alright.there's this kid.i talk to him all the time.and he flirts with me alot.it seems as though he tells me everything!and i basically tell him everything.but im just having very confused feelings for him.like sometimes i think he only talks to me because we're talking about his ex or about some stupid thing he did earlier.just dumb stuff that he likes to talk about.but when i say something like "oooh nvm" then he'll be all "say it" and bug me and bug me until i tell him and it makes it seem like he cares but most of the time he hardly says anything.i really shouldnt be worrying about,but what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Smallazn4lyfe answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 4:56 am: As i'm a guy, i know from first hand experience that he likes you. i used to do the same thing as him. I get really curious about what my crush says and when she said, "ohhhh nvm" i always say, "tellllll meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee pleaseeeeeeee!!!" It's something that most guys do when they want to know something from a crush. So, what I'm saying is you shouldn't be worrying about this little situation. its normal.
hottie411 answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 1:44 am: he probably does like you, and if you like him back, then go ahead and ask him if he likes you. yea itll probably be hard to ask him that and everything, but itll be worth it if he says yes.
mariahneu answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 12:31 am: I was a little confused as to what you were asking here, but I'll try my best to answer it...
You should just ask him if he likes you as more than a friend. If he says, "No", then you'll no longer live in the state of confusion. If he says, "Yes", then there you go, you can then ask him out if you want.
If he says, "No", just ask him if he wants to be friends.
Cux answered Tuesday July 17 2007, 11:58 pm: I'm sort of confused- but I think you should just ask him why he sort of only seems interested in talking about his ex or whatever. If he only seems interested in talking about things that have nothing to do with you [not that all conversations should be about you... lol]. But it seems like that isn't the case; he is sort of talking about things you want to talk about. I'm not really sure, since you don't say.. but if you feel like he doesn't give you the attention you think you deserve.. just give him a little bit of time and hope that he changes, I guess.
My mom always says, "You don't have to be around anyone you don't want to be around. Don't be afraid to get people out of your life if you aren't comfortable with them being there," and that is just about the best thing I can tell you at this point.
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