself and dont try so hard, he'll like yu in no time [=
good luck[=

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hey every one im 16/m
well i wonted to know how can i stop a girl from likeing me i have tryed every thing from acting stupid but its not working at all she follows me to class every day and i dont wont to be mean but i dont wont her by me at all but tha bad thing about it is she wont say nothing at all all she will do is wave so i dont kno can some one plz tell me what to do

here's the deal. girls are rele sensitive. if i were yu, id go up to her and tell her that yu dont like her at the moment. and put me *yu* wont help me get to kno yu *her*, i'd like a little more space...and time. *but do it nicely* [=

good luck [=

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I'm a guy, and have known my best girl friend for 3 years now. I'm 17 and so is she. I've fallen in love with her over the years, and I don't know how to tell her. I know our relationship wouldn't change or anything, so I'm not unsure about that..it's just how to get it out. How can I tell her, when, where?

okay, you obviosly kno her very well, so ....



where-any where she likes

when-when you guys are at the climax of your kindof-date. *climax=most fun part*

how-sweet talk her, blow her away. keep her laughing. tell her that there is something you have been meaning to tell you *her* say ive always really liked you. i never knew how to explain it. but now i feel like it's time to open up and say how i feel, i luve you..... *like that*

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okay, so my girlfriend and i have known each other for only over a year, and we dated for 5 months, then broke up (terrible for both of us) and she cut herself, now we are back together for 3 months and she still does it every so often... is there anything i can do to help her, becuase i know that she wants to stop, and every time she does it, she feels so terrible about it, it nearly makes her sick, and all of this is absolutly killing me, what can i do to help her?? please i only want good answers...

i know this may sound bad but you need to confront someone. i once new someone who cut and i confronted someone and he ended up thanking me. you need to tell someone or she could get hurt. in a long run she'll thank yu. if you want to kno what he does now he acctually uses a rubberband and putts it around his wrist and snaps it *pulls it back and releases* he says it is so much easier and makes you feel better.
sorry it was so long [=

good luck [=

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he acts like an ass in front of his friends and says mean things to me that make me feel like shit

but out of school, anywhere when we are alone

he acts like he likes me and stuff
but idk

what do i do?

w/e you do do not ignore him ! he'll feel rejected. when youre around him and his friends play hard to get and when your just with him flirt a little [=

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hah chels
it says your a male
hahahha
you might wanna change that budd
love your bff,
dina =]

thanx alot!!

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My boyfriend and I have been recently fighting about how he wants to spend more time with me..He recently went to college, and im a senior in high school. I barely see my best friends during school day between classes and after school between work..tutors..etc..wen he comes on the weekends he wants to hang out which is understandable..and i want to see him too and my friends. I try and balance it and see them one day and him one day..he is complaning and saying that it shouldnt be that way and that I should see him more then them and he thinks i would always chose them over him..any advice?

you should tlalk to him. tell him that you need a balanced scheduel. work it out. tell him that your friends are rele important and he's important *make him feel good*. make him understand that you can hang out with bothyour friends and him [=
sorry it was soo long [=
good luck

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I was just wondering how to get into modeling for like local stores that sell clothes and stuff. anyone know?

i have a best friend hoo is totally gorgeous, her name is katherine, she is totally gorgeous and she is taking someclasses. ill talk to her about it and get back to you. but it ll depends on where yu live around

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i'm 14 years oldand i'm a freshmen and i had never had a kiss before...is this embarrasing???

of course not! yu just havent found the right guy yu want to share a very important step with. a first kiss shouldn't be forced. [=
glad to help

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alrite well i have never kissed a guy before and my boy friend wants to french kiss me i want him to but im very very very nervous seeing as i dont now what to do someone please explain to me i really dont want to make a fool out of myself please!! thank you so much xx

heyy
well, i kno this may sound gross but you just start out with a peck and then lean in for annother but open your mouth. then you just simply add your tounge *sorry for details* and he'll lead the rest. =]

wish ya loads o' luck

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How do you get over something like this? I mean like I see my girlfriend with just some friend of hers and I just get crushed I don't know how to fix it :(

if she likes you she isn't flirting with other guys. you should rele confront her about what she is doing and tell her that you are worried. [= just be honest so she can be honest back [= hope it helpedddd

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