Ok so this guy Robert asked me out and i told him i had to think about it. Well just yesterday i realized that i liked his friend Forrest alot so i told my friend Brittany. Well Brittany told her ex who's the brother of Forrest and Forrest told Robert. So this morning Robert asked me about it and i told him it wasn't true and he believed me. Well in 2nd period i told my friend Justin about all of it and that i really do like Forrest. Robert is in the same class as me and Justin so Justin told Robert so now i think he's upset. I dont know if i should talk to him or just give him some space. But i really do want to talk to him about the whole thing cause before all of this happened i was going to go out with him. So do i talk to him or just give him space and wait until he comes and talks to me? what should i do?
Thankyou for any advise you give.
I'm 15 and a female
karenR answered Thursday April 14 2005, 12:28 am: I think he deserves an explanation. He got brave enough to ask you out and then you more or less let him find out that you would rather go out with his friend. How would you feel if that had happened to you? Boy's do have feelings too ya know. They may act all tough but they have feelings. This Forrest guy hasn't even asked you out and maybe won't. Especially if he thinks you did wrong to his friend. You need to do some major apologising. Try going out with Robert if he still wants to...He may be a really nice guy. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
sadf16 answered Wednesday April 13 2005, 11:16 pm: I think he knows already that you like his friend and not him. So why not get over it and talk to him right away? The more you waste time, the more it'll get worse [ sadf16's advice column | Ask sadf16 A Question ]
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