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hey my names jody, im 15, i live in Beloit, Wisconsin and i go to Turner, im a freshman(supposed to be a sophomore) im not a mean person even tho i can be sometimes, im not a person whos known to fight a bunch of people, but i have gotten in a few...and havent lost ANY so im not really a weak person if you think about it...i dunno how good my advice is...but i try to give the best advice i can!

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alright this is totaly getting to me and idk what to do ....... last night i called my guy and he was like well i cant talk now can i call you back ... and then last night he called and we were talking and he never really said anyhing .... well then this moreing i called my friend and she was like yeah last night i talked to you boyfreind and his freind and i was like wait what time and then she said and it happend to be after i called him and b/4 he called me and he knows how much ( oh yeah they talked on the phone) much i dont like him tlaking to her and then this moring after i found out that they were talking he wa slike oh he was like i didnt know you wanted to know and i dont think he was ever gunna tell me and now he is trying to figure out wiht is rong with me and he isjust SO STUPID... idont what to do im so tired of crying please help and dont say break up wiht him ... PLEASE

first of all...why would your "friend" talk to him on the phone? answer that question yourself....if your bf cant respect your wishes then he aint worth it...and your friend....you need to figure out wether or not shes doin somethin to either try to get you 2 to break up or tryin to get him to cheat on you

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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!

he thinks your ugly

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ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!!

of course its gonna hurt dumbass...it always does the first time....

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My fourteen year old daughter has been going out with this nineteen year old boy since the beginning of January, first of all she lied to me saying that he was sixteen. I am quite worried about this. Can somebody help me and tell me what I should be doing. She is my only daughter, in fact my only child. I am worried. Help.

can you say...overprotective????

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so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost

yyour life..ee....reeeally..f'd up

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What do you do when you absolutely love a guy and love doing everything with him except kissing him?! I don't really like kissing my boyfriend, it's kind of gross/boring..what should i do?

get a life

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I was wondering what straighteners are good to use? like not get it chemically straightened but with a flat iron. ive been looking for a good one but i cant find one. what is the name and where can i find one? also is there anything to put in my hair like after a shower or somthing that would make it straighten better? thanks

( will rate )

revlons the best

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13/f. OH MY GAWD. K so like I just have a 5 person orgy. (we usd condums) but the guy I was doing at the time has an std and he wore a condom but it broke and he spermed in me. And then I had sex with 2 other guys and rubbed my vagina on a chick. We all might be in danger. Today my vagina was bleeding! What do I do? I might be pregnant and have an std, and Im apposed to have sex again today with a different guy! Wut do I do?!?!?! help me!!

xoxo

P.S. Dont call me a slut cause im not!

umm...dont call you a slut?....that is slutty...you are fuckin 13 years old...that shyt is just fuckin nasty!....get a life...or whats left of it...cuz most likely you do have an std amd you're gonna die...hey i know...GO GET SOMEONE ELSE SICK YOU FUCKIN DUMBASS!!!!

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For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think?

depends on how sexually active they are...if theyre really active they prefer sluts...if theyre like any other guy they prefer a virgin..and then theyd just wanna take their virginity....guyz are retarded like that...lol..j/p...hope i helped! XoxO

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

everybodys can last from 3-7 days

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i think my best friend and i are slowly becoming a person you just say hi to in the hallways. she only hangs out with her other friends and is dumping me for them all the time. what should i do?

get other friends...if shes moving on....you might as well do the same

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is it wrong to like ur boyfriends best friend?

nooo....like whoever you want...if people got a problem with it..tell them to kiss you're ass...its none of their business...

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I have a friend that sleeps with a lot of people, I tell her it's bad but she still does it. Well one day during lunch she took a pregnancy test (she never uses protection, and she's been pregnant before but had a miscarriage) and well it came out positive. She got home and somehow her mom found out, and was like "How many times are you going to do this, you act like a ho, stop sleeping with people" and stuff like that. And then she told me she took another test and it came out negative saying that she wasn't pregnant. So that's what she belives, she thinks she isn't pregnant. Is she pregnant? I heard that the only time pregnancy tests can possible lie is if it comes out negative, and that if it comes out positive then she's defninitley pregnant. Which is true? Is she pregnant?

more likely yes than no

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ok so i have this friend... we were best friends last year and the year before but when school started this year she ditched me for this new girl even though i did nothing! and so now- shes moving in march! and she called me and im the only person that knows and she hasnt even told her new best friend and she told me im still her best friend forever and she just was hanging out with that girl because we are on different teams and she is all alone! and so yeah but then we got back to school and she started ditching me again so i am thinking about just telling her wtf we are not best friends but i dont know wahat to do!

shes 2 faced..talk to her about it..if it dont work...jus forget it

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my friend katie has a horrible reputation. she is 15 years old, and has been sleeping with MEN since she was 12. she has slept with over 10 people. last year, i had a boyfriend of 11 months. we broke up because my bf cheated on me with katie, and lied to me about it. i was mad at her forever, and i even got suspended because of her. i forgived her, and she promised me she'd never do it again... so she broke her promise. i'm going out with this guy.. we've been off and on for almost 6 months. katie has somewhat of an idea that me and him are together. my bf called her to apologize for a fight they got into a few weeks ago. she was like "ohh well im going to be home alone tonight if you want to hang out" and ryne (boyfriend) said okay and flashed back to me (i was on the other line). he said hes going to go along with it, and he called her back. she told him that she likes him and everything, and she doesn't want me to find out. ryne is going along with everything and he wants me to go along with him and stuff. us three are in the same algebra class and if i see her flirting with him, i will go crazy. what am i supposed to do? go along with it or go nuts ? i can't hold my feelings in very long.. and she has no idea i know anything..

i rate high for anything.. even an effort
sorry for the length.. and if it's confusing
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

well...first of all shes NOT you're friend...and you need to tell her to stay away from your bf....and if she dont listen...then you aint got no other choice...kick her ass

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hey i need a new sn bc ppl i dont no ims a lot so i need a new one but i can never think of a new sn
i like ole miss i playing baseball for our school team the indians and i like the braves

how bout XxBrAvEsFaN then whatever #'s you want..maybe #'s that have something to do with the braves

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i used tew be really shy and all of a sudden i made a big change all of my friends see it to, i dont think a lot of people exept that im changing.........and im not sure but a lot of people started calling me a slut or a hoe and like a whore and i dont no why, and even if i was doing somting it would only be with my boyfriend and its not even there buisiness, im so confused

thats life...i went through the SAME thing...and i was only in 6 grade

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ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good!

they all start at dif ages

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Hi one of my friends is way bitchy and she always tsarts arguments like if i have a reason to be mad at her instead of saying sry she just turns the table on it and gets mad at me! what do i do and dont say*taklk to her blah blah because it didnt help!

if shes bitchy be bitchy back...aint no point in being nice if she isnt!

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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..

well...you're not a hoe...but make sure you're REALLY ready...cuz if you do this..you might end up regretting it

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