Hi!!!!
my name is Jimmy Nguyen.
I like to give advice to people who really need it.
Im 13 yr. old guy
welllllllllllllllllllll if you have a question, ask me and I'll answer it to the best of my abilities.
Hope to be of really good help!
//Smallazn4lyfe
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do guys like it when girls are slightly perverted, or is it a turnoff? i'm kind of perverted hahaha but it's not like creepy, just basically kind of how a guy is except not that bad. does that seem like i'm more of a friend with guys, or if i'm slightly perverted when im flirting with them is that weird? (link)
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That's more like an opinion. Some guys like 'perverted' girls. Some guys like 'sexual' girls. Some guys even like 'stupid' girls. It's all a matter of what personality they like.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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So I currently have a boyfriend, Whom I've been with since April 9th..which that would add up to over 3 months.He's 18 turns 19 in August. and I'm 16 , I turn 17 in October.I love him to death, but I have kind of a problem.I think I still have feelings for my ex.I know it's bad and I never wanted it to happen.We dated for about 3 months about 8 months ago.It was a real rough relationship.He put me through a whole lot and dumped me for his ex.Who he dated for 3 years and something months.They are not dating anymore, which is recent when they broke up.He's a wreck and as desperate as it gets.He goes to me of all people when they break up.He came here, as I thought to get his chain back, But really he came to talk to someone.He was having issues with his ex.I tried to help, even if he hurt me the most. I know that might be stupid on my part to even have anything to do with him, But I do still love and care about him.I don't want him to do anything too stupid.Anyways, my current boyfriend knows he came to talk and everything and I'm not sure if he knows I have feelings for him,But my ex is starting to try and manipulate me and tell me he still loves me and wants to be with me,But I'm with my boyfriend.I won't let him take my boyfriend away from me.I really think my boyfriend is the best one I ever had.And I don't want to lose him.I don't know what to do.As hard as I try, I can't quite get over my ex. Is there any way of overcoming this issue? (link)
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I've had to be in the same situation as you.
you should choose the person that would actually show you that he loves you better. your ex, or your current boyfriend. If i was you, i would stay with your current bf, because if you chose your ex, you would break your current bf's and that would be really bad.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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So, there's this guy who works concessions at the movie theater that I go to regularly. He seems really cool, and he's cute (I sound like such a girl, haha, I'm sorry)!
How can I get to know him if I only see him when I go to the movies? Thanks in advance. =] (link)
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ask to hang out whenever hes on his break.
get his number.
talk to him while hes working.
those were some ways to get to know him.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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alright.there's this kid.i talk to him all the time.and he flirts with me alot.it seems as though he tells me everything!and i basically tell him everything.but im just having very confused feelings for him.like sometimes i think he only talks to me because we're talking about his ex or about some stupid thing he did earlier.just dumb stuff that he likes to talk about.but when i say something like "oooh nvm" then he'll be all "say it" and bug me and bug me until i tell him and it makes it seem like he cares but most of the time he hardly says anything.i really shouldnt be worrying about,but what do i do? (link)
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As i'm a guy, i know from first hand experience that he likes you. i used to do the same thing as him. I get really curious about what my crush says and when she said, "ohhhh nvm" i always say, "tellllll meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee pleaseeeeeeee!!!" It's something that most guys do when they want to know something from a crush. So, what I'm saying is you shouldn't be worrying about this little situation. its normal.
I hope this helped.
//Smallzn4lyfe
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is it bad to start liking someone who has a girlfriend...who is also cousins of the kids you babysit...who also lives like an hour away...who u barley see and met a couple times throughout the years and dont know why u like him (link)
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no way.
maybe its just a crush.
a coincidental crush.
its not bad that you like someone.
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okay this is gonna be a REALLY long question and if you answer it i will absoultly love you for life and rate youu gooddd bc i need advice
kay soo ive wrote in about this kid before and this is what i hadd ok lasttt summer my best friend (lets call her A) was going out with this guy(lets call him M) and every time we would hang out it would be me my best friend her boyfriend and his best friend(lets call him P) , and then i started liking 'P' but i only told 'A' because i didnt really make a big thing of it bc he was a BIGG flirt , and then one night after we went to the movies 'M' told me that his friend liked me and me and him were pretty close and i REALLLYY trusted him , i would have trusted him with my life , and i talked to the guy i liked a few times and then like a week later he was at a different friends house and i was talking to him and then every once in a while like he'd say some like heyy babbbyy and stuff like that and thats not the kindof guy he was so i new it was his friend so i basically ignored it and then a few hours later , he went home and he imed 'A' and told her to tell me that he doesnt like me and hes not sure if he ever did. and now everytime we see each other its REALLY akward like we both just like look at each other for a second then look away and we have talked like twice since this whole situation, like 2 weeks later he imed me while i was away and i saw it but like i was soo pissed at how much he hurt me that i didnt respond.(it wasnt an im saying anything important it was just he was making funn of something i had on my a/m) and at halloween we talked a little but besides taht thats pretty much it but like im still like in love with the kid and i DONT want to be like he hurt me so much like i just want to move on, but like then again i dont bc i like him so much. so basically im in DESPRETE neeed for advicee bc i dont no what to do
okay so after everyone told me to move on. yeah well i tried REALLY hard. andd lately i have been thinking about him alott. because after he did try to talk to me but i ignored him bc i was so pissed at him for hurting me. and all that happend at the end of the summer and after we rarely saw each other bc we go to different schools. and im thinking about im'ing him and just telling him how i feel, but im not sure if i should bc i havent seen him in a couple month or even talked to him. so i dont want him to be like ew. so idk what should i doooooo.
and thank you for reading all thinkkk
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If you seriously like him so much, like you can't get him out of your mind, you should totally i.m. him. Start a conversation, and tell him exactly how you felt. Tell him about how you feel about him and how you felt when he hurt you.
I hoped this helped you.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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okay so basically i like this guy a lot.
and i think he likes me but im not sure.
and i wanna tell him that i like him back, but i'm scared that im going to get rejected and then feel like a complete loser.
anyone wanna help me?
i have no idea what to do :[ (link)
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Don't be scared to do something that u want to do.
It could go wrong, but its a risk that u can take. I know rejection hurts, a lot, but you'll soon get over it. You never know if he seriously likes you until he confesses that he does.
I hoped this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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OKk...
During the school year, me and this guy went out for two months. (because it was middle school, that was a long relationship). We ended up breaking up after i had my first kiss with him, and after we broke up, i found out that he held hands with 2 other girls (not at the same time). And that he was squeezing another gurls boobs and slapping her butt while we went out. Then, two days after we break up, he tells my best friend that he is like in love with her. I was really hurt by him but after a while we kind of made up and we're friends now. Well i went to the pool today and we talk ALL the time, and he flirts constantly with me,, and i with him. Well, i like him again, and i'm pretty sure that he likes me too. So, Do you think it's a good idea for me to take him back after what he did? Or should i just forget about hiM/ (link)
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If it was my choice, i would forget about him.
it sounded like he was cheating on you while u and him were goin out. Once a cheater, always a cheater, but it's your choice. If you seriously want him back, go get him. Don't be scared to do something that u dont want to do.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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I like a cute boy and havent talked to him before. But i think i might love him. Can you be in love with someone that youve never talked to??? Hes at my bus stop and hes REALLY cute!!! Please Help (link)
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i wouldnt really say 'love'
it's more like a crush. take a chance and talk to him. its worth taking a risk right? start a conversation by saying, "heyyy ___?___, its a nice day isn't it?" and keep going on from there.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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how do you know if your boyfriends in love with you? and hes told you how he feels about you and everything
but he hasnt said those 3 words.
like how do they act and what do they say??
is it a bad idea if the girl says i love you first? or should the guy say it?
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As i am a guy right now, i think the guys should say i love you first, but usually guys dont say 'i love you' until they think they're ready to say it. These days, girls say i love you first then the guys reply saying i love you too, or i love you more. So basically, no, it't not a bad idea for the girl to say i love you first.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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Where can I find more icons like this one?
http://i14.tinypic.com/626jd7c.jpg (link)
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iconator.com
best icon site that i know
//Smallazn4lyfe
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if u no any web sites like myspace or anything else can u tell me ..thanx ! (link)
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Aznspace.com
myspace for asians :]
//Smallazn4lyfe
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why does it freak a guy out when a girl that they've had a secret crush on finally starts to show an interest back and flirts with them, especially if he has no problem flirting with the other ladies? (link)
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its probably just nervousness.
thats what happened to me when my crush started to flirt with me. She was like all touchy and i was just like ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I was just nervous to be around her because i thought i would be an idiot, but its just normal that some guys do. some guys are shy, some are active. it just depends.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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i like this guy i think he like me, i like him to. he is not the most popler boy, but a lot of girls like him, but wont admit it. i am one of those girls what should i do should i make a move (link)
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If you like him, you should totally make a move before someone else makes one and makes u regret not making a move in the first place.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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Alright.There's this guy.And I love him so much.But he's unfourtantly 4 years older than me..and I'm only 13.So that is really really bad.But I just sort of fell for him.I know for a fact he doesn't like me at all..but what do I do? I mean I talk to him all the time..and I asked him out once..but he said no because of..something.And so yeah.
Help please =// (link)
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I wouldn't really ask him out if i was you.
you are still only 13 and hes 17.
you have a lot more things that are ahead of you than him. don't waste your time with someone that is 4 years older than u at this age.
you should try to find someone your age and stick with that person. u can still have a crush on the 17 year old guy now, but just don't overdo it.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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okay well i've been with my boyfriend round 7 months and i couldnt be happier i know i love him and i do think im inlove
every time i kiss him even a little one i get butterflies and cute little things like that
ive never ever felt this way before bout anyone else ever
i think im inlove with him
what do ya think??
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oh yes its love alright.
good for you :]
//Smallazn4lyfe
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I really like this guy. But i dont know if i can trust him. we've been going out for a year, and whenever we hang out he shows me pictures of his other girlfriend naked. We do threesomes sometimes, and dont get me wrong, she's really nice, i just dont know... is it normal for me to be jealous? im crying because i feel like im not as special as she is. I admit she looks better naked and has a vagina that tastes really good, but i feel really left out. what can i do to win him over? i really love him and he's really good at doing stuff to me. and i really dont want to let him go.. advice?
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umm.
woah.
i think your a little too young to be having threesomes.
I think you should dump your boyfriend since he already has a girlfriend. I think thats the best thing to do in the situation. I'm sorry to say that, but when your in this situation sometimes its just the best thing to do.
and p.s. nice descriptions on the stuff....
I hoped I helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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i dont knw what to do right now.... i feel likemy whole life is falling apart and i dont know what to do about it!!1 i just want to break down. tomorrow is the kast day i can see the guy i like for i dont know how long.... i dont think i am going to ever see him cause we dont go to the same school and we dont even live in the same area and i hate it!!! i actually find the right guy and i will probably nevere see him again and this whole thing is never going to work out!!!! i dont think anyone can help but any ideas????? :((( please help b4 o go crazy (link)
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Woah.
Calm down.
Take a deep breath.
Try to find a way to keep in contact with him.
Aim//Myspace//Msn//Facebook//Phone.
those were some stuff that u could do to keep in contact with him. You never know, you and him could meet up 20 years later and get married. Don't overexaggerate about this situation, and just go with the flow.
I hope this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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I have some probs with getting guys to notice me. What should I do? (link)
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you should be yourself.
if you're the quiet type, try to be a little loud, but dont overdo it.
if you're the shy type, don't be scared to go up to him and start a conversation. try to be funny. make some jokes.
Dress cute, act cute, and be cute.
I hoped I helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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okay there is this guy i like, we hung out last week for the first time. (met through friends)A very cool kid we have a lot in common. I got out of the car and i gave him a handshake and thanked him for the nice evening. I mean it was our first time meeting and i began to like him so i didnt wana rush things. He hasnt talked to me since last thursday. I left him a comment, he didnt return one and i just called him now and he didnt pick up his phone. Do you think he isnt interested? (link)
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You and him just started hanging out. About the call, he could've been busy, or he lost his phone under his couch. Well, you should give him some time to see if he likes you.
If he likes you Good for you !
If he doesn't, try to like someone else that you know really well.
I hoped this helped.
//Smallazn4lyfe
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