|
should i take her back?
Okay me and my friend Haley just recently got into a big fight because she was trying to stick up for the guy she liked.And when she found out she was wrong and I was right she was all "Oh I'm so sorrryryryyryryryryryryry" and blah blah blah.But this isn't the first time she's done this.She does it all the time.I'm getting kind of sick of having to deal with this.
What should I do?
:/
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Yeah, love makes you do crazy things. I would stick up for the guy I liked if I truly believe I was right. Not only that, but she apologize. Friendship isn't a huge serious deal like you're making it, ya know.
]
Arguments happen in a friendship, I think it's best that you realize these happen and you should be happy in the fact she admits when she's wrong and apologizes.
There are plenty of friends who won't even do that.
]
If you're getting sick of having to deal with it- then don't feel bad if you don't take her back as a friend, I guess. I mean- sure you might seem like a shallow jerk- but you don't have to be involved in the friendship anymore if you don't want to. Like my mom says, "If you're uncomfortable in any way with anyone you're around- you DON'T have to be around them anymore if you don't want to be."
I might give her one more chance to prove that she can be mature- but make sure you let her know that you're tired of her immaturity [I guess that is the word for it] and she really should try to be reasonable, but you shouldn't say this rudely, of course.
--Jack
(15/m)
]
More Questions: |