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ok so um me and my friend (we are both girls)have sleep overs all the time and when we do she always puts her leg on me and so i would like rub on her leg and she would rub my boob and when i am in the bed i feel good about it but then when i am out of the bed i hate myself for even thinking of stuff like that and during the day i mean i LOVE guys and then when she sleeps over its a whole different story.......so anyways can u help me i dont understand what is wrong with me! (link)
Maybe you just like the attention she gives you when you are not around guys or maybe your just bisexual.


Can you get your belly button peirced at Claire's? i heard that from a friend but i dont think you can. thanks for your help. (link)
no you can't .


my b/f is such a jerk he only cares about himself. He calls me names and screams at me. He used to push me around. I can never be mad im always the wrong one. He allways says the meanest things. I go through so much at home and he dont care he still calls me names and says he hates me. (link)
Thats called abuse and u defiantly don't need it.


it is me again i have another problem um last night i cheated on my boyfriend and now i am scared to tell him i have known this dude for a while now and we were only just friends and then last night i cheated and my best friend hooked us up and she was wanting him to meet me but i think she is mad really i do but why should she be mad when she told us about each other and i just meet him last night but i have talked to him on the phone for a few months now what should i do and he wants to meet me again tonight and i feel really bad about me cheating and i dont want my best friend to be mad at me can someone plz help again? (link)
don't listen to all these fuckers u can still love your boyfriend and cheat on him I did it though sooner or later you need to tell him about it and stop fooling around or tell your bf and break up with him.


Ok so this guy Robert asked me out and i told him i had to think about it. Well just yesterday i realized that i liked his friend Forrest alot so i told my friend Brittany. Well Brittany told her ex who's the brother of Forrest and Forrest told Robert. So this morning Robert asked me about it and i told him it wasn't true and he believed me. Well in 2nd period i told my friend Justin about all of it and that i really do like Forrest. Robert is in the same class as me and Justin so Justin told Robert so now i think he's upset. I dont know if i should talk to him or just give him some space. But i really do want to talk to him about the whole thing cause before all of this happened i was going to go out with him. So do i talk to him or just give him space and wait until he comes and talks to me? what should i do?
Thankyou for any advise you give.
I'm 15 and a female (link)
u need to stop being a hoe and pic one before u get a bad reputation take it from someone who knows


I went out with this guy for like 4 days but then I broke up with him because my BEST friend in the whole world had already been going out w/ him for like 3 weeks then he broke up with her and he asked me out at HER halloween party "AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH" she said she didnt care so i said yes .. but i felt like shit because he was like kissing me on my cheek, and holding my hand and everythng right in front of her.. then we went to play blind man bill (ins hide n go seek with a blindfold).. he went to go hide in the closet and wanted me to go in the closet with him and makeout (all this on the 1st night we were going out) and i wanted to but i couldnt risk losing a friend over a guy but i really liked him...Well after about 4 days i could tell it was REALLY bothering my best friend so i broke up with him but the thing is that i never wanted to .. i did it for HER and i still REALLY like him but so does she i think she needs to GET OVER HIM but she wont......... will you please HELP ME!! He still likes me and I still like him but he doesnt kno...:(
~confused~ (link)
I had the same problem and all you have to say is r u ready to loose a friend over all of this? I never thought guys came before friends but when I met that one guy I ended up picking him over her and I had known her for three years and him for seven months so it really comes down to who you're gonna pick in the end.But be sure you make the right decision!


i was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend being mean to me all the time when a certain guy came to school, well he was so nice to me today and the day before ever since i talked to him he has been nice to me and actually tells me he loves me and holds my hand and kisses me in public.. he told my friend he wouldnt know what to do if he lost me.. does this mean he is chaging his ways (link)
as long as it stays this way.


I have a friend who is a boy. We have been friends for along time and this year I can tell he is starting to like me a lot more then as just a friend. I like him as more then just a friend too and my BFF says she can tell that we like each other. I am afraid to bring it up and so it he, because we are afraid we might ruin our friendship. Could stay friends if we broke up? Should we take the plunge? Like this morning when me teacher was handing out scrach paper for the cst's She said we could use it for anything, drawings, doodels, notes, or even love leders. I saw him looking at me when she said this and I was looking at him too. I really don't know what to do!!! (link)
Normally when u breakup or go out with abest friend in the end it normally makes u closer than ever. Good luck!


He is kind of overwieght, but sweet and fun to talk too. I really feel happy around him, and always try to talk to him. But at my school he is regarded as a geek, or a nerd by everyone. And I think he likes me too! I'm not quite sure I'm ready to date, but how can I have him keep liking me until I am? (link)
thats fucked up and mean


Okay, so theres this guy that i really liked and then he asked me out so we're going out. Then there was this other guy that i really liked but then i kinda didnt and now i do and now all these guys are like asking me out and flirting with me and stuff..they dont know i have a boyfriend but yeah its annoying cuz they didnt when i didnt have a bf..why does this always happen that when i actually have a bf THEN the people i like start liking me or whatever..? ugh! (link)
i know it happens to me it's wierd there guys


i want to make a quote site.. but i have no idea what hosting site i should use..anyone have any ideas? (link)
xanga


my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?
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you should always pick friends over b/f's tell him to stop or tell him it's over


Ok... I am 14/f and I weigh 100 lbs. My friends think I am anarexic and last year my teacher turned me in for anarexia. I eat, alot, do you think I should she a doctor about my weight. (link)
no you'll know if your anerexic if your 14 and 100 pounds that's a good weight and you say you eat all the time you seem fine to me


ok well i really need some help cuz c i have this guy friend named ryan and we r real good friends. but hes 2 years younger than me. but i love him as in WAY more than a friends but he only sees me as a friend and i cant get him 2 c how much i really do love him. what should i do?

signed confused (link)
you can't do any thing if they don't like you


is it alright to date a guy that is 3 to 4 year younger than you? (link)
yeah if you really care for the person


i need ideas on how to convince a girl that i really do love her...so please give me some good ideas ill rate a five (link)
talk to her girls like to know reasons why people love them. they also love to be treated like queens. if she still doesn't believe you then you have a problem.


im a 14 year old guy and i weigh like 150 pounds..im 5'6 or 7 and over the summer i lost like 20 pounds, but instead of it being gone, it turned to more muscle even though i naturally have a lot of muscle (it runs in my family) even though everyone tells me i dont look fat or anything, and actually some say i look so muscular and everything i dont think its true..i think im fat and i dont like it and im afraid to take my shirt of in front of my friends..although i know that my weight turned into muscle, i still look almost the same in the mirror. people tell me i look like superman because i have big calf muscles and shit like that (i have big calf muscles because i skateboard) why do i still think im fat and see myself as fat although everyone tells me im not? (link)
no one wants to be conseeded maybe that's why though if your friends say you look good then your obvisly not fat.


ok well theres this guy that i like but hes 2 years younger than me and i wanna go out with him but he sees me only as a friend and he knows i wanna be more than. he just doesnt understand and i have talked 2 him about it. wut should i do?? (link)
you can't do anything if he doesn't like you like that.


okey dokey, my ex bf's friend asked me out n he never even met me. i said i had to meet him first and we would have to become friends before we went out. all my friends think that if i go out with him he is gonna rape me just cuz he's 15 (i'm 13) n he had sex b4. i will probably go out with him but i already let him know i dont drink smoke do drugs or have sex. he's okay w/ that but he talks about all this sexual stuff online to me. i wanna go out with him but how do i tell my friends he's not a bad person and how do i tell him that i dont really wanna talk about sexual stuff? thx, *PrEssUrEd*-p.s-i did some sexual stuff b4 just i didnt have sex and all my friends tell me to do sexual stuff (link)
personally i think you shouldn't date someone you don't really know.


ok i like this guy that all my friends think is a dork and they dont know i have a crush on him. you see i've started going to this school a couple of monthes ago and well i am sorta dignosed with paranoia. I have a real hard time opening up to people cuz my experience at my one other school and when i was there people that i thought were my friends told the whole grade who i liked and when it happened to them they didn't care to much but i did and now i'm afraid of telling my new friends about my crush and what they'll say. PLEASE HELP!

P.S. i'm really shy 2 so that might play into all this but i dont know ;)and i'm a 14 yr old female (link)
try not to care if some one finds out who you like and if that works tell your friends though if you don't want anybody to know keep it a secret.




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