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New boyfriend/ Old boyfriend
ok sry this is so long but i need help
i went out with this one guy for like 2 years and he was my first kiss, first make out and everything and i broke it off with him about 2 months ago
well i have a new boyfriend now and im crazy about him but i still kinda have feelings for my ex-boyfriend i told my friends about it and they said it was normal to not forget ur first love they said what iwas feeling was just memories and
i dont have real feelings for him anymore??
r they right what do u guyz think???
i'll rate high!
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Okay, well you have to have broke up with him for some reason. If its a really good reason then no i don't think you should go back out with him. But, then again if you still love him and he still loves you then i say you should go for it. Just follow your heart. If it tells you to go back with your ex, then go with him, but if it says to stay with the guy you're with now..then stay with him. Yes, you will never ever forget your first love, but i think if you was meant to get over him you would have, and apparently you didn't. And, don't always listen to what people tell you to do. They can help you out alot with things but dont let them tell you what to do. Like i said before, just always follow your heart, and you'll do the right thing.
~Kristy~
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hey he was your first love and its hard to forget.
theres always a chemistry between you too but you have to be strong and ignore it.
Spend time with your current boyfriend and stay friends with the ex.
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ok i had about the same thing we went out for like a year and then he moved. its been too years since and i still have feelings for him, not as strong as they were but i still think about him alot. so its ok, it happens to everyone but most of my friends have never been in "love" so they dont understand so if they think its weird its ok.
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Yeah you still may have feelings for him but you just probably may not notice it but you have a boyfriend you must choose who you love or choose to be with because if you don't you may regret it.I mean the guy was your first love so basically it's going to take time to have no more feelings for him but I'm sure you're boyfriend will be able to get him out of your mind but one thing is for sure he will never take his place.If you think about your first love do something to keep you busy so you won't think about him at least for a while it will.Do what keeps you moving and what you enjoy!Live the moment!
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Dear Asker, I think their advise is excellent. It is normal to have feelings toward someone who you liked for so long, I'm not sure if you have real feelings for him or not, just wait a while [say about 2 more months]if you still have feelings towrd your ex..it might be real but also realize that those feelings may just be friendly feelings, like you care about him. I hope I helped somewhat. xOxO-->Alexxa [♥]
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Yes, Its normal to keep a LITTLE bit of feelings for your first true love! but if this goes on for a long time or if the feelings deepen..i think youll have to sit down and think about the situation! maybe you really do care alot about your ex and want to go out again? idk give it a couple of weeks! good luck!! [♥]
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