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okay this is gonna be a REALLY long question and if you answer it i will absoultly love you for life and rate youu gooddd bc i need advice
kay soo ive wrote in about this kid before and this is what i hadd ok lasttt summer my best friend (lets call her A) was going out with this guy(lets call him M) and every time we would hang out it would be me my best friend her boyfriend and his best friend(lets call him P) , and then i started liking 'P' but i only told 'A' because i didnt really make a big thing of it bc he was a BIGG flirt , and then one night after we went to the movies 'M' told me that his friend liked me and me and him were pretty close and i REALLLYY trusted him , i would have trusted him with my life , and i talked to the guy i liked a few times and then like a week later he was at a different friends house and i was talking to him and then every once in a while like he'd say some like heyy babbbyy and stuff like that and thats not the kindof guy he was so i new it was his friend so i basically ignored it and then a few hours later , he went home and he imed 'A' and told her to tell me that he doesnt like me and hes not sure if he ever did. and now everytime we see each other its REALLY akward like we both just like look at each other for a second then look away and we have talked like twice since this whole situation, like 2 weeks later he imed me while i was away and i saw it but like i was soo pissed at how much he hurt me that i didnt respond.(it wasnt an im saying anything important it was just he was making funn of something i had on my a/m) and at halloween we talked a little but besides taht thats pretty much it but like im still like in love with the kid and i DONT want to be like he hurt me so much like i just want to move on, but like then again i dont bc i like him so much. so basically im in DESPRETE neeed for advicee bc i dont no what to do
okay so after everyone told me to move on. yeah well i tried REALLY hard. andd lately i have been thinking about him alott. because after he did try to talk to me but i ignored him bc i was so pissed at him for hurting me. and all that happend at the end of the summer and after we rarely saw each other bc we go to different schools. and im thinking about im'ing him and just telling him how i feel, but im not sure if i should bc i havent seen him in a couple month or even talked to him. so i dont want him to be like ew. so idk what should i doooooo.
and thank you for reading all thinkkk
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If you seriously like him so much, like you can't get him out of your mind, you should totally i.m. him. Start a conversation, and tell him exactly how you felt. Tell him about how you feel about him and how you felt when he hurt you.
I hoped this helped you.
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Well if you really like him, then try and talk to him.
iM him and just be like " hey, we havent talked in a while whats up."
Then if he brings up why you never really talked to him, just tell him the truth.
Tell him that you really like him and you always have. & tell him that you ignored him because you didnt want to get hurt. I was in the EXACT situation, and after a while I talked to him and we talk so much. Maybe he will come to his senses.
Hope I helped.
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Just go ahead and IM him. If you really like him that much, then it'll only make it harder to talk to him later on because there'll be more time that's gone by.
If he doesn't seem like he wants to talk or anything, give him a few more days and try it again. I don't think you should go right out and say how you feel right away. You should just become better friends with him first and do it that way.
Good luck & I hope it works out.
Sorry I couldn't be much more help.
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