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I went out with this guy for like 4 days but then I broke up with him because my BEST friend in the whole world had already been going out w/ him for like 3 weeks then he broke up with her and he asked me out at HER halloween party "AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH" she said she didnt care so i said yes .. but i felt like shit because he was like kissing me on my cheek, and holding my hand and everythng right in front of her.. then we went to play blind man bill (ins hide n go seek with a blindfold).. he went to go hide in the closet and wanted me to go in the closet with him and makeout (all this on the 1st night we were going out) and i wanted to but i couldnt risk losing a friend over a guy but i really liked him...Well after about 4 days i could tell it was REALLY bothering my best friend so i broke up with him but the thing is that i never wanted to .. i did it for HER and i still REALLY like him but so does she i think she needs to GET OVER HIM but she wont......... will you please HELP ME!! He still likes me and I still like him but he doesnt kno...:(
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oh my gosh this same thing happened to me. i had a b/f for about 2 months and there was this girl who liked him too but i didnt no. well he eventually broke up with me to go out with her and i was like IN LOVE with him and they are still going out. it hurts sooo bad and i no exactly how your friend is feeling. sometimes i hate her..and sometimes i love her to death! well it has been about 5 months since we broke up and they are still going out. im finally over him! but just like the others said. you can have a friend forever but a boy you could lose in a second. so i say go for the friend and ditch the guy. it sounds to me like he just wants a girl to mess around with. move on together!
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yea sounds like your friend needs to get over him but it also sounds like you should too.. maybe both of you move on together.. find different guys.. Yea you still like him i understand that and you still want to be with him but its hurting you and your friend in some sort of way so its not worth it.. much luv dez x0x0
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I had the same problem and all you have to say is r u ready to loose a friend over all of this? I never thought guys came before friends but when I met that one guy I ended up picking him over her and I had known her for three years and him for seven months so it really comes down to who you're gonna pick in the end.But be sure you make the right decision!
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Alright, depending on your age and how well you and your bestfriend deal with problems... your best bet to to wait. Even if he made the first move on you- her wounds of breaking up might still be fresh. He obviously has no respect for her if he asks you out at her party. But maybe just get to know him better and talk to your friend. Can't expect her to heal sooner than normal.
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