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My name is Kristy.I am very athletic and entergetic.My hobbies are swimming,running,dancing,doing gymnastics,and running.I have brown hair,brown eyes,i'm 5'1,and i'm in the 8th grade. I'm on the dance team at my school!! We are the Spartans!! I live in Thibodaux, Louisiana.If ya have yahoo messenger and wanna chat with me, ma name is spartan_dancer_2005. I'm always online so just leave me a message.Well lata!!

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I am obsessed with Lindsay Lohan, seriously, its not good, how can i fix this

Well i got obsessed with somebody already and it just takes time cause i couldn't get him off my mind at all and i was gettin annoyed. But it just takes time untill u just don't like them as much.hope i helped!!



~Kristy~

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what are some tips for me because ma school is really hot nd humid and then ma hair gets really poofed up and unstraight.. what do i do

Well you might want to try some different hair products. The frizz products does work for really poofy hair cause mine used to get like that all the time at school. So i went to a store and I bought differnt products and they worked so mabey it will work on you!!




~Kristy~

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Ok, so I was like in love with this boy last year and I played a harmless prank on him and he totally stopped talking to me. This year he has not said one word to me and he is my chemistry class. It's 2 weeks into the year and he hasn't said a thing. He's on football and I'm in cheer, so we see each other a million times a day. I really want him to talk to me and he just won't. Instead, I'm starting to believe he's trying to like telepathically talk to me or something because he will not stop staring at me. In the morning, he full on stares at me and does not even care if I notice. Sometimes in chemistry, he'll stare at me and I'll look at him and he'll look away, vice versa. These staring games are pretty silly. Other times at lunch, he'll stare and I'll ask my friends to block his view and he'll actually move to get a better look at me. I thought maybe he was staring at some other girl but all of my friends say hes lookin right at me. At football, when the cheerleaders run around the track, he gets so distracted by me that his coach tells him to pay attention. Why won't he just talk to me? He doesn't respond to my emails or nothing. He apparently just enjoys staring. What the heck does this mean?! I really need help. I feel like a celebrity getting stalked by the paparazzi and want to know why he is doing this! Help please!!

I think you should just go talk to him. Either he wants you to go talk to him or he just loves the way you look! So just try talkin to him in person and tell him your sorry for that little prank. Then bring up the email stuff.


~Kristy~

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bestfriend that is a girl: emma
emmas boyfriend *my best friend also* : Kyle
my boyfriend: max

kyle is an a$$ to emma
ahhh
she doesnt really like him anymore and says 'i wanna break up with him' but then she like 'noo i still like him'....... and kyle and max are best friends.... so i told emma she should just break up with kyle but then i dont want kyle to get hurt... but i dont want emma to be tortutred with dating someone who she doesnt really like... how do i help both of them?
ill rate high if its good

Just because she still likes him that doesn't mean she should get treated like that. And if Kyle doesn't want to get hurt, then he shouldn't treat he like crap. Maybe you should just talk to Kyle and let him know hes being a idiot. And if he likes her, then he'll change. But if he don't, then i say she should dump him. She can do better. And if he really liked her, he wouldnt treat her like that.


~Kristy~

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hi i'm 15,male,ohio and there is this girl that i like but shes really popular and i'm not i'm hated by everyone popular and i'm not sure if she hates me and i'd really like to get to know her shes gave me her number but never sits by me on the bus and jus says hi.

Let her get to know you. Just because she gave you her number that doesn't mean she's going to jump right in to sitting next to you on the bus and talking to you all the time. Just call her and yall can get to know each other even more. Then, see where it goes from there.


~Kristy~

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hey.. my boyfriend doesn't always respect me. ok he does, really he
does, if he didn't i wouldn't be with him but the other day we
were out with my friends and he got all mad because he says that i act
differently around my friends and he doesn't like that.

he walked away at my birthday, but did come back shortly after.
i guess i could just keep them seperate although i wish i didn't
have to, but i don't know how to talk to my boyfriend without it
sounding bad.

hes testy. i've tried but we always joke around being mean to each
other, but its all joking.

my friends think im blinded by my love for him and i shouldn't be
with him if he does this, but i love him so much i can't bare to let
him go.

please help!! i've tried sitting down and talkin to him, and yelling
doesn't work either. please help!! thanks.

When you're around your boyfriend, you tend to act all flirty and everything. But when you around your friends you all about having fun. So i see where hes coming from. But i don't think you should break up with him just because of that! That would be crazy, especially if you love him. He'll understand one day. Just try to act the same around everybody. Or, you can just keep trying to talk to him.


~Kristy~

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hi i am a guy who shaves his legs. i have recently started to get red bumps on my legs after shaving and they stay there for a long time, they also sting alot too. is this normal? if not what do i need to do to make it stop? thanks for helping and i didnt put this on here to be made fun of i put it here to get a straight answer nothing more.

Try using a different razor. You have to try many different ones to see what works on your legs best. All it is is razor burn.



~Kristy~

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anyone have any ideas how to say no if someone asks you out and you really want too but are afraid,or you just dont like em. and dont want to hurt their feelings.
**i rate 5**

Just say sorry, but i dont want to go out with you or that you just want to be friends. Either that or just say you don't want a boyfriend. But girl you have to learn how to say no. lol


~Kristy~

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I've been with my boyfriend for over two years, and I love him more than anything in the world. I've never cheated on him and I've never even thought about it. But last night I had a dream that I had sex with another guy. I don't know who he was, but it really wierd. And in my dream I was freaking out that my boyfriend might find out about it and that he'd be pissed at me. When I woke up this morning I called my boyfriend and told him about the dream and he's taking it really hard. He's really hurt and he thinks that I might be interested in having sex with other people, BUT I'M NOT. I don't know why I had this dream, and I don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. Another thing is that my boyfriend is in the military- and we don't get to see eachother very often, so he's probably really worried something is going on back at home with me and someone else, but honestly there isn't. I need to figure out why I had this dream, and what I can do to cheer up my boyfriend. Any advice would be awesome, thanks.

You can't control what you dream about. Sometimes dreams just all of a sudden happen and weird things happen in them. I mean if you have a dream about dieing it doesn't happen does it? Just tell him you love him more than anything in the world. Really, just tell him how you feel about it. He'll listen.


~Kristy~

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i would really like to become a fashion designer

ive already made some clothes... i just need a way to advertise them.. like get people to know my clothes are out there

for the school talent show i wanted to do a mini fashion show but we have a time limit... 2 minutes

if someone has any ideas please tell me!
i rate 5s!

Just get like 2 or 3 girls to walk out at a time. It'll all work out.


~Kristy~

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i really like this boy called saad in my school but i don't really know him and he doesn't take much notice of me...im scared to say to anyone incase he finds out and rejects me!that would be so heartbreaking! please help i really need some advise.it's been a whole year since i met him. his friend asked me out on a trip and he was there, and i rejected him because he's a pervert. did this make anything worse? what should i do?
Nosheen
(im a girl, 13)

Well, I think you should just start talking to the boy. Let him get to know you. Then, if he likes you he'll ask you out. But dont rush things. Guys tend to freak out and just be like oh i don't like her no more. So, just become friends and flirt you know. And ALWAYS be yourself. You'll know if he likes you or not.


~Kristy~

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Is there something you need to put on your hair before you straighten it or curl it?

I don't put nothing on it, but you have to watch what kind of straightener and curler you get. I'm not sure what kind or curlin iron you are supossed to get, but get a ceramic straightener with gold plates. Its not supossed to fry your hair and i don't think it ever has.


~Kristy~

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Ok so i want to lose weight, but i am afraid that if i start losing weight my Boobs will start getting smaller. I mean my boobs are like a size 36D at the moment and ive got used to them as they are now. I know i will feel bad if they srink! would mean new underwear.....is there anyway i can make my belly smaller without losing weight on the boobs? thanx

My friend does these crunches that really help. You lay down on your back and put your legs crossed up in the air. Then, you put your hands on your stomache and do crunches. It doesn't help everybody but it might help.


~Kristy~

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what are some good ways for a thirteen year old to get money.

dont bother saying do chores around the house.my moms a bitch about that, it's like signing a deal with the devil

Girl, i know how you feel about the chores. I wouldn't want to do that either. I think you should babysit. That's what my friends do and they make alot of money.


~Kristy~

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im 14,and i have been dating this guy that i think im in love with he wants
to have sex, 9he isent making me) , i want to but i got raped when i was 12
and im scared..what should i do?.

Im sorry to hear that you got raped. But, if your boyfriend isn't pushing you then i doubt he'll hurt you. If your not ready, just tell him. He'll understand. But, if you are ready, just get the rape out of your mind and go for it!


~Kristy~

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umm.. well first of all. i cut.. second of all.. ppl keep telling me that its really bad and unhealthy but i seriously dont understand why?


*me*

I never heard that cutting is unhealthy, but yes it is bad. One day you can cut a major vein and you'll bleed to death. You really got to watch what you do. And for some reason people think you're weird for cutting. But, they just stupid for judging you just because you cut. Well, i think you should just try and not cut so much. When you want to, just go and do something else that gets everything off your mind.


~Kristy~

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okay, theres this guy i like we just started talking online today.. but anyway he suddenly just imed me out of the blue and was just talking! I didnt understand why all of a sudden he wanted to talk to me.. but yeah. At school tuesday I want to say something to him but I dont know what.. what should i say?

You should just talk to him like you talk to your friends. He may like you, but then again he just may want to talk to you. So, just talk to him and get to know him and let him get to know you and let it go from there!


~Kristy~

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ok sry this is so long but i need help

i went out with this one guy for like 2 years and he was my first kiss, first make out and everything and i broke it off with him about 2 months ago

well i have a new boyfriend now and im crazy about him but i still kinda have feelings for my ex-boyfriend i told my friends about it and they said it was normal to not forget ur first love they said what iwas feeling was just memories and

i dont have real feelings for him anymore??
r they right what do u guyz think???


i'll rate high!

Okay, well you have to have broke up with him for some reason. If its a really good reason then no i don't think you should go back out with him. But, then again if you still love him and he still loves you then i say you should go for it. Just follow your heart. If it tells you to go back with your ex, then go with him, but if it says to stay with the guy you're with now..then stay with him. Yes, you will never ever forget your first love, but i think if you was meant to get over him you would have, and apparently you didn't. And, don't always listen to what people tell you to do. They can help you out alot with things but dont let them tell you what to do. Like i said before, just always follow your heart, and you'll do the right thing.


~Kristy~

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Ok... for neone who has a clue out there-

if a guy plays with your hair, WHAT does it mean?

It probably means he likes you.If you really want to know send him a letter and like ask him if he likes you or something.

~Kristy~

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How can i lose weight but in a healthy way? and how can i also get toned? Please someone help me o and btw i'm a 17/F...please and thank you!

~Kiwi

Do some different exersices in the morning and night. Eat healthy foods instead of junk.


~Kristy~

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