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okay well for a few years now i have talked to myself..everytime i go in my room ill just blab about what happened that day or make up my own story, i imagine people are there and that for some odd reason i belong to a differnt family ( I Know i sound stupid) Well ill listen to my ipod n jt blab about whatever sometimes while im just sittin on my bed with my laptop ill do it there n actually talk back to myself and picture them there well im 17 now and i reaslized i shouldnt be doin this..when i get caught im soo embarrassed i just wanna die and never speak to anyone again..Please tell me whats wrong with me so i can see a doctor asap thanks=) (link)
I have the same problem too. I always talk to myself. I always think of myself talking to someone and it's like real too. I end up responding publicly from my imagination. I guess it's just a natural phase. Some people who talks to themselves tends to over-think a lot.


I'm 17, driving.
I can't drive much because I need gas for my car and my parents can like only give me soo much moeny you know. I need a job.

I live in a very farmland area, So, I applied to stores that are like 10 minutes away. That was back in April/May when I first got my license. I never got hired, and then summer came and I just figured I'll have my last summer to have fun and play tennis and stuff. Last month (October) I figured stores will start hiring for the holidays. So I reapplied at all them stores. Well it's November and I still haven't heard. I did reapply for a third time, and this time I moved to another town which is 20 minutes from my house. It's just soo frusterating. I walked into one store to hand my application in today and the lady flat out told me, "You didn't fill out your employment history" I was like "yeahh..." and she goes "We can't hire you if you never had a job before." It ticks me off because it's a body lotion store. Like, I don't understand How am I ever gonna get a job if they only hire people who already have jobs.

Also, my father had to take a pay cut and my mother's work is going on strike. So, like I want a job just so I don't have to ask for money. I'm 17 my parents try to treat me like an adult and me asking for money makes me feel like a helpless baby. Any Advice on my situation?? (link)
Just keep looking for jobs, even just fast food joints because they hire anyone. Don't lose hope because you will find a job. If it's your first time to get a job, just look for a simple job to begin with. Inquire and look for help wanted ads around. Their is an open job somewhere for you. hope that helps you.


i was thinking about having a sleep over with my best friend but im not sure what we could do or talk about any ideas please ? :P (link)
you guys should play strip poker, if not that than you guys should explore eachother. i sure hope that your friend is a girl.


Someone told me that if I gave head and swallowed cum I could get throat cancer! Isd this really true? Please! Could someone with some real knowledge and experience and NO throat cancer answer me? I guess if you have it then you should tell me too. I am SO worried! :( (link)
Well I heard that it takes a while to digest if you swallow it. I've never heard anything about gum causing throat cancer.


I'm 19 and I'm a bisexual transexual male, i have a girlfriend, but she's homophobic and says gays are nasty. She doesn't know about my transexual lifesyle. Well i think like a woman, feel like one and i told her i want to get a sex change and asked her if she would still care for me...she said no and that she would leave me


So i kinda have been behind her back with this man i really like, and he's gay. He told me that whatever makes me happy and i should go for it and he'll be there for me, boy or girl.

So what should i do, i don't want to live like this all my life

And who should i choose. (link)
It takes a lot of courage to "come out of the closet" to your girlfriend. I give you props!!! When it comes to these decisions, it's up to you. Like what your crush said, "Whatever makes you happy, go for it". I would say the same thing also. Only you have the right to control your life. If you keep that in mind, nothing else matters.


does anyone know the songs that are in the movie Forever Strong. i've looked everywhere for them but i can't find anything, the soundtrack was awesome. (link)
Why don't you look on "google" or ask.com. You can also look it up on youtube .


Ok, so I have a big day tomorrow. PROBLEM: A zit! A big one right in the middle of my forehead and no way to hide it. :( How do you get rid of a pimple overnight? Like while you sleep if possible?

Please help me! (link)
To be honest, it doesn't take overnight to remove a zit. Some people pop their zits but I consider that unhealthy. You need the patience in order to remove zits. Wash your face daily or apply pimple cream or other pimple removal products. Pimples are usually caused by lack of sleep, just to let you know. I hope that answers your question. It might take a while but it's worth the wait because the results are amazing.


19/f Lately I feel like a total and utter loser. I'm nineteen years old, no license, no job, no car, and I'm not in college. I graduated over six months ago, and still have nothing. I feel like no one really cares. My grandparents keep telling me I need to join the military, and my parents keep reassuring me everything will be fine. I'm starting to think they don't know anything about me. All I do is sit around my house, reed books, see my boyfriend, watch movies, and play on the computer. I'm in over my head worried about health insurance, a place to live, etc. I've been trying to get my license but every time I take it I get nervous and I've already taken it 3 time. I know. Pathetic, right? My boyfriend has been driving with me, but my parents haven't been at all. I feel like I'm at his mercy and that I'm using him, and I don't like feeling that way. I always tell him I appreciate everything he does for me. I just wish I could SHOW him how much I appreciate him. But I don't have anything. What do I do? I don't want to live with my parents forever, what do I do? I hope to get my license but I always get so nervous. How can I make that so it's less? Please help! (link)
I understand where you are coming from. To overcome this challenge, don't lose hope. Everyday is a new opportunity for you. You have to control your life. Tell your boyfriend everything because he should understand. He loves you very much so you might as well open up to him. Also set goals for your self to accomplish. Once you reach your goals, you will have a lot to show your boyfriend and you will make him very happy. I hope that helps.


Hey, we all know that december 21, 2012....12/21/12 is a very well known date. i dont understand this that well.. i have been researching on it, i talk about my friends with it and i saw the movie 2012 already...whats your viewpoint on this? Do you think the world is actually going to end of is this a myth? (link)
I've watched documentaries about it and researchers say that either something good or something bad will happen. It will mark the end of the Mayan calendar, but I've heard theories before that the world was going to end in 2006 but nothing happened. Right now, we can just say that it's just a theory.


How do you make words move across the screen of myspace? It is like it just scrolls from right to left and I see it on other peoples myspace but i wanna do it to mine too. Who is the best myspace expert here? :) (link)
Go to "www.myspace-codes.com". Once your in the home menu, find "myspace marquee codes" and select.


for the past 2 weeks my left eye has been weird...
my left eye starts to hurt alot, like there is cold air blowing against it, so i always close my left eye and it stops the pain. I Dont know why, but this happens most of the time when im at school. I can see, but it just hurts. Is there something wrong with me? Am i going blind or something? Please help me! (link)
You probably have something in your eye. Why don't you fill a bowl with water and submerge your head in the water face down for just a few seconds. Something should fall out of your eye. Why don't you give it a try. It's probably just dust or something.


Cutting to the chase:
My best friend and I had been planning to get an apartment together for about a year. She joined a sorority last semester and she clicked with two other girls in her sorority. Meanwhile, she was talking to me about still getting an apartment together.

The other day, she told me she had been talking about getting an apartment together with her sorority sisters at the same time and that she was going to live with them next year instead. BASICALLY, she told me all our plans of living together were not gonna happen because I'm not in her sorority.
Now I have to figure out my housing situation next year (I don't have any one else I would live with) and there's this awkward tension between her and I.

This really hurts my feelings. I told her and she was like "Yes, I know I pulled a douche move, but I feel like you'll have other options. I know what I did was bad, but I want you to know I'm still your friend."

I just feel like I hit a brick wall. I hate my college. I have no one to live with next year. The person I thought was my best friend is leaving me for two other girls. I see friendships this year dwindling because of housing situations. It's hard to maintain friendships when one is living off campus and the other is on.
Any advice? I need to move forward, but I don't know how.

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I see where you are coming at. Why don't you just make other new friends. It will slowly take the tension you have with your other friend. you will forget what she did and you have your new best friend to support you. It would be the beginning of a new friendship. Does that answer you question???


I'm not the prettiest thing this earth has ever seen but I know i'm not the ugliest.
i just feel so down about myself.
I don't feel pretty anymore.
It makes me so depressed, and i really don't know where to go with any of it anymore,
please help.
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Ugliness comes from the inside, not the outside. As long as you're comfortable under your own skin, you won't feel ugly. Just understand that beauty comes from within. Your only feel beautiful if you feel beautiful on the inside. Accept yourself and have confidence!!! Be yourself!!! You're in God's hands so you make it work for him.


Does anyone know the lyrics for the song Closed Heart Surgery by Kill Paradise? I love it and I can't find the lyrics anywhere! (link)
You can try searching on "ask.com". Just type in the song information.


Hi, I'm a freshman in highschool now (15/f). I'm in honors classes and do a sport each season. But I want to become more involved in the school the community. Any ideas on what I can do or where I should go to start? (link)
You can start by signing up for clubs, rallys. Just read the daily bulletins at your school for more information.


I'm a girl and I hate chick flicks. I just think there dumb and pointless, and everyone has the same story line; boy gets girl, boy loses girl, boy gets girl back again. I would rather watch a mob movie anyday. Is that weird? My bf says it is. (link)
I don't think it's weird because what you like and dislike brings out your true personality. Life is not perfect so you shouldn't be.


22/F

Over the last few years, I've been in a huge battle with depression. I failed out of university, lost contact with my family, and almost lost my boyfriend. Things were awful.

It's only been a year and a half since I was hospitalized, but since then I've been healing at an incredible rate. I'm finally happy again; I'm in school, talking to friends and family again, and enjoying life. I've beat the beast, and I want to commemorate all that I've done somehow.

I feel like I've been through so much, and it just doesn't show on the outside. I want something, even if I'm the only one who knows what it means, that externalizes the strength I feel and the pain I've gone through to get to where I am.

I think a great way to do this would be to get a tattoo. Now, I'm not an ink and piercings kind of gal. I wouldn't get a tattoo unless I was 100% sure that it was important to me. You are marring your body permanently, after all.

I'm thinking small. The main idea I have is to have "Veni, Vidi, Vici" (I came, I saw, I conquered) done in a nice script, somewhere hidden.

Now for my questions:

1) My boyfriend HATES the idea. He understands why I want to do it, but he just hates tattoos. He's even told me that he's okay with scarring (which I am far too squeamish for), but not tattooing. I don't want to put that on hold because of an aesthetic preference.

2) Any suggestions for design or placement? I don't want anything big or colourful. I want to keep it invisible, so no shoulderblades, ankles, wrists or tramp stamp areas.

3) If I don't get tattooed, does anyone have any other suggestions? I really want to do something for myself. Something permanent; not like a new outfit or a spa day. (link)
Don't get a tattoo. You still have more time to change and if you get a tattoo, you will have it the rest of your life and you will regret it once things starts looking up for you. Find something that will get you good, if not better opportunities in life. Sporting tattoos does not always get you far and the results after getting it removed is damaging. It damages your skin also. The best thing right now is to look for a decent job right now and make good money because money is really scarce in the real world nowadays. Once you have money and a good job, you will be able to support yourself and someday advance your future. Just work at it. I feel I have depression too and I just feel more distant from my family but I am still living with them with high hopes that someday, I will have a future. It's hard but you have to work for it to make it possible, no matter what.


im 15 years old, 5'1- & weigh about 164. i am a runway, print,& commerical model. and i need to loose a lot of weight, fast. so i cant really stop eating, its just not going to happen, i cannot eat healthy. what exercises should i do to help me loose weight? and how many times a week for how long a day? (link)
Power-walking or running everyday helps. Also gym workouts and eating healthy also helps. Just commit to those and you will see a fabulous result.


okay, im a nineteen year old female and i really want a baby. im NOT old enough, and i know im not ready, but i cant help wanting one. there is no way that i will have one right now, because i dont want to hurt the chances of my child's future, so i WIll wait to have a child. i was just wondering if anyone has ever felt the same excitement for motherhood so young, like me. and, if you have, i was wondering how you deal with it, because its been making me sad lately. (link)
Having a baby is a lot of responsibility. You should focus on your future first before starting a family. Once you have a baby in your life, you have to focus more on the baby then anything else you have going on for you. No freedom at all.


What are the perks of abusing Vicodin? I dont understand why people abuse it... Please let me in on the secret? (link)
Well people abuse vicodin to relieve stress. Taking excessive amounts of vicodin is lethal. A lot of people already died of this drug overdose.




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