My BoYfRiEnD rIgHt NoW iS aBrEy JaMeS!!!My best friend is Autum Waw, Nikki Joyce and we r like so freakin always goin to be friends. it doesnt matter who trys to stop that from happening. ppl tried last year and it didnt stop us so nothing ever will. (i am knocking on wood like crazy.) lol!
Nicky you are the best!! I LOVE YOU!!
Danielle Babe your the best. I couldnt live without you!!! ;) I LOVE YOU!!!
I hang out with Danielle Semore, Autum Waw, Tera Potts, Austin Hullet Mullet Gullet, Josh Plater, Chris Bullard, Matt Woodard, Nicky Defrange, Nikki Joyce, Kevin Fletcher, Amanda Allen, Sara Carrillo, Savanah Smith, Rebecca Marquez, Brandon Eckert, Thomas Gearinger, Lisa Heflin, Josh Garber, Daniel Kerbow, Ariel Sanders, Shawn Adams, Chris Wood.!!!!!!! ThEy ArE tHe BeStEsT pEoPlEs EvEr!!!
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So my cousin had me meet this guy via phone and we hit it off really well. He's funny and easy to talk to. I started to like him and Im pretty sure it was mutual. We planned to meet up and I was really excited until I learned a little more about him. He's a metal head. lol He's got the long hair and listens to that kind of crazy music. We dont have a lot in common and definately not the same type of friends. He's my complete opposite. So the question.. Which would be worse > To date him and be labeled as "desperate" because he's not exactly my type.. Or not date him and be called shallow because he looks different than what I normally go for? (link)
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well you know what they say.........Opposites attract. I think you should date him and just see what happens. I mean just because hes not exactly like what you are usually going with doesnt mean that you dont know him as much as you could. Ya'll could really have somethings in common and you just dont know it yet. if you want to get to know him better before you date him then go for it but you could learn either way if ya'll have somethings in common that you just dont know about yet.
Good Luck!
signed:ToddsBff
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okay I really dont know what to do..
Heres a little(a lot) about me. Im not gona say alot of details because i know a couple people on here
Okay well im between 13-18 and a guy. I'm in honners classes but doing really bad in them. My parents expect me to be just like my crazy smart sister. My teachers just had a conference with my mom, it went really bad. MY parents are really strict, and they're not the understanding type of parents because they didnt grow up around here. Thats why i can't figure out a way of telling my parents I have ADD everytest I took online (about 25) said that i was ADD positive. Some people think I have it all because of their current job positions and family income. But I really hate my life, n o one knows what it is like to be me. I have 3 or 4 really good friends. But i can practically never hang out with them. I can't have a girlfriend.
I listin to my music all the time, and am forced to study because of my grades. I think of suicide all day, and I am constantly depressed. the other day my room was partially messy(bed not made) and my mom gets really mad( i think she is bipolar) And makes me tear apart my whole room and makes me stay up till 3AM on a sunday cleaning and i had school the next day. My life a always a drag, its basically a set schedual. I can't change anything I have to be what my parents want me to be otherwise I will be looked down upon.
I know I jumped from topic to topic im really sorry. please reply..i need peoples help
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well I think that as long as you are doing the best you can in whatever you do you are doing just fine. But have to tried to get into regular or advanced classes rather than Honors? I think that if you try to do that you might be able get better grades and everything. Just see if you can go to the school counciler and see about changing your classes. You might even see about having a confrence with him/her on everything that is going on in your life.
Hope I Helped! Good Luck! And Do The Best That You Can On Anything And Everything That You Do! if you do this you will be just fine.
signed:ToddsBff
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im 13/f my bestfriend is 13/m and i like him so much!! he knows i like him but he wont ask me out! no one will ask me out because im "uglY" but the guys ive been out with say im beautiful but i dont think so anymore. my self esteem went down, i use to think i was so pretty but the guy i like dosnt like me! but i look alot older than what i am so i get all the older guys but i dont want older guys because they want more from me! how do i get him 2 like me? i know thats a stupid question but ive known him 4ever and ive liked him forever and he use 2 like me 2
please help
thanks (link)
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just be yourself. you shouldnt have to please anybody just to get you to like them for someone your not. I understand about all the older guys and i know that they usually want more from a girl then what the girl wants to give. so just be your self and eventually he might start to like you again. he might just be going through one of his phases that girls just dont understand.
Good Luck! if you need anything else jsut ask and we will be able to answer as best that we can.
signed:ToddsBff
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isit true that girls that dont grow up with any type of male figure in their life wil often cling to a possible male figure that pays alittle attention to them ?
srry if it doesnt make sence.. (link)
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Yes actually this is true. I know that my friend has done that to a lot of guys and well i have almost. she wound up losing her virginity and almost got pregnate 3 or 4 times.
thanks for asking!
Signed:ToddsBff
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Too old for birth control?
Ok I must be the luckiest person on the face of the planet. I have been sexually active since I was 16 and haven't had anything horrible happen to me. I have been tested for AIDS on two occasions and have come back clean (teenagers can just be stupid sometimes you just pray it wasn't the wrong time).
I have abstained from sex for a year and a half. My period is very regular, but it is really heavy. It has always been that way. I am 30 ish and will be married next year. I have never been on the pill or any birth control other than condoms. My boyfriend is catholic (and I will be soon), and although he says its up to me, I wonder why do I bother with birth control now? Granted I want to be married at least one to two years before we have children, but the clock is ticking. I am very torn on this because everything seems to be in "working" order, but what if taking birth control wipes out any chance I ever had of having a child? And is anyone trying to use the temperature method to decide if its a good day to have sex? I know it isn't 100%, but I can't imagine just going haphazardly into this.
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Well in my eyes i think that no body is too old for birth control. and well if you want to have kids then you should. but if you want to have sex then you should use birth control if you dont want to have children.
Good Luck!
signed:ToddsBff
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theres this kid who keeps on saying sup' dog to me and when i dont answer him he sayes a name so evil i cant repeat it even on the computor. this has become a problem because now my friends call me that sometimes. (link)
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well have you tried to talk to your friends or him about this? I think that if you stand up for your self and confront your friends they will most likely stop. They will probably understand and everything. If they dont stop then after you ask them to and talk to them about it then they arent the greatest friends in the world, and they may not really care about your feelings about the situation. so try to talk to them about it and go on from there.
signed:Toddsbff
P.S. Good Luck!!!
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Yes, I realize these questions are asked ad infintum, but here we go.
I am 17, as is my girlfriend. We have only been dating for about 3 weeks, but we have already established a strong bond. I'm working on Valentine's Day itself, so I'm attempting to come up with an idea of what to do on whatever day we both have off that is closest to it. I know that I would like to take her out to eat, but what else? Shall I bring chocolates to give? A picture frame?
Also, she usually comes in to see me when I'm at work and she isn't, and Valentine's Day probably won't be an exception. Should I have something to give to her there?
I doubt she's expecting much of anything, so I would like to surprise her. Give your opinions, plz kthx - K' (link)
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Well i know that I like to get sruffed animals and stuff. My cuzin who is 17 her b/f gives her roses and stuff and she loves them. I think that a rose would be a really sweet gift. I can't really think of anything else to give her at the moment but if i do i will tell you.
signed: ToddsBff
P.S. good luck! and have fun while you are at it! I love to shop for Valentines Day its really fun to just go look at the stuff and everything. good luck again!
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Ok im sorry if this is long but here is my problem....I dont think im attractive i think i am over weight...I always think my friends are mad at me and at times i can be a bit immature...I havent had a real boyfriend only stupid 2 week things and i think its time for sumthing real but i dont know what to do..all of my close family lives in Rhode Island so i never get to see them and my parents fight constantly..This is not how a 16 year old deserves to live...i am so stressed and its affecting how i work and my grades in school..Some times i just go driving around to clear my head...half the times i feel myself crying....On some weekends i tell my parents i am going out with friends and i take the car and i sit in parking lots and cry becuase i dont want my parents to think i have no friends and all i do is sit at home...but i truly have no friends...i am caring but i guess thats not good enough for some people...Please i am in desperate need of help...I wanna stop crying myself to sleep and when i tell my parents i am going to hang out with friends i wanna mean it...I rate! Thanks bunches.... (link)
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let me think i will answer you a lot more later when i come home from school!
signed:Toddsbff
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I cut myself. When i feel super bad i cut myself. And i know it's a horrible thing to do. I need to stop. Does anybody have any suggestions about how to stop? Going to an adult is not an option. Please help. (link)
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ummmmmmm.... i think that when ever you feel like SUPER BAD. a way not to cut your self is to go out side and run as fast as you can or just scream. blow off the steam and let it go but dont do anything suicidal!!! it is very dangerous and it doesnt usually stop there. so just do something like running or scream/yelling and you should do a lot better.
signed:Toddsbff
P.S. hope i helped! good luck and if you need anything else just ask and i will be happy to answer you with the best anser that i can give, bedcause i have been through a lot of things and i know what it is like to have problems like these. (epsecially this one becuz i used to be a cutter too)
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im a girl, and latley (the past two months or so) i feel so sad and ive been really bitchy. at first i thought i may be PMSing. but not for two months! everything just feels sad and i cant seem to think happy thoughts or look on the bright side of anything. and surprisingly it doesnt bother me. like its no big deal, i dont contemplate suicide or anything like that and i dont cry or act all wierd, ive just been really quiet and to myself. i just feel so empty and broken. like nothing matters anymore and everythings worthless. but like i said, its not bothering me, i just wanna know why all of a sudden i feel like this, and what i should do. please help me out, just tell me what you think. thanks (link)
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well it could be that you are going through tough times and you just dont realize it yet. i know it might not bother you now, but later on it will. so just try to think happy thoughts and try reallie hard not to look and the worse side of everything.
hope i helped! good luck!
signed: Toddsbff
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i'm 15/f and have an amazing boyfriend. i love being around him and and doing things with him sexually, but for some reason i don't want to make out. like, he's a really good kisser but i just don't like it. he wants to make out and doesn't understand why i don't. if anyone has any thoughts or ideas as to why this is i'd really appreciate hearing what you have to say! (link)
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well i think that if he reallie is a good boyfriend like you say he is (not that i doubt you or anything) then he will respect you if you dont want to make out. some people just dont like to make out and he just has to except the fact that you are one of those types of people that dont.
hope i helped. good luck!
signed:Toddsbff
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I have a MAJOR delema here! I know I'm not the prettiest girl, skinniest girl, most in-shape girl, smartest girl, preppiest girl, fashionable girl, etc on earth! But I also know that I'm a pretty girl! About 5'3 with long brown hair and eyes, 115lbs... well my problem is that I havent had a bf for more than a year!! And that didnt even count! we went out for like 2 weeks then I found out he was cheating... well lets just say i dont talk to him anymore!! Anyways I feel so not wanted (if that makes sense?), like all the guys dont want to be with me unless its to HOOK UP!! And i absolutely hate that! I'm not a skank at all! I know what yall are gonna say tho: "ohh dont worry your beautiful inside and out and any boy would be lucky to have you" but thats not the advice I need! I just dont know what to do!!! I'm going crazy! I want a boy soo bad but I want a REAL relationship that lasts more than A WEEK!! HELP (link)
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well just take your time eventually when the time is right you will meet somebody that reallie likes you and you will really like him. last year i was having this same problem and well now i am with one of my best friends. sooooo just take it slow and dont get caught up with wanting a boifriend so much. everything will be ok.
good luck.
signed: Toddsbff
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13/f. OH MY GAWD. K so like I just have a 5 person orgy. (we usd condums) but the guy I was doing at the time has an std and he wore a condom but it broke and he spermed in me. And then I had sex with 2 other guys and rubbed my vagina on a chick. We all might be in danger. Today my vagina was bleeding! What do I do? I might be pregnant and have an std, and Im apposed to have sex again today with a different guy! Wut do I do?!?!?! help me!!
xoxo
P.S. Dont call me a slut cause im not! (link)
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i think that you should go to a doctor and get tested for the S.T.D. and to see if you are pregnate. you will have to tell your mom that you want to be tested for it and she might get mad but she will want you to do the best that you can to find out both of these things. and i also advise not to have sex as much as you do with these people but if YOU do USE B/C.
hope i helped. good luck
signed:Toddsbff
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i thought i loved this guy but now were 2getha i no that i dnt. and i dunno how to tell him. ive let it go on for a month n i cnt deal with it any longer and i no its not fair on him. how do i tell him? (link)
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just say that yall are not as close as u were before and say that u would just like to be friends.
Hope i helped. need anything else just ask.
signed: Toddsbff
p.s. good luck
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this one boy who likes me but i don't like him. he is constantly abusing me by hitting me and squeezing my arm really tight. he and his sister are very stockish and i need to get away what should i do?! he won't stop following me. i've asked my crush to talk to him but he's too scared. what should i do?!
signed,
running from a stocker (link)
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you can tell an audlt. they helped me last year when i had a stocker and well all you have to do is tell and they will prollie do something about it.
signed: ToddsBffe
p.s. hope it goes ok and hope i helped! if you need anything else just ask and i will answer as best that i can.
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i don't understand how to kiss. i really nervous and scared but I really do want to.i'm 13 and a female i need advice on kissing (link)
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just follow what the guy does.you will catch on im sure.
signed: ToddsBff
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say you doa weight loss program and you tell sya 2 friends, then your other 2 friends found out you told them something but you really feel uncomfortable if you tell them so you dont tell them, a week paces and you think all is fine but then your friends you diddnt tell started makeing fun of you and you really dont think they should do it. you want to stay friends with them but every thime you try to tell them it just isnt the time and place. so you now have no idea what to. so thats why ikm asking you right know.
please help me
always
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well just ask them to come over one night and say that u really need to tell them somethin then when its the right time tell them and i really think that they will be understanding. i wish u good luck..
signed: ToddsBff
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