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hello :)My name is allie and i'm here to help everyone with their problems.
I am a 15 year old girl so i can relate to most problems having to do with that kind of stuff & i love helping people. i hope to be a guidance counselor or something close to that profession when i grow up. i like most stuff that 15 year olds like and thats basically everything you need to know about me :)!
Well enjoy my page & ask if you need ANY advice at all ♥
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18 years old/female.
K, this is the situation I am in. There is this guy that I work with that I simply can not get out of my heart. This is the 4th year I have worked with him, and for all of that time I have found myself attracted to him in a big way. At first I just felt like it was an adolesant crush, I mean I was 14 afterall and crushes are not a rare thing at that age, they come and go. But this one came and has yet to go. Anyways, quicknotes version- He is 2 years older then me and impossible to read! I am oblivious to flirting-incoming or outgoing- and don't know how to tell if he has feelings for me too. Most of the time I really just wish I could forget about him, but something won't let me. It's not like an obsessive kind of thing where I think about him 24/7, he just seems to find his way into my mind in the quiet moments or when I'm admiring a beautiful sunset or watching waves break on the ocean I wish he were there to see it. But yet thinking of him often makes me sad, and sometimes even angry or frusterated. If I'm not even sure how I feel about him how am I supposed to tell how he feels about me? And how can I tell how he feels about me? I'm sorry this is so long I can just use all the help I can get. If LOTS of people could all give me their opinions and advice it would me great!!! I will rate you.
well if your good friends then start out by asking him if he'll go with you to like.. get your mom a present at the mall or something.. something where he wont suspect that you like him a lot and go from there.. if you have a really good time there you'll know hes the one for you and maybe you can ask him if he wants to do that again sometime.. in my opinion thats the best idea because then you can see him again and he'll think its casual.. just make sure you look casual yet really pretty so he thinks its just friends going to the mall together
idk i tried my best and this is a tricky situation but seriously GOOD LUCK :)!
There is this boy at my school. Last week, I did not know him at all. My friend knew him and showed me his myspace. I sent him a message asking if he knew my friend and he said yes and we began talking. We had never talked in person. I told him I would say hi to him sometime at school. I think he was beginning to figure out I had a crush on him. Today he was standing in the lunch line behind me and I thought it was the perfect chance. So I said hi and we talked shortly. Then I said "see you later" and that was it. I don't know what to do. I get shy when it comes to talking to him at school. I feel like I am being annoying over myspace though. Everyone tells me he is down to earth, nice, and funny. I just don't know how to get closer to him. I really want things to work. We can never have any classes together because he is a grade younger. He is so my type and I really want to tell him how I feel, but that would be too fast since we barely know each other.
Any takers?
It's a toughie, but PLEASE help.
this is a toughie but i think this may help
okay well i think you should ask your friend (the one who showed you his myspace) for all 3 of you to go to a movie together or for all 3 of you to hangout and then go from there, if its bad then you wont consider it a date and if its good then ask him if he wants to hang out again. Plus you probably will be a little better with your friend tehre because they are friends already so it wont be so awkward with her there for comfort :)
well i hope that helped in some sort of way and good luck with the whole situation
my friend new that i liked this guy alot and secretly she liked him even though i asked ehr she did and she lied and by the way she is my best friend and she cries easly and i want how i should tell her that I'm really mad at her
bring it up in a place where she cant get distracted or anything so she can really listen to youu and maybe you should bring it up with truth or dare and ask her if she likes him. if she says yes then you dont have to tell her you already knew and just talk to her about it and if she says no then tell her you really think she does and see what she says
i know its not really that good of solutions for your problem but i really think it might work and sorry if it didnt help :( good luck and i hope everything turns out for the best
Does anyone know of some good country songs, preferablly somewhat easy to sing, that are played mostly using guitar? I need one for talent show!
Thank You
i dont like country songs at all but this song is probably my favorite country song so far.. dont worry bout a thing - shedaisy :)
i want to be a psychologist and open my own business in new york. are there colleges that specialize in psychology? if so, what are they? any in new york? how many years of school & doing what? what do you do? how baout pay? how much time would it take up? and how hard is it to open my own business? what are some of the fields of psychology?
5's if you answer any of my questions.
i want to be a psychologist too someday and here are some great sites for information about them & the job :)
- http://www.bls.gov/oco/ocos056.htm
- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychologist
.. okay well to answer some questions.. idk if there are any colleges that specialize in it but pening your own business will take a lot of work. after you go through all the work then hopefully your business will come out great! :) well good luck!
i work at great clips, and the other receptionist has a huge problem with me. i think she walked in when i told one of the stylists that the manager would never fire her because she sucks up to her. and i think the other receptionist told the manager that, and i got called in for a meeting tonight, what am i supposed to say.. and don't tell me im screwed bc i already know..
if that issue comes up at the meeting then just apologize and say you were having a rough day or something.. do something so you wont get into too much trouble and so she knows you didnt mean to hurt her feelings :)
I have tons of friends, but not in my class.
Well, what I mean is, I'm with the same group of people in nearly all of my lessons. I have a few friends in these lessons, one is my best mate, but I'd really like to be friends with all of the others.
When we started high school a couple of years ago, I suppoe the reason I didn't make friends with many of them was because I was shy, and I'm not sure how to just start making friends with them now.
They've all got their own groups of friends, and I don't know how to just suddenly start being all friendly and stuff.
Have you got any ideas?
hmm maybe you should invite them all to hang out or something or if your birthday is coming up soon then invite a lot of the people to your party and then socialize with them and you can become freinds.. if your still too shy for that then just talk to them about stuff during school and you'll fit in just fine
Well, I'm not sure how to put this. But I am extremely sensitive. I can't really take jokes around my parents but I'm great around my friends. I cry for like, everything, and I don't know how to stop.. is there something wrong with me?
I rate 5's for good advice.
i honestly dont think there is anything wrong with that at all. your just emotional and i can totally relate. for expample i cried twice today for some random reasons, i think maybe, for me at least, i've been through hard times that broke me down more, maybe you have too and thats good too but i dont think theres anything really wrong with it
I met this guy last friday and we had a great time hanging out w/e and we exchanged emails and hes was born in another country and he told me that he loves me in his native language. What does this mean? he won't tell me what it means but i looked it up and thats wat it means.
P.S He's friends with my best friend thats how we met
if he didnt want to tell you in english then he's probably just to shy to tell you.. if you like him back like that then make him feel more comfortable around you by hanging out more or something and maybe he'll tell you in english next time :D!
my bestfriends boyfriend is an ok guy i actually used to have a crush on him like a year ago but eversince theve been going out she never has time for me when shes over my house shell talk 2 him on the phone it gets annoying wat should i do HELP!!!
to avoid a fight with you, you should have a girls day out with her and have you both leave your cell phones at home.. you guys could go to the spa or shopping or something and make sure no conversation about him comes up or quickly change the subject :)
i was wondering if anyone knew of any tips/sites they have on gauging your ears. im at an 8 gauge right now. i rate 5's
well i found a few sites but this one had to be the best because it has tips and evrything.. http://jewelry.about.com/od/bodyjewelry/a/gauging_lobes.htm
its a really good site :)
how do you know if a boy is flirting with you?
well i would consider it flirting if hes always like.. smiling around you and if he starts off conversations with stuff like "did we have homework" and goes from there just to talk to you.. thats what i would consider flirting :)!
I can't find it anywhere ... does anyone know where I can listen to Rascal Flatts ft. Carrie underwood- bless the broken road
online?
well if you go here http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=14151080 its the myspace music site for rascal flatts and it has the song :)
there is this eight grade dance in a month. and it seems like all of a sudden guys are asking girls to go. no one as asked me yet and like i don't care if i don't go with a guy but maybe i would like to... i don't want to ask the guy i want to go with and i don't hink he would ask me cause he's shy about those things. how could i get him to ask me? is it fun to just go with your girl friends? do people who bring dates usually hang with them the whole time?
I've been to some dances and really, it is kind of better to not go with a date because if you go with your friends, you can dance with more than one guy.. and if you go with the guy you like and it turns out you dont like him like you thought then you dont have to worry about it :) so dont worry about your crush not asking you and try to have a fun time with your friends!