One of my bestfriends has like tons of guy friends (and alot of them are really hot) they always come up and talk to her. When they come over to her i dont know what to say to make them notice me too!! help with some convo. starters that arent like so how are you and hows it going! ha ha ha!!!
Make yourself known like for example,go up to one of them and just be like "Dont i know you?you hang out with so and so right? my name is ---" and just start talking about what they like,if you see one listening to some music you can relate to thats always a good topic.Just try not to be nervouse.Well,goodluck.
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about a year and a half ago i did something so stupid. i cut a strand of hair in front of my head thinking it was no big deal because i just wanted it gone. then i realized it would grow back. so i shaved it but then i let it grow for awhile..then i couldnt take it and tweezed it.. that lasted for awhile but then recently i couldnt stand the random baby hairs i had in the front of my head from tweezing it so i shaved them off. you think i wouldve learned after one time..but no. so now im stuck shaving this area of stubble in the front of my head 2 times a day..which gives me razor burn and since its on my head it looks like acne. i just dont know what to do anymore. any suggestions of how to undo this mess?
Well,if you can try to cover it up by puting a hairstyle that covers that spot up (doesnt have to be permenent) and let it grow and when it gets big enough part your hair so it blends in.If that doesn't work try big bangs to blend/cover.Hoped that helped some.
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Hey I am going to my boyfriends house and I am kind of nervouse. Any advice on how to calm my nerves and any tips to leave a good impression?
Just breathe and tell yourself that they're guna love you.Just be yourself and try not to be too "hands on" with the boyfriend hold hands,hug,a little kiss dont have hands all over him though . Be polite but dont try too hard beacuse then you come off snoty.Good luck to you.I hope it goes well.
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ok well um lately i have been feeling like i may not only like guys when i look at gurls i dont feel like there just freinds i am afraid to talk about it with my freinds to see if they are going through it to im 13 is this normal????
yes this is very normal. people will wonder.it all depends on if you'd like to act on it.If you act on both guys and girls yes you'd be comsidered bisexual .But for now,dont worry about it alot of people go through it,if u dont find it weird with someone,experiment.There's not much more i can tell you,best of luck to you.
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PLEASE help me! i'm scared and pissed to!
my brother (who is 13 and about 270 pounds- i'm 16, f, and only 115pounds!!) is always threatening to beat the shit out of me! what do i do?? my therapist knows, and she says not to call the police or anything, but to try and let it blow over. when he says something to me (he calls me a lebian or a faggot-so does my mom- b/c i'm bi, also he calls me a highschool dropout b/c i failed 1 year of school!) i really just want to knock him out but he's so big!! and he's so much stronger than me!! ive been known to knock the shit out of some ppl, but they were girls and my size too! he really scares me, and he pisses me off sooo bad!!! he just makes me so mad and he's mean to me and my mother backs him up 100%!! what should i do??? i am tired of living like this!!!
family or not a threat is still a threat and is still illegal,im really sorry your going through this i have a friend going through the same thing cept its the other way around with the age,she had to threaten to call the cops to get them to back off but it only lasted for a few weeks and then it just got worst , so my best advice if it gets really bad just please call the police or tell someone at your school, they can try to help you.and to your question about taking someone big down, hit them in the bridge of the nose or with any guy, wack him in the sac.
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If you have sex with a condom are you still considered a virgin or does it have to be unprotected sex? Just curious.
the reason for wearing a condom is to not get pregnate after having SEX . And not being a virgin is considered HAVING SEX so no you are not considered a virgin.
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Is mastrubation a sin? (religiously)
to some religions, yes,but i donnot think youll be sent to hell for masturbation so i say youd have nothing to worry about
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i have heard different things and i could use some good strong opinions (not flames, dont leave me bruised and battered) on bisexuality from a christian standpoint. i fear i may actually have to read the WHOLE Bible (LONG!) to form my own opinion to be honest. i just know alot of ppl interpret the Bible differently.
thanks in advance
theres no real right or rong, im catholic and bi and i believe god wanted us and created us to love, no matter who its with, i think that the opinions of the religious people have been deluted throughout the years,its just like any other story it gets altered in the years, the truth is, there is no reall advice, i dont think we'll goto hell and if god wont except us for loving then he must really not be god.i hope my opinion helped some,goodluck on your serch.
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My friends want to hang out but we don't know what we want to do. Have any ideas??
if yahll like to play pool,thats always kewl
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What songs are easy to start singing with? People tell me to sing whatever song I want but it's not helping, because I don't sound like the person and it makes me try harder[it messes up my voice]. So any suggestions?
I'm working with "My heart will go on"
Any more songs?
dont try to sound like the person, ur not them you and you have your own voice, pending on your voice range try songs that are easy for your voice try not to strain, itll only hurt you in the long run,hope i helped some
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Hallo!
O.K. so here's the deal. My brother takes me to school each morning in his car. Usually we would just leave at the last second, and get there in time. Now, we're leaving 30 minutes earlier to pick up his friend. I was o.k. with it, but now they're starting to smoke in the car and I get to school with my clothes smelling like smoke. Normally, I would just ask him to stop, but during last summer him and his ex-girlfriend had a baby when he was sixteen, and now I just feel bad for him a lot and I would feel guilty for asking him, because it's probably his way of dealing with the baby (Not that it's the right way.) What should I do?
P.S. not only do I need advice, I give advice,too. So if you need me..uh then yeah :) PL
if you dont want to smell like smoke id recomend bringing body spray in ur pack or w/e u have it should help
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Where did you get your aesome background for you advice column?
i got it from a picture off of photobucket me and my g/f wingsofabumblebee both got our pics from photobucket under hearts.
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Ok i want to makeout with my booyfriend before he moves away forever to a different country. Weve been together for 2 years its great it took awhile for a first kiss but not a true kiss just a peck on the lips. Now i want to makeout but dont think he even knows how and is like really shy i dont want to force him to do something he doesnt want to but i really want to makeout with him. What should i do?
best thing to do, jus do it...no easy way for first time for anything, itll be akward but he'll go with it and eventually as time goes on itll get better and might not like it at first,but u will after a while.
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my friend kayla .. thought it would be a GREAT joke to IM my boyfriend and act like some girl looking to hook up .. and the thing is that kayla has a tendency to make things up .. or to invision things differently when she doenst like the person .. and she really really didnt like how my boyfriend treated me.
well she called me after she 'IMed him' as mandy moody, and he apparently asked her for pictures, her age, grade, and said that he had a girlfriend but wasnt thinking it would last much longer, becuase 'i didnt put out'.
so when i heard this, i got very hurt and very upset. and i tend to make snap decisions and judgements in the heat of hte moment .. so i broke up with him .. now i realize talkin to him would have been a better idea.
the more and more i think about it, the more and more it seems as if kayla maybe did say that just to get me to dump cody .. her own sort of motivation in a way .. because for someone who had such a problem with me not puttin out, he never made any moves .. all the things we did do I INITIATED! .. so i guess my question is .. what should i do .. try and talk to him .. see if i can get him to take me back .. how would be the best way to go about doing that?
guys opinion .. would you take someone who did that back ..?
i mean i wasn't completely happy with how he treated me, but i cant do this anymore. i cry constantly. the only time i dont cry is when i sleep, and then i dream about him. so i wake up and cry more .. i liked this kid for over a year. 7 months of that was trying to get over him. now ive dated him and fell harder, and now i have to give him up. what kills me is i didnt lose him, i let him go ...
i dont think he deserves u, i wouldnt take him back . but as for the friend get her to send u the AIm convo and talk to him about stuff, if u want it to work communicate if not move on, it will be hard but it may or maynot be best for you , i really hope it works out for you.
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This one is for the guys...
Do you all find freckles cute?
i love freckles ,i think theyre the cutest ever.
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ok see i have this boyfriend lets call him harly
he is super nice and super sexi and cute and makes me really happy i want to do sumthin really nice for him to show him i care something completely oober cute and lame, what do you think hed like?
my best advice ,do something thatll suprise him and spontanious guys love that, it always brings a smile to my face atleast.
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well i have never really done IT but im afraid too
i heard stuff like you bleed
it hurts
etc.
people think im lesbian because im to afraid to get sexual
and guys scare because there whores
at least around here
i mean once iget a boyfreind and trust him
sure
but im really scared
because when i do get one
im afraid because i have never really done any hardcore sexual things
WHAT DO I DO
this is really gross
but i have no one to turn for advice
its to embarrassing to ask someone in person
alright, my advice to you is, do it when YOUR ready. the first time for a girl will her like holy hell and it is common to bleed some after you do it the first time after the first time itll get easier.if you dont want to do anything hardcore sexual then dont,if a guy really cares about you he wont presure you.just ease into things try not to let them rush jus some touching and what not.hope i helped. laters
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k, I spent a good chunk of last month at the multinational training center doing gunnery and other army activities. it mostly involved firing the fifty cal machine gun, and vietnam-style wargames against live opposing forces. last weekend, I did this extremely hot lithuanian girl. here's the problem: I got a bigger rush and had a better time running around the german forest wildly firing at anything that moved than having my way with this girl. I'm thinking that's a little messed up. I don't really leave post much, spend a lot of time training, and don't really see many girls (the lunchladies are starting to look hot). is it just an environmental factor showing itself after eight months of nonstop hooah army stuff, or is this a more deep seated psychological issue? And no, I'm not gay.
well,more the 85% of the males in my family have been in the armed forces,its jus a huge rush.unless yah like get a boner from blowing shit up,i have a huge rush doing the same stuff,its nothing strange ,u jus like shooting at shit better then u like doing this chick
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i downloaded adobe photodelux 3.1 but everytime i try to upload the photos onto myspace, photobucket...or anything like that...it doesnt work b/c it's a PDD file. can someone explain to me what to do?
use the debabalizer thats built into the save as program make it into jpeg or gif
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hey, thanks for the advice i just wanted to add that at school he totally ignores me, does that make a difference?
what do u mean does he jsut totaly blow you off?
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