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heyy. im lori and im 16. i am currently in senior high school but i can give really good advice if i know what im doing. feel free to ask me anything: love life, sex, friendship, school (im a straigt A student btw), health, music (i play guitar, piano, violin, and i love to sing), etc. hope to help you guys out! :p
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Hey guys, my question is, okay so I always tend to fall for the wrong guy, like the guy who isn't right for me. I went out with two different guys, both are nice, but theres just no chemistry, for me anyways. I liked this guy, who has been around with every single girl, I mean seriously, so it just kills me that I can waste four months liking a jackass like that, but not like other guys who are right for me. Ugh, I'm only 17 so I know I have time ahead of me, I'm just embarassed b/c my friends, are able to get any guys they want, with me I lack experience, to be completely honest. Its like I'm afraid to fall in love. I'm just really afraid of being alone forever :(
So what I'm asking is, why am I so afraid to fall in love, and why can't I fall for the right guy? ugh, is there something wrong with me?
Thanks, I know this was a very unoriginal, ridiculous question, but I appreciate the help!
it's ok to fall for the wrong guy and its very VERY normal, ridiculously normal. im pretty sure that your friends are probably with the wrong guys. i mean, they're not gonna marry the guys that they're with are they? thats not likely. see the dating game is all about trying things out. if this guy is wrong, try another guy, and so forth. so it takes a long time to find the most perfect guy. few people actually marry the first person they date (altho my parents were one of them. haha). so dont be afraid to fall in love. and i can practically guarentee you that you wont end up alone. just try diferent guys out. and trust me, its COMPLETELY normal.
lori 16/f
i love my boyfrined and we have been together for awhile but he is moving soon and i wont be able to see him after he moves so we talked about it and he agreed that we couldnt be together after he moved. we are both virgins and he told me he wanted me to be the one he lost it to. like im ok with it but i dont know if it would just make the break up harder or if it would be the same i just dont want to do something i might regret because i got to attached and cant let him go.....HELP
f/16
if you love your bf, its ok to have sex even if you know that you guys dont have a future together. having sex wont effect the fact the you already love him. it will only show how much you love each other.
lori f/16
ok if you are doing anal and the boy cums in your bum can you get pregnant ?
well YEA. if he cums, then you most likely will get pregnant if you dont use birth control.
I'm fourteen and just finished 9th grade. I go to a religious school one night a week that includes kids from grades 8-12. As a member of the student council, I met a certain 12th-grade boy (well, college now, barely) and we became friends. He, however, seems to want to be more than that. He often seems like he's trying to flirt with me and he keeps asking if I want to "hang out." The only sort of hanging out he ever seems to come up with is moviegoing, which sounds way to close to a date for my comfort. I'm quite willing to be friends with him but I absolutely don't want to date him. How do I send him the message that I don't want to go out with him when he hasn't actually asked me out, exactly? I'm quite sure that he likes me, so I hate just saying no because I know how he must feel. If he said, "do you want to go out with me?" I could use the let's-just-be-friends trick, but he hasn't so I'm very confused about how to let him know that our friendship stops there. Any suggestions?
well you could just go on one "hang out" with him. for all you know, he might just wanna be friends also. and if the "hangout" turns out to be a date, THEN you can use the lets just be friends trick. just try it. once wont hurt anything.
My boyfriend and I have only been going out for a week or two. We're pretty good friends, though. He's straight edge. I, however, am not; I drink casually and smoke from time to time. He doesn't know this. I'm pretty sure he'd be mad at me if he ever knew I had tried it. I really enjoy his company and talking to him, so I don't want to break up over something like this, but I don't want to start off our relationships with secrets. What should I do?
well since he dosnt kno that you smoke and drink, then you mite as well make ur lie become the truth. stop smoking and drinking. try and quit. then you dont have anything to hide. besides, smoking and drinking are bad for you anyway.
would dying my armhair blonde harm my skin?
YEA!!!! it can cause rashes, irritation, allergies, and bizarre itching.
Ok well im only 13/f and i get the feeling that i like NEED to have sex or something. is something wrong? and is there a way to "please" or 'fufill" this feeling?
ummm well a lot of tweens and teens (some even younger than you) who feel like theyre ready for sex. if you feel that you cant help yourself then you can watch porn. watching porn lets you be sexually pleasurable yet you dont have to actually do it. and i agree, you're too young.
Im 14 years old and I just starting masterbating but i noticed blood...is it normal to bleed? Im really scared and i cant talk to my mom about it please answer my question...Im very terrified that i might have done something wrong..
it's actually quiet common to bleed (i wounldnt say normal but...) but teens usually bleed when they are being raped (which means that they arent sexually ready for it) or if they're too young to be doing it.
so i just turned 16 and i have only ever pecked a guy and been felt up. thats it! some of my friends have had sex and ALL of them have atleast made out. I always get the chance to kiss some guy and its perfect but I find a way to get out of it because im sooo nervous. I dont know how the hell to kiss like that! I once pecked a guy and he like opened my lips with him tongue i was like wtf is he doing so I pulled away, then realized he was trying to make out later on haha. It felt so awkward, and I wasn't even involved, which means it will be way way awkward when I am actually kissing back.
I feel so freakin prude and I have to turn down SOOOO many sweet guys because I am too scared to kiss, and theres NO way Im telling anyone I havent before, all my friends think i have because its annoying when they always talk about it. Once when i was drunk I was laying in bed with this guy and we kissed and he tried to make out with me, but i cant remember if we actually did or if i just pushed him away hah. so i consider him my first, but im not sure, i know its sad =/ all i can remember was that it lasted for like 5 secs and it was awkward =p
I know to just go with the flow, but any advice at all?! and also, what if you dont know when to stop since your eyes are closed or what if you miss his mouth should you wait to close them til your kissing? haha any personal experiences or stories are much appreciated! thanks!!
well when hes using tongue, hes only trying to french kiss you (u called it making out but OK). when you french someone, u touch tongues.
dont be scared about kissing and sex. it never goes wrong in a true love relationship. if it does go wrong, then usually its because you guys are not meant to be. sry to sound negative and all but thats the truth. :|
I have a boyfriend, and I really really love him, but whenever we kiss, its like I dont feel anything. I would rather just be with him and close to him. I like feeling his arms around me rather than kissing. It's not that either of us are bad at it, and he likes it, but I just dont that much. What the heck is wrong with me??
well a relationship isnt just about kissing. you dont have to like it to mean that youre in a good relationship. maybe youre just not hte kissing type. dont worry too much about kissing. just have fun with him. thats what love's about. not kissing or sex, but about the fun and closeness of a couple.
I'm 18 and I really need advice. I've been home schooled since the 5th grade because I've been dancing and singing my whole life and I couldn't stay in public school. Well, I've only had 2 boyfriends my whole life, and I've dated but I never did anything with any of them except for the 2. I only kissed the first and I was with him for 3 months, he broke up with me ON our anniversary because he was cheating on me. Then the second one I was with for a little over 8 months and I slept with him. Well, aftet he broke up with me he lead me on for a REALLY long time, like a year and a half and he treated me really badly but I didn't know how bad he really was. It's been 2 years since the guy of 8 months and I have been officially together and it's been a year since we've talked. Well, I found out that he is still talking a lot of crap about me to people and I'm still finding out that he cheated on me a lot more then I knew about. Since that guy I've meet other guys, but every single one of them (and I'm not over exaggerating) has NEVER wanted to be my boyfriend. They ALL have only wanted to sleep with me, and because I don't ever want to make that mistake again, I haven't so all the guys just stop talking to me, they say it's because they are busy, but there have been about 6 since my ex and they all started ignoring me after I told them I'm not going to sleep with them and I either want a friendship or a real relationship.... Now, I have a really good life, I have a job I love, a compete in dance, I'm an A student in college, good friends, and good family. And it seems like the only thing I've never had/met, is a good guy. I'm sorry for making this so long but I feel like I needed to explain. Has anyone else my age/older ever been in my shoes? I know I'm still young but, I feel like I'm never going to find someone. I long to have someone I can hug and hold and call my boyfriend. Someone that for once won't cheat on me and won't call me names and go behind my back. I'm just starting to lose faith that I will ever find a guy to treat me right, or a guy that will love me or like me for me, and not to get in my pants. I'm not that kind of girl at all. I don't party, I don't drink, I don't smoke, and I don't dress in "I'm a slut all I want is sex" type of clothes. So, what's wrong with me? Why am I only attracting these types of guys? Am I ever going to find someone? I know that being in a relationship isn't the most important thing in life. But it's hard being alone and never knowing what a good relationship is like at my age. It kills me to see EVERY friend I have in what seem like perfect relationships. ALSO I'm not trying to be cocky, that's not how I mean it but I am not an ugly girl either, I've got a decent face and I've been dancing since I was 3. And I train for at least 8 hours every other day at least, so I'm not like big or something if that's what anyone thinks is the reason. I mean I'm not the most beautiful girl in the world but, I've seen people less attractive with great boyfriends. And I'm not shallow or picky either.... I just need help!!!!
well, true love comes naturally. if you're a beautiful, nonslut girl, there's gotta be somebody who is or will be interested in you. there are a lot of decent men out there. dont be too anxious to find love. let love find you. if you're too anxious, all you'll end up with are scumbags who care about nothing but sex. dont go around showing off you're goodies. just go on with your normal happy life with a smiling face. there's gotta be a guy who is attracted to that face and not your body. trust me on this one.
and well... if you end up not finding a bf, then not to be negative but mayb you're not meant to find a boyfriend. i mean, you can still be happy without a boyfriend. there are a lot of single women out there....
but just live normally. a guy will find you.
I am still in love with my ex. When I think about him I get all hot and bothered. I want to let the thoughts of him go but its been hard. It has now been a year since we've been together. I need help to shake him. What should I do?
well y did yall break up? if it was because of him then u shud just try and get ovr it by seeing someone els. if it was because of you, then you shod really talk to him abt it. bc chances r, hes still got feeling for you too. let both him and you give urself a chance to do something abt the reason yall broke up. if you solve the reason, evrything after that comes very easily.
16/f
i'm in love with this guy, hes the same age as me and everything about him is amazing, except one thing- he smokes pot. this is my #1 turn-off in a guy. he doesn't do it alot but i still don't like it. we've only been technically "dating" for a few weeks and i just recently found out- he didn't tell me, idk if he was going to or not, but i dont know what to do, should i stay with him?
if you really care abt him, tell him that him smoking really bothrs you and for him to pls stop. if he dosnt, u either break up wiht him or deal with him smoking pot. if really depends on how much u hate for him to smoke and evrything.
I know it's long but please read... I need advice.
Hi I'm 17 f, and I've been talking to this boy for about 2 months out, and at the beginning he said he had a girlfriend and he wanted to talk to me as a friend but as time went on, of course we started liking each other. And now he tells me I'm the girl of dreams but like he doesnt know what to do because he has a girlfriend and he wrote me this really sweet love poem and he always tells me he loves me and he seems so serious but I can't tell. Then like I went to dinner with him for my birthday and he paid for my food and even got me the cheesecake he knew I liked and he kept kissing me on the cheek the whole night and hugging me and everything, he even told me he loved me in real life. But the thing is, I dont understand why he doesn't break up with his gf if he likes me so much? Am I supposed to just wait around or what? And I always try to talk about it with him but he always tries to change the subject and says he doesn't care about her and stuff. We talk on the phone like every night and he ALWAYS calls me, I never call him, but I'm getting so attached and really wanna be with him but what should I do?
if he really loves u, then he wudda broken up with his gf. ur situation is ez: either he's taking advantage of u or hes taking advantage of his gf. or hes not taking either of seriously.
anyone know how to get blood stains out of your clothes?
u can first try soap cuz sometimes its that simple. if that dosnt work try toothpaste or detergent. if that dosnt work im afraid u can either leave it like that or use bleach.
what do you do when someone breaks your heart?:(
well... first u think of that person as a bastard or a bitch then u relax urself and git ovr it. its that ez. if tahts too rough, just talk to him or her. and if that doesnt work, find another special someone. relax and no matter wat, dont cry. thnx.