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Every girl wants Prince Charming...and while he may be nice and all...I'm thinking that I'd rather have the guy that's gonna call at 4am just to say hi, or someone who'll stop by my house- after just hanging up the phone- because he wants to see how I'm REALLY doing. Because I said I was fine, but we both know I'm lying. Or the guy who'll stay home on a Saturday night with me because I'm sick and bring me my favorite kind of candy...even though I can't eat it because my stomach flips at the idea. That guy- that one guy...he may not be Prince Charming to anyone else...but he'd be my hero. My "knight in shining armor." Anyone who'd rather stay home on a Saturday night and hold my hair back while I puke...that's a hero...
What is cute, cute is young and inexperienced, cute is holding hands in the car and kissing at the red lights,what is sexy, sexy is standing in the rain as you push me up against the hood of your car, tearing my shirt as you kiss me with the intent to never stop; what is passion, passion is knowing what you want and stopping at nothing til you get it; what is beautiful, beautiful is about the inside of a person, beauty can only be found in the heart, passion is putting your heart in what you do, what is love, love is the amazing balance of all these things on your mind, heart, body and soul.
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Ok my name is Tiana and I am a female and I am 14 years old. I have a boyfriend named Keith. Ok to cut a story really short my mom talked about my boyfriend behind his back and smiled in his face. I told my boyfriend what happened. He told his mom and his mom said that she was talking to my mom and she said tha what my mom was saying sort of sounded like she is using my boyfriend. Today he just dumped me and said I will still love you but I can't be with you until we become indepedent! I feel so hurt! Should I try to get him back. What should I do?????? (link)
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wow that is sad, theres 2 bad sides the BIG bad part is that your mom needs help...really! im not trying to be mean but normal moms dont go around using N braking up their 14 yearolders b/fs talk to her, ask her why she did that...and dose ur b/f think, your 14 u can become independent till ur 18 i thought...well talk to him to and explain urself...maybe theres somthing that can happen...um.. but i ahve one question, what was she using him for??
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im such an idiot. Ive quit smokin even though there ciggerates in my locker and i havent have a shot or any liqur in like 2weeks. ive stop cuttin and everything. Until today. my mom wont quit yellin at me for stuff that i did do or didnt so i cuttin my side it really bleeding. Im like on my 6th paper towel but its slowing down. My life is screwing up again i dont think i can survive another downfall. Thanx for listenin bye
*dead soon*
p.s. ive seen a consular and they sux, they make life worst (link)
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Okay well try to find some other way to put all ur anger to, like um..anytihng idk try somthing like nextt time u go to cut urself take like somthing else...stuffanimal rock pillow if needed, and dont get into doing shit with guys just for fun N all yes i know fun! sounds cool, just get a bf just make sure therers no STD's and all bekuz i dont think you wanna gothrought that...um...here are some things that you could go to to get help, i think u dont like consulars because they are talking to u bout somthing they ahvent went throught, soo here are some places where ur talking to N stuff wit people that have been in ur situation, http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html
http://www.shatteredinnocents.com/self_injury.html
Hotline for Teens who Cut: 1-800-366-8288
National Teen Emergency Hotline: 1-800-448-3000
there i hope i helped even a little bit...if u need anything just ask! **Sara**
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okay well i really like this girl and i asked her out before and i kinda got a no out of that but i heard that if i ask her back out she will go out with me. i really dont want her to say no to me again. What do i do?!? (link)
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alight, well i think u should go for it i mean yes everyone is scared of rejection but thats somthing everyone has to deal with...and what do u mean u kinda got a no?
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Hello, I may be pregnant with a seperated mans baby. Now I'm thinking of all the scenarios that could happen and need advice. I want what's in the best interested for my child. Now this man is technically still married and has a child with his wife, they all have the same lastname. If I had the child and was not married, is it wrong to give the child my lastname? What about child support issues? I'd never keep the baby from his dad, but what if the father denies this baby? I would want to put him on the birth certificate but what if he's not there, can he still be put on it? I live in the state of Pennsylvania. Please any advice would help. (link)
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okay first of all make sure your pregnant, then if so talk to the father, tell him the situation and le thim know he is the father and that he needs to help, it sounds like you are fosure keeping the baby but if things start to not work out remember there are always other things you can do as in adouption. No, its not wrong to give your child your last name, talk about the child support issue wit the father in question and same wit if he will take any responsibility for the child. i hope i helped even a little if you want to know anything more about adouption feel free to sk i know alot about it!
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i am 19. i am in a 5 year relationship and we have a one year old son together. i am going to college to be a nurse. lately there have been a lot of problems between my b/f and i. well i was going to move out, until i found out that i am pregnant. now i have cancelled my new apartment and am staying here for now. i know that we will not be together forever and i do not want to raise two kids alone. i am considering abortion and have an appointment scheduled for next friday. my b/f wants the baby and is excited. everyone in our family already knows that we are expecting again. i am too young to give up my life completely. i do not know what to do. if anyone has any advice i would really appreciate it. by the way, i am 8 weeks pregnant and due on christmas. PLEASE HELP (link)
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alright, i am personly hate thet thought of abortion bekuz i was abopted at a young age N i always think of how i would never be in the world if my birth mom took that way out, i think u should try to work things out wit your boyfriend and maybe you guys are just having some problems that can be fixed, i would advise u do try to work it out and if it dosent u dont have to have an abortion there are may abouption places and if you want you can help find a home for yur baby N keep in touch or let them do what they think is best, i really hope i helped!! i think you should even try to have a tlak wit your family and remember DONT EVER GIVE UP YOUR DREAM! soo no matter what i want u to still go to college to be a nurse.
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HELLO I WAS CLEANING MY 1 YEAR OLD SON'S EAR AND ACCIDENTLY STUCK IT TO DEEP AND SLIGHT BLEEDING OCCURED. WHAT CAN HAPPEN TO HIS EAR AS A RESULT OF WHAT I DID. (link)
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alright im not an doctor or anything but i think u broke his ear drum...that can be very painfull frist of all and could become very bad if not taken to doctors right away, they can fix it by a simple surgery there they put a small piece of fake skin almost over the hole N wait for the real skin to grow over it! take him to the E.R. or make a fast appointment!! hope i helped!!
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my friend thinks that she is better than me at evrything and i got so pissed off one night and she pushed me and i pushed her back and then we startd makinout and we did *it* (lol) i dno how to tell my gf... should i?. I NEED HELP (link)
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hey alright i thik i got this...well i think u need to tell your G/F and chances are yeah shes gonna break up wit ya but maybe its for the better, and yeah about the HOW to tell ur G/F m..just kinda say what ahppend get her alone N do it face to face even tho she might totally flipp on u! well i wish u the best of luck!! if u have anymore questions ask!
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Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?! (link)
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Alright, this guy sounds messed up from the start but im not gonna hold it to him bkuz u like him alot, like wit all other gossip situations go to the start [who ever its about or said it] and see whats up, dont let him off wit a light anwser too...lol I hope i helped N the Best of luck!! **Sara**
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What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing. (link)
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If you say "I feel like im not good enough for you" and he says" Your if anything to good for me" thats him wanting u to feel good about yourself and he dosent want u to think hes to go for u because he dosent want u to feel unworthy he likes you alot N wants u to be happy N thats good he feels blesses almost that u picked him! he sounds sweet..if u need anything else or if i took anything wrong u know where to ask!!
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you said u were still a kid so i was wondering (link)
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oh yeah compared to some of the people in here giving advice i am...it sounded good...lol
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I have a schlong.. should i stick it in with or without a condom? eh...??? answer me fast
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um..i think u should shut up! thats not funny...sorry if u thought it was...
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This is Bahamamama0250 i am also a advicenator i was wondering how old you were? lol i had no idea what to put this under though.. so i just choose friendship *sighs*-trix (link)
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Im 14 may i ask why?
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hey ok im 14 and um female... n e ways... my best friend and i have been friends since 1st grade and we have litterally been thro EVERYTHING together. im the type of person who will give u room to grow and branch out but be there for u when u decide to come back. and thats kinda how its been w/ me and her. no big right... well i am also very well known for my apt ability to give advice and stuff. i have helped my friend out of nearly every problem shes ever had and i have no problem w/ this but she freaks out and suspects things of me if i dont have the perfect advice right away. like if im dealing w/ something else and i come back to her she freaks or if i am shocked and momentarily dont know what to say she thinks i dont care... what do i do?! (link)
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remember all friend ships dont work out, people change N move to dif parts of ur life...but still hang out wit her...do things just dont atke all that crap she throws at u! i wish ya the best luck N remember theres always somone out there thats right 4 u in friendships N love...hope i helped!! e-mail me if u wanna... iluvyou3784@yahoo.com
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ok i am in love im sure of it i can imagine getting married to this kid and stuff. but he completely screwed me over. we were going out for a month... i gave up everything for him too like my friends, family, the first guy to give a shit about me, and even skool a little... and then he moved in w/ a friend to go to this skool that would give him a chance. i was happy for him and he made me feel confident that things wouldnt change to much. but well... they did.. a lot. i proly talked to him 2 in 3 months after he moved and i heard all this shit about him cheating right... well i finally gave up and stuff. but i still cant stop wondering about him and the one time i saw him he was at the mall w/ his arms wrapped around another girl and he like ran from me (proly afraid id kick his ass) anyways... i still love him! i kno we could never be together now and that he is a total ass for abandoning me... but i cant help it!! (link)
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is this jolinn!...sry if not..lets call this guy bubba N this guy that gave a shit about u chris...well wait it out N if u havent alredy u can get over him u'll find a gr8 boyfriend and an AWSOME new best friend...hehe maybe a twiN~ lol JK! love ya! Sara
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There*z this kid who ive gotten really close to when my best friend broke up with..but im afraid to ask him out because if i do and he says yes my friend will be mad at me but if he says no then i will be upset..but i cant just let him go becuase i really love him and i cant keep my mind off him..HELP!
13,Female (link)
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okay talk it over with the both of them, what his feelings are for u and tell ur friend that u like him, see how that goes e-mial iluvyou3784@yahoo.com
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ok im 14 and going to be a freshman. i really like this guy still that i went out w/ for 4 months (which is a loooong time for me) at the beging of last year. i broke up w/ him cause i found this other guy who i thought i loved he ended up screwing me over, but anyway i hurt this guy a lot when i broke up w/ him. we couldnt even talk to each other for like 3 months. now we r really close friends and we have recently admitted we like each other still. but i dont know if i should go out w/ him because... well... im afraid im going to hurt him again. i have a problem w/ comitment i guess. (link)
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I have the same problem..i dont like comitment and my longest boyfriend was 4 1/2 months...i think you should go for it, there is a chance that u will hurt him and that he will hurt u but u cant hide foreva...even if somthing dose happend and theres something u can learn from it...im me breathless4u3784 or e-mail me at iluvyou3784@yahoo.com and tell me how it goes best of luck!!
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i really really have a problem with kissing my boyfriend. we've been going out for quite a while now and we've only reached a hug. i really do wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but we're both so nervous. everyone says it will come naturally but we're both too nervous for it ever to come. (link)
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alright...i see what your saying...and yes i know ur nervous and all...maybe if it was somwhere that u and him were just there...movies,someones house...your friends mean well and they only wanna see u happy, and maybe if u want it bad enough girls can make the first move...or just talk about how u guys feel...maybe aafter u got ur feelings out on the table it'll feel better! good luck! IM me at Breathless4u3784 or e-mail me at iluvyou3784@yahoo.com and tell me how it works out!
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Ok, I personally think this is total bull shit but, there's this girl I went out with for 6 months and shit and shes a twin. She broke up with me a little bit ago, maybe about 4 weeks. Anyway, we broke up and shit, and then I had feelings for her sister. I mean like deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep deep serious feelings. I don't know if I should tell her or not say anything so their relationship won't be worried. What the hell should I do? (link)
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Alright....well...tell the girl if that are that deep of feelings they just cant be ignored...the girl i dont think will be that mad..i mean she broke up wit u but still take it slow...girls i can admit are really weird wit that stuff...i think it had been long enough but idk..girls can get really claimy!...if thats even a word...good luck!
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ok say your in deep love but then you see another guy walk bye and say to ur friends oo hottie what does that mean? does it mean the guy you in love with ur not really in love with or is it just normal for ppl to do that? (link)
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Some one is marryed..they watch a movie or t.v look at a star and go "Oh man isnt he/she hott!" that dosent mean they dont love the other person...love is not only looks its the feeling that u getwhen ur around the person and the way they understand u and look into ur eyes its just everything about them big and little...dont worry about it what u do is totally normal..and if that wasnt happening that would be the weird part! lol
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Alright, there's this guy who goes to my friends Church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well a few weeks ago at a concert my friend Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time... All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something.) Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him...and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type. So my friend kind've just left it at that. Well lately I've been noticing him looking at me more and stuff. Like one sunday he turned around and I didn't notice this but my friend Andrew told me Collin was checking me out. So what I want to know is do you think he likes me and... if he does why did he completely turn the tables like he did.. Why did he tell Crystal one thing and Aaron another??
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i think he dose like you...and i mean if he dosent know this girl i dont think hes gonna tell her anything if hes the shy type...ya know...just do what ur friend aaron old u start to talk to him N all...its all good..! good luck!!
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