Question Posted Wednesday November 10 2004, 8:16 pm
okey dokey, my ex bf's friend asked me out n he never even met me. i said i had to meet him first and we would have to become friends before we went out. all my friends think that if i go out with him he is gonna rape me just cuz he's 15 (i'm 13) n he had sex b4. i will probably go out with him but i already let him know i dont drink smoke do drugs or have sex. he's okay w/ that but he talks about all this sexual stuff online to me. i wanna go out with him but how do i tell my friends he's not a bad person and how do i tell him that i dont really wanna talk about sexual stuff? thx, *PrEssUrEd*-p.s-i did some sexual stuff b4 just i didnt have sex and all my friends tell me to do sexual stuff
carmextHiEF answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 10:09 pm: well first of all don't do anything you want to do. and he can't rape you if you say no. stick up for yourself. you said he's okay with you not wanting to drink, smoke, do drugs, or have sex. so then there shouldn't be a problem. have fun and meet new people. get to know him like you wanted to in the first place before you take it any farther. [ carmextHiEF's advice column | Ask carmextHiEF A Question ]
Sherry answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 8:57 pm: Well first off, tell the guy that if he ever talks about sex, or sexual things on the internet that your going to block him or never talk to him again. That shouuld make him stop. And I think he says he doesnt care that you wont have sex..because he's going to try to get you to do stuff anyway. I dont think he's a good idea. He seems desperate if he asked you out without knowing/seeing you. But if you dont care what I think, go for it..but with older guys tyhere could always be heartbreak.. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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