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I'm use to having sex with my boyfriend several times a day.. and he's out of town right now, and I really feel like I need some. The problem is I don't have a dildo or anything, does anybody know anyother foreign objects that I could use that would make me feel really good?

thx sooo much (link)
okay use anything round .. or your finger ;) or if you have a cell phone that viberates lol but PLEASE make sure u wash it before and after you 'use' it!


this os for guys. do guys prefer it when girls shave it all off? just a little? or what? just give me your opinion. (link)
im not a guy but i can help. guys find it quite .. disturbing when you have a 'bush' its kind of weird. shave it off.. but if your not comfortable shaving all of it off shave MOST of it off. Good Luck


wat is the title and artist of this song:
if he loves me i wanna know. how can i tell if he loves me so?
is it in his eyes? oh no it isnt
and so on.
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aww i love that song ;)
'The Shoop Shoop Song' by Cher



whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.




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just blast some music or the tv. if i were u .. i wouldnt want to hear it either. but you should try to ignore it, its something everyone does .. even your parents!!

Good luck


This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions. (link)
50 first dates
along came polly
win a date with tad hamilton ( spelling? )
sleepless in seattle

*or just ask him what he would like to watch & then compromise!*

Good Luck


ok there is this guy on myspace thats wants me to hang out with him. i don't know if i should. i know my mother wouldn't agree with it, so what should i do?? is it good to meet someone from online?? (link)
no its not. you never know what he'll do to you. sure, he may seem very kind and nice on line but in reality he maybe a kidnapper / muderer or he might even want to rape you. just please dont do it! i hope u end up making the right choice. good luck


Does anyone know how to get rid of burns (from a clothing iron) quickly? How long will it take? Thanks Bunches! (link)
Use burning cream. You can buy them at Jewel, Domincks, Walgreens, etc.. Good Luck


hey guys...im really scared!! ok...i used to be really good friends with this guy and then we didnt really talk for a while, and in the past few months we have been talking alot and become really close again, well about 45 minutes ago i found out that his dad killed himself...what do i say to him? i mean HE doesnt even know yet...his mom called me before she told him...i used to be pretty close to his dad too...he didnt seem the type to do something like that...i have been crying my eyes out since i found out and when this guy does find out, what do i say to him? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Seriously, if i were you, i wouldnt say anything to him until he finds out. Let his mom or a family member tell him before you do. If you do tell him (which i encourage you NOT to do) tell him like :

'Im so sorry you have to hear this and i know it will be tougher on you then it was on me. But you need to know about this. Your father killed himself. Im so sorry. If you ever need someone to talk to.. I will ALWAYS be here for you with a shoulder to cry on and i will always listen. Once again, Im sorry you had to hear this. :( '

Good luck


does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help (link)
I cant really answer that because its different for everyone. For some people it may not hurt but to others it may. So there really is no excact answer. Sorry.


OK my best friend ashley is comming to visit me from CO on sunday and i dont want her to be bored or anything while she is here! Does anyone have any ideas of what we can do?? Thx a bunch! (link)
Take her around town. If the weathers good, take her to a local pool. Or the mall, movies, mini golfing, bowling, or anything fun. Ask her what she wants to do too! Good Luck.


my mom and dad jsut spilt up and my bro lives wit my dad and i live wit my mom iu didnt realy get a chance to pick who i want to go with and i want to go with my dad but then my mom wil be alone and the readon i want to go to live with my dad is caus emy mom has a b/f and we go out and they alwayz kissin and hguing and caling each other baby its so anoying and i dont like going out wit them but its ether that or my granma house and omg its so boring there and nuting to do so i want to move in wit my dad but i feel bad for my mom watshould i do?
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Ask your mom. If she has a boyfriend.. she wont be too lonley. You and your brother can still visit her. Hope everything works out


Hey. Well, I was wondering where do people get those pins that they put on their bags because I want some. Also, I would like to know if they are expensive or not...how much do they cost? Thanks! (link)
Hm like hot topic you can get them for $1.50-2.50. Good Luck


i need to come up with 90 dollars in a short period of time. I need a job. But I'm only 13 so not in a store or anything like that. I can't babysit. So what could i do to get this 90 dollars? please answer ASAP (link)
Hm.. maybe you can wash cars or mow peoples lawn! or you can walk dogs. Good Luck


hey! i stay home in the summer (cant go outside or anything like that) soo what can i do? being online bores me too much. so what are some other things that i can do to keep busy && things that are sumwhat fun? any ideas? all i do now is just like be on the computer or watch tv... so what else is fun to do? ♥ nicole (link)
Well if you have any sibling play some games with them. Cards, Board Games, Video Games, or even make up your own games!! Good Luck!


okay well im a dancer and i was wondering if any of you guys know asome good songs to do a lyrical solo to??? (link)
im a dancer too and i really like Girl Fight! its a good hip hop-py song!


Ive heard you can dye your hair with lemon juice..is this true? does it work? does it look good? how do you do it? i mean do you just squeeze a lemon over your head? Does it work if you have dark hair?? like really dark..
and can you get it out?? (link)
It works. What you do it take a bottle of lemon juice and put it evenly thoroughout ur hair and then lay out in the sun for a while. it will come out on its own. yeah it DOES work if u have dark hair. good luck


okay well here it goes. Im 5'3 and i weight about 190(i know im fat) but i wanna go down to about 140. I want to loose it by Christmas. Does any one know any tips on how i can loose the weight and some exercises that will help along the way? please let me know im really want to loose weight. (link)
If your worried about u eating too much.. i know how u feel. Instead of snacking chew on some gum. As for working out, walk/run around your block a few times. When i thought i was fat i ran a mile every other day. I lost weight easily. Good luck


at my school we have to wear collared shirt, with only 2 buttons unbuttoned. we can wear jeans or skirts, but the skirts have to be longer than 2 inches above our knees. i like to dress originally, and cant stand the thought of going to school looking exactly like everyone else. also i live on an island, so whenever you buy a shirt someone else in your school probably bought it too... and with this collared shirt rule, like 9 or 10 people end up with the exact same shirt. does anyone have any suggestions for interesting ways to make my outfits less boring? (link)
Okay , try to make your own. Put some shirts together. There cant be a rule against being creative =D


I'm going to sleepaway camp in about a week and I really want to maybe get a boyfriend there because when you go to camp you practically start over and can be whoever you want to be without the pressures of school. I've never had a boyfriend and I was wondering how I should flirt at the socials/dances. Also, how do you let boys know you exist and you WANT a relationship? Some just want to be friends.

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Well .. if you want to let boys know you exist, dont go to over the top .. but be normal. dont go around dressing like a skank! But tell the truth. Tell him if you like someone there or tell someone you just want to be friends. good luck


ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

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Yes, 6 months is a long time. But in my eyes, thats great! If he's a good boyfriend .. he'll understand. Just wait until your ready. Don't let him or your friends tell you that you should do it now. Just wait.




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