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With someone..but still have feelings for ex
So I currently have a boyfriend, Whom I've been with since April 9th..which that would add up to over 3 months.He's 18 turns 19 in August. and I'm 16 , I turn 17 in October.I love him to death, but I have kind of a problem.I think I still have feelings for my ex.I know it's bad and I never wanted it to happen.We dated for about 3 months about 8 months ago.It was a real rough relationship.He put me through a whole lot and dumped me for his ex.Who he dated for 3 years and something months.They are not dating anymore, which is recent when they broke up.He's a wreck and as desperate as it gets.He goes to me of all people when they break up.He came here, as I thought to get his chain back, But really he came to talk to someone.He was having issues with his ex.I tried to help, even if he hurt me the most. I know that might be stupid on my part to even have anything to do with him, But I do still love and care about him.I don't want him to do anything too stupid.Anyways, my current boyfriend knows he came to talk and everything and I'm not sure if he knows I have feelings for him,But my ex is starting to try and manipulate me and tell me he still loves me and wants to be with me,But I'm with my boyfriend.I won't let him take my boyfriend away from me.I really think my boyfriend is the best one I ever had.And I don't want to lose him.I don't know what to do.As hard as I try, I can't quite get over my ex. Is there any way of overcoming this issue?
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I've had to be in the same situation as you.
you should choose the person that would actually show you that he loves you better. your ex, or your current boyfriend. If i was you, i would stay with your current bf, because if you chose your ex, you would break your current bf's and that would be really bad.
I hope this helped.
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Its hard to get over ex's, but of your happy with your current bf just tell your ex straight up that he cant win you back. That your happy and would like to say stay friends. Once you stand your ground you'll feel better and hopefully your feelings with fade. Also think of the reasons why your current boyfriend is better...it helps ensure you made a good decision. Best of luck =]
Brookey
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Well, which one do you feel safer with?
Who makes you feel good inside, like you can trust them more? I would go with the person you KNOW won't hurt you. One way to decide is to take a piece of paper for both of them, and write what is good on one half, and what is bad on the other. That way you can see written down what you do and don't like about each of them and make a choice.
If you need more help, just ask. :)
Best Regards,
Mariah
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