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what color are amber colored eyes? yellow/gold, brown, or green? (link)
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Yeah, they're a yellowy or a reddish gold.
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ok when a guy asks you to "give him head" does that mean to give him a blow job? if not then what are you supposed to do?? (link)
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Yes, giving head is the same thing as a blow job.
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okay so i just had my birthday party and i invited my ex. and for some reason we started falling for eachother again. the night wqas perfect. until i found out that he yhad a gf ...... yeah and they have been on and off for a year. anyways... after that i felt horrible for his gf and didnt feel like talking to him. now he texts me every night and calls me baby and beautiful and tells me how much he likes me. and i hate it and love it at the same time. i love it cause i want him to but i hate it cause i feel horrible for his gf. what do i do?? everyone is telling me that i only live once and to go for it but i dont know......wwe went out for five months btw. please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Tell him that you're interested in him but that NOTHING can happen between you two until he breaks it off with his current girlfriend. And really consider if you want to be with this guy..if this is how he treats his girlfriend, is he going to treat you the same way? If you just want to have fun, though, I'd say go for it, as long as he breaks up with his gf.
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why does in michael moore's documentary bowling for columbine he say that people in canada do not lock their doors. people can come in and out and like do stuff in houses and leave??? how is that allowed? (link)
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He was pointing out a difference between Canada and the US. In the US, it seems like everyone is out to get eachother..in Canada they aren't afraid of eachother, which may make them a more unified country. There aren't as many burglaries in Canada, so they don't have to live in fear. Canada has the #1 living standard out of every country..so if the US wants to achieve that then we're going to have to stop killing eachother and stealing from eachother.
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My period is a few weeks late. I've been stressing out because I haven't gotten it. I am a virgin, but I never missed my period before. Does anyone know how much underweight you should be to skip or have a late period?? I'm in the 5'7-5'9 height range & I'm between 118-120 lbs. The thing is, a year ago I weighed approximately 158 lbs. I've gotten my period every time though, so I'm not sure why I'd skip it now. I get random cramps & ovary pain, but not my period. Also, a few weeks ago I had brown spotting but it stopped after a few hours. Do you think its because I'm underweight?? I have a doctor's appointment, but not until September. Does anyone have any ideas?? Thanks!! (link)
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A change in eating habits definitely alters when you get your period. So don't worry about it. Irregular periods are perfectly normal for teenagers, so I wouldn't even bring it up at your doctor's appointment.
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i'm going to be a junior this year, and in my schedule i have two ap classes: AP Psychology and AP US History. the thing is, i only signed up for AP Psychology and regular US History, NOT AP US History. i don't know whether i should switch out of that class or not. i'm scared about the workload and i'm not even that great in history. i took AP World History last year, and i only got a 3 on the AP exam. so i don't know if AP US is going to be the same, but i don't think i can handle having 2 AP classes while studying for the SAT's.
what should i do? i know it's better to have more AP classes, but i'm not sure if i can handle all the work. should i switch out to regular US History? (link)
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I would switch out to regular history. You obviously already did some thinking and came to a decision about whether to be in AP or normal, so don't let a mistake in your schedule make you question your decision. During APs and SATs you will be very grateful to not have to worry about it, and although its good to take APs, it doesn't look good on college applications if you take one and then don't do well on the actual AP. But AP psychology..very impressive.
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Guys always ask me if I masturbate! And its so awkward becuase if I say yes than they'll be like your a whore lets have sex and if i say no then they'll think I'm a slut.
So what are some things I could say to kind of avoid the situation.
Not like "that's none of your business!" but more like, "Always. I picture you naked." (Like sarcasm).
Thanks!! (link)
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"Always. I picture you naked." is a pretty good one but when guys ask me that I usually just raise an eyebrow and they get the hint that their question is a little awkward.
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About two months ago I told my boyfriend that I loved him, I 100% meant it and I (apparently wrongly) thought it was a good moment to say so (one of those "charged" moments lolz.) He didn't say anything for about 3 minutes and then said that he didn't want to say it back until he meant it. He didn't say it in a harsh way or anything, but he was very clear what he meant. I'm not going to pretend I wasn't upset, and I was wayyyy embarrassed, but I accepted it cos I thought it was probably better him saying that than him lying. I haven't spoken to him about it since, but ever since then he's been very definitely acting weird... not incredibly, but stuff like he doesn't really compliment me anymore or tells me he misses me and stuff like that. At first I thought I'd try and initiate him saying it, but that wasn't really working and I was really paranoid about looking clingy so basically it has all ended up with me distancing myself from him as well, because of my paranoia. I don't like being like this because regardless of how he feels I do love him, and he's moving away to college in a different state soon and the general idea before was that we were going to stay together... I don't know if that will work if we're still like this, but I really want to make it work in general. Please help! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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Avoiding the elephant in the room is just going to distance you. So I would talk to him and say "I still mean what I said the other day, but I just want you to know that I'm definitely willing to wait for you to mean it too and I appreciate that you didn't lie to me." You seem like you're pretty open with eachother, considering he was comfortable telling you that he didn't mean it yet, and that you've talked a little about what happens when he goes to college. I hope things get back to normal for you two..
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14/f
How do you make out?
I've never done it before and I'm really nervous about it.
Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
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First of all, the hardest part of making out is actually starting. So when you want to make out with a guy, give him a hug, then keep your body connected, but lean your head and neck back so that you're a few inches away from his face, looking into his eyes, and bite your lip.
If you're sitting down, then just touch the inside of his elbow and bite your lip and look into his eyes.
When it actually happens, tilt your head, don't use too much tongue, open and close your mouth, put your hand on his neck, back, or lightly on his ear, or play with his hair. If you want it to be a fun kiss, give his lower lip a little, SOFT bite.
Don't chew gum beforehand..once you spit it out it actually makes your breath sour. Eat breathmints or use listerine strips instead.
Good luck!
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alright well i was goin out with the guy joe. we started haven problems..like we started fighting like everyday..it started getting better too. this one day i went to hang out with some friends and this one girl beth told me that joe cheated on me with this girl yvonne. beth and yvonne are best friends so i imediatley thought it was true and i broke up with joe. later that night, he came to hang out where i was at. my friends questioned him but he was drunk and he couldnt come up with answers. i went home and cried myself to sleep. i didnt know what else i could do. then the next day he messaged me and denyed everything.i went to my friend annes house and we were on his myspace and we seen a bulletin from this girl kelley that was thanking beth for helping her out. kelley always had a thing for joe. so i thought maybe beth and kelley made up a plan to break me and joe up that way kelley could get with him. in the bulletin it said that she had a guy right where she wanted him and she stole him from a girl. well then me and yvonne were good. everything was okay.. joe just didnt really want to talk to me. so again i started crying. well then later that night we seen a friend up at a gas station and she told us that it was true about joe and yvonne. that joe was drunk that night. and that yvonne told her. i imediately called joe crying and cussing at him. he still denyed it. the thing is yvonne always had a thing for joe, so she might of made it up to see if we broke up. now she denys it ever happened to my face. but people are telling me they told her. i dont think i would believe her cause she had sex with a kid 2 years older than her..willingly and she told everyone he raped her at the party.. but a person at the party said that she was willingly she just felt bad cause she cheated on her boyfriend. joe still denyes it ever happened and i keep talken to him but he says he has to think about getting back together with me. a part of me thinks their trying to cover it up. but i dont know. i cant eat. i cant sleep. i feel sick. im weak. i think i might be pregnant.. even though i still have my periods regularly. a girl i know has her periods regularly and shes pregnant. i have almost all the signs of pregnancy. im so confused i dont know what to think or do. im gettin a pregnancy test but im on my period. should i wait till after my period or should i take one while im on and another after im off? im really in love with joe. and he always told me how he loved me and there was no one else for him. hes one of those really good guys that dont cheat and are cute but not hott and is sensative and understanding and everything. hes a nice guy. i keep crying when i think about him.. (link)
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This sounds like one of those times when you're never going to find out whether its true or not. I'd give it time, and wait until you have a good gut feeling about whether he did it or not. It may all seem really confusing right now, but I think time will help you figure everything out. If a good feeling about it isn't enough, I would talk to more people about it, and get both sides of the story. You may just be getting the pregnancy signs because you're stressed out about this, but get a few pregnancy tests anyways, just to be on the safe side, and I think you can still take them when you're on your period, but I'm not sure, I've never taken one. But if it all blows over and you still feel strongly for this guy, just let Joe know that you're willing to put everything, all the confusion in the past. But let him know that cheating..is NOT ok. You need to trust him before you go back out with him, though, because a relationship cannot work without trust.
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Okay, so my bf and i have decided to have sex for the first time, both of us are virgins. we are mature enough and everything, and i know all about it, but i would just like to hear advice from other peoples point of view. like what advice or tips do u have, and what to expect. (link)
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I don't really understand why some of the advice given below says that you are too young, because you didn't even state your age in your question. I do agree with some things that were said, though.
You should go into a clinic and get birth control. If you're under 18 you can still get bc pills without parental consent, and for free if you don't have a high-paying job. You need to be on birth control for 2 weeks before its safe to have sex without risking pregnancy.
But still use a condom!
And if you haven't "popped your cherry" through other sexual activity or riding horses or something..then I'd suggest putting a dark towel or dark blanket that you can wash down. Because there will probably be blood.
Its probably gonna hurt a little at first, but you will start to enjoy it after a few minutes. Actually, after the first time, you are probably going to ache a little the next day, too.
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okay so my bf fingered me the other day. it was just one finger, but it still kinda hurt. i was completely wet (and by the way, do guy's think that is just a little gross if the girl is really wet), but anyway, if just one finger hurt, then isnt sex going to hurt pretty bad? oh and also, i want to give him a blowjob, and i want him to like it. but im not really sure what will pleasure him the most. (like im scared my teeth will rub against his penis..and that would hurt wouldnt it?) and what does cum taste like, in case i decide to swallow? (link)
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Yeah the first time you get fingered usually hurts for every girl, no matter how many fingers he uses. But fingering does prepare you for sex. Its different for every girl, but when I first had sex I thought it hurt less than the first time I was fingered. And unless guys are really immature, they'll be glad that you are wet when they finger you because it means that they're doing something right. It's a girl's version of having a boner, and you wouldn't be grossed out if your boyfriend has a boner while you're fooling around, obviously, because that's what is supposed to happen. And as long as you don't like..bite..don't worry about your teeth rubbing against his penis because giving head takes a little getting used to. Wrap your lips under your teeth if you're having troubles. And the taste of cum is different for every guy..guys who smoke usually have kinda raunchy tasting cum but for most guys it is just really salty and kinda tastes like egg drop soup.
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Does any one know any websites that you can order big sunglasses from, like pink and white ones. ive looked at macys online and all kinds of other places, and i have only found black sunglasses that where actually big. so can you give me like links to pink or white big sunglasses. the bigger the better.
thnx.
xoxo (link)
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urban outfitters
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For over a month now I have been pulling all-nighters up to about 10am-1pm. Now I have a job at Timmys and it requires many early morning shifts. Because of this I usuallt have to make sure I have a cofee before I go to work cause the lastest these shifts go to is 4pm and I can easily stay awake if I try. The problem is I am sick of staying up all night with nothing to do. I keep trying to fall asleep, counting sleep doesnt work anymore and since school is starting and I recently hung out with a boy I like I find it hard to concentrate on sleep. For the last 4 nights I have been lying in bed for a good 5 or so hours trying to sleep. Can anyone help me fall asleep? Any tips? School is starting in abotu a week so I cnat afford to loose anymore sleep! Thank You 14/F (link)
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When I was younger, I was an insomniac for a few years so I learned a few tricks after a while.
1. drink chamomile lavender tea
2. go for a run or do some sort of intense exercise about an hour before you go to bed
3. make sure the temperature in your room isn't too high
4. write in a journal for a little while before you go to bed so you can get stuff off your chest..like boy troubles or anything you're worried about
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ok
for a 14/f
who is 5'5" 150lbs what size pants and shirts would she be.
also 5'5 130lbs?
i'm planning on losing weight i am on a excellent diet plan and have lost 13lbs within the last few weeks. (link)
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Its hard to say, because it really depends on your body type and how much of the weight is muscle. I'd say that 5'5 150 lbs would probably be a large for a shirt size, but its hard to say what size of pants you are, and 5'5 130 is probably a medium. But your best bet is just to go into a store and try different pants and shirt sizes until you find your general size. Its also difficult because sizes vary from store to store. But if you're on a diet plan, you might want to buy clothes that fit a little tight to encourage you to lose weight.
Just wondering for personal reasons, what is your diet plan?
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hey. i was wondering.
whats the right weight for a 16 year old female who's 5'4 and 1/4?
and how can i get to that weight?
i'm 142 right now. i'm looking for about 10lbs off.
is that too much? or too little?
i don't really care how long it takes me too lose it.
i gained a few lbs this weekend from pigging out on junkfood.
but i'm willing to stop and eat healthy.
help? (link)
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The normal weight for a teenager who is 5'4 is 120 pounds, so 5'4 and 1/4 is probably 121 or 122. Eating healthily will help a lot, but even just decreasing the amount of food you eat, whether its healthy or not, will make you lose weight. Bike riding is also a really easy way to lose weight..and pilates. You can buy a pilates video online or take an actual pilates class. I reccomend just joining a sports team, like soccer or basketball. Something where you run a lot. Good luck!
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is the verizon chocolate phone mostly designed for people who want to listen to music on their phone? because i'm considering getting one but i'm not really interested in using my phone as a music player.. so i dont need all those extra features (link)
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You have to pay extra for Vcast (the music program on the phone) but if you don't want it, they can leave it out. My friend has the new chocolate and she loves it as a phone but barely listens to music on it.
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alright, i smoked weed a month ago back. i hit a gravity bong, and it was my second time ever getting high.
long story short, i think i murdered my memory. and unless if i "lock something in" i can't remember it, so like im not able to remember where i put my cell phone or wallet.
also, if im not preoccupied, my mind wanders, and i can feel like im having an out of body experience.
i have quit intaking all substances that are harmful, quit eating chips and junk food.
any sure shot way to get my memory back, or to at least trick myself into at least thinking im fine? (link)
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Personally, I think its all in your head. Smoking weed two or three times isn't going to have any longterm effects on your memory. As you grow older, and you have other things on your mind, its normal to forget and misplace random things. But if it continues, and starts to bring your grades down, you might want to check if you have ADD or something..but I realllly doubt its from weed.
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i use the crest white strpis (the 5 minute kind). and after i take them off, i still have the gel stuff on my teeth and it tastes really bad. should i keep it on or wipe it off my teeth?
also, i use a retainer after, so would it turn my retainer white?
thx! (link)
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I use them too, and after I take them off I either rinse with mouthwash or brush my teeth. The gel is only supposed to be on while the strips are on, so its fine to take it off when you take the strips off. Its not going to turn your retainer white because crest white strips don't actually bleach your teeth, they remove the stains.
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I was very sick yetsterday since i had a stomoch ache due to periods.I cudnt call my boyfriend the whole day yetserday even tho i was supposed to cos i could hardly talk (bcos i was having a severe pain).So instead i called him last night.He was really pissed with me.you see while browsng hi5 the day before yesterday i came across a celebrity's profile.My freind natasha is crazy on him.So I mailed that celebrity on behalf of natasha to ask him his handphone number cos natasha couldnt go online to do so since she has a computer breakdown.
My boyfriend has seen the mail yesterday and he thinks i mailed that celebrity becos i'm crazy on person or something.
so he was really pissed with he. he says "if u can mail that celebrity to ask his phone number why cant you call me?, havent you got time?"
I love my boyfriend aloooot and it hurts me the way he talks.I think the world of him and i think he's the most handsomest guy on earth.How do i explain this to him?
I know he loves me alot too.
He probably thinks i dont love him at all.
please, what do i so about this. please help me.
I'm really depressed.
I wopuld sure appreciate it alot if i could get some help (link)
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Well you should put yourself in his shoes, and understand why he was hurt that you didn't call him. Next time, if you're in the same position, you should at least text him or email him and tell him that you're not feeling well, and then call him right away when you feel up to it. But, just make sure you show him in other ways how much you love him, and how special he is to you. Leave little sticky notes in his textbook that say "I love you" so that he can find them during class or while he's doing homework. Make him dinner and when he asks why say "to make up for not calling you the other day." Every couple has little spats like these, and trust me, as long as you make it up to him, they aren't going to threaten your relationship at all. Just let him know you're sorry, and don't let it happen again! Don't let a little thing like this ruin your relationship, even if he hurt your feelings when he was angry. If you show him how much you care about him, he's not going to worry about a random celebrity coming between you two.
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