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hey I was ust wondering if any of you know how to put graphics and things like that on www.buddy4u.com
I've been trying to put some icons in but I have no clue how..
thanks. I`ll rate.
In Buddy4u when you're on the 'edit profile' page, click 'Easy Edit'. It's really tiny but above the editing box. It'll give you TONS more options. Then click "Advanced Editor" where you can add pictures and such. Hope this helps!
♥ Montana
i know this might sound kind of stupid, but what do you do to get certain guys to notice you? please help!
I've found that the best way to get someone to notice you is to BE noticed. Okay, let me elaborate. Be confident-- this is the number one factor in this situation. If you know you're there, so will others. Know that you're pretty, sweet, kind & a great overall person without being TOO into yourself. Next, dress comfortably but cute. To be noticed, you want to look nice but you want to FEEL nice too. If you're wearing a too-tight top, it may attract guys but the WRONG guys & you won't necessarily feel great about yourself. One last thing, don't be afraid to flaunt what you've got. If you have incredible eyes, make sure you make the most of them. Wear complimenting makeup that will excentuate the feature. Good luck hon!
♥ Montana
i have this boyfirend i have been with for over a year now.. and i love him soo much and i now he feels the same way.. but he live in a totally different state and i want us to be together forever but his parents understand butmine dont im 15 and hes 18.. what should i do to get that acroos to my mom
The BEST way to truely get something across to your parents is to have a one-on-one talk. Yeah, that's right, quality time. Especially when it comes to mother/daughter situations, this is the best way. Ask your mom if she wants to spend some time with you one day when she's off. Maybe go to the mall or to get a bite to eat. Ease into the conversation with small talk & remind her what a good daughter you are. Try to clue her in on what's going on in your life. Then eventually start bringing up your boyfriend. Show her just how mature you are & even remind her how it was to fall in love for the first time. Good luck!
♥ Montana
anyone kno any good mypace layout websites. ill rate you etremely high if u give good answers
Yes, the BEST myspace layout sites out there are http://www.createblog.com/ and http://myspace.nuclearcentury.com/. Have fun!
OK I like this Boy and hes really nice we used to be boyfriend and girlfriend then someone came up and he didnt like me any more(this was a while ago)then two days a go i found somone else i like and now i cant deside who to like.Well schools starting soon so my qustion is should i like one of the two guys i was talking about befor or wait till school starts to meet new guys?
From,
Big Flirt
If I were you, I wouldn't make any comitments for now. Wait until school starts & you'll be able to really compare guys & make a great decisian. Good luck! ♥
I am a young lady that is popular, with books and everything. I want to stand out even more, I want to run track. First is track for everone, and second what do I have to do to prepare for the tryouts in January?
No, track is not for everyone. However, if you have strong endurance and stamina then it's perfect for you! Preparing for track tryouts is pretty simple. Make sure at least a few months before you're running-- alot. Schedual a run, let's say, twice a day, around your neighborhood. Also, you're going to need to stretch. When you're watching TV or reading, sit in a split or as far as you can go. And last, you are going to have to alter your eating habbits. I'm not sure if you're a healthy eater now but try incorporating many fruits and vegetables into your diet. Good luck, I know you'll do great!
what are some of the best ways to get a girl to like u as more than a friend? i mean were really good friends already but i want more and im not sure if she does yet 2 but i want to know what r the best things 4 me 2 do not 2 screw things up and gain "points" with her?
15/male
Well, since I'm a girl, I know EXACTLY what guys can do to make us fall for them. Here's a list:
SWEET GESTURES
-Open doors for her. When you're hanging out one on one, treat her like a lady. Girls LOOOVEEEE to feel appreciated & catered to.
-Pay. Not that we're after money but if you pay, it shows that you COULD be interested & it also shows you care about her.
-Nice compliments. This is a toughie because if you over do it, then it may seem like you're trying too hard. Make about one o0r two compliments the whole day you see her. Don't make them obvious like about hair o0r clothes. Make them meaningful like smell o0r smile.
IN CONVERSATION
-Really LISTEN to her. Be very interested what she's saying.
-Look her in the EYES. It may be tempting to look other places but when you look someone directly in the eyes it shows them that they are your main focus.
-Be RESPONSIVE. Don't just let her do all the talking. Particpate in order to make it a "conversation". It makes girls know that you're not one to just sit on the side lines.
RANDOM
-Call her randomly just to talk to her.
-Remind her how much she means to you.
-Spend an overrall alot of time with her ONE on ONE. Even if it's just as friends, it build the relationship.
Good luck & if you need anymore help, feel free to ask!
ok i LOVE this girl but we are really good friends and i dont wanna screw that up but i really wanna go out with her, do you know of anyways that i could use 2 really get her 2 like me or find out if she likes me?
i rate high
Wellllllll, I've gone through this before except I was the girl & I had a crush on my guy friend. Unfortunately, when people develop feelings for one another, there isn't a gaurentee that their friendship with stay strong. However, if the two of you are mature & comitted to stay friends no matter what then you'll be fine.
You have a few options to go about this. Here are some of the BEST ways:
GET A FRIEND TO FIND OUT
This isn't always the most reliable way but it DOES work alot of the time. If you have a close friend that is also close with her, have him/her find out how she feels. That's what I did & it worked out. I found out he felt the same way & now we're dating.
USE THE SIGNS
There are some pretty obvious ways to know if someone likes you. If you 'google' it, you'll be amazed how many sites there are that provide helpful hints about how someone feels about you. They really helped me out with my last crush. If enough of those "signs" apply to her then I would go for it and ask her out.
ASK YOURSELF
This takes the most guts but it has a 99.9% chance of a good answer. Girls like guys with enough guts to ask them themselves. So if you want, take the chance & ask her. Go for it! Then you can go right into asking her out & if she says no then just say "oh okay" & act like nothing's up.
Let's say she likes you...
I've always had trouble deciding whether a certain relationship was worth the friendship. I've finally decided that yes, relationships are & if you both handle it the right way, you won't have to risk a bad friendship.
Let's say she doesn't...
Just be nonchalant about it & act like it's no big deal. Unless you want to fess up to having feelings, you don't have to tell her. It may be hard to get over the thought that she doesn't return the emotions but it will be fine after a while.
Good luck! ♥
my gf is always demanding me to do things if i don't she tells people about the things we do
and my family belives her evevn if its not true
and it makes me out to be the bad person
16/f
I'm going to be completely honest with you here. I don't think this girl is good enough for you if she's spreading rumors about that. You should never let ANYONE pressure you to do things that you don't want to. I know you deserve better than that. Talk to her about it, even if you have a threaten a break up. Tell her how the lies are giving you a bad rep. Also tell her how much she means to you but you just can't have people thinking these things of you.
Good luck hun!
How do u do all that with your colum? like change your username with all of your questions still there?
I have a paid account so I was able to change my username & then it changed on everything but kept all my old settings. For more information on Paid Accounts: http://advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php
How can I get a guy to like me?
Getting a guy to like you is complicated but can be very simple if you follow all the basic procedures. Let's start!
1. Be CONFIDENT- Over the years I've realized that guys preffer confident girls. I suppose there is just something about them & how they have no fear. Girls who aren't that self assured have trouble being comfortable about someone they like so the guy who they are trying to date never really gets to see the real them. Just pretend he's any ordinary person when you're around him because in all actuality, he is.
2. Be FLIRTY- Guys, just like girls, are afraid of rejection too. If you are flirty & drop hints then they will feel more comfortable about making the first move. Look them straight in the eye, laugh at their jokes & always smile like you know something that they don't.
3. Be AGRESIVE (but not TOO agressive)- What I mean by that is, don't be afraid to hang out with a guy or suggest you go someplace as friends. Call him or ask for his screename! This is being agressive & getting to know him before another girl gets a chance. However, don't be too agressive & clingy because that can really get annoying. Know when to give him space.
Now that you know the 3 basic ways to ask, let's cover what NOT to do & what things will result in him trying to get AWAY from you instead of TOGETHER.
1. DON'T Play Hard-2-Get- Girls have a tendency to have feelings but not share them at all. They want to be a 'tease' & not give a guy what he wants. That's is NOT the way to get into a relationship, truuuust me on this one. The best thing to do is confront your feelings, not pretend that they are non existent.
2. DON'T Be Annoying- I stated this above how important it is that you aren't clingy & annoying. Don't call, IM or attempt to talk to this guy every second. It's can get stalkerish & freak him out a bit. Just give him some space & talk when YOU think the time is right.
3. DON'T Be Nervous- Guys can really sense when you're nervous around them, it's obvious. They'll start to feel uncomfortable too if us girls start blushing & stuttering. Just be yourself & don't feel worried or self concious.
Good luck! ♥
I was a cutter! WAS! im not anymore. I just told my best friend. It was weird because she told me she was too. My question is What should I say?
Tell her that you're realized that she can relate to you. Tell her that you never thought you'd meet anoyone that could & that you wished you would have confronted her sooner. Now when you say she WAS do you mean she isn't anymore? If that's what you mean then tell her how happy you are that the two of you were able to overcome it. If she still IS then tell her that you will help her come out of it & that you are here for her. Good luck hun!
♥ montana
ok there isthis girl i like and she thinks shes to good for me and i want to proove her wrong and show her that im not a mistake wat do i do
For a while, I was the girl that thought I was too good for one guy. How he proved it to me was we talked to eachother online & I started to realize how sweet he was. Try talking to her or finding out her screename. Show her that you're not a mistake. Don't overdo the compliments however because she'll find it fake. Just be yourself =] Good luck! ♥
My friends all turned on me and now im alone. It's cool sometimes but when something big happens or when Friday nite comes I'm lonely. I have a boyfriend to talk to and I still have a few friends that im not close with. What should I do?
I'm sorry you're going through this. I reccomend trying to get close with the friends that you have. Invite them over or to the movies. If you show them what a great person you are & be yourself then maybe you guys will start hanging out more. Also, try to spend alot of time with your boyfriend & show the friends that turned on you that you don't need them. Good luck hon! ♥
How can I tell if a guy likes me?
Here's a chart that I made up for another question that was asked, similar to yours. I will also link this question in the 'FAQ'.
Directions: copy & paste this into a word processor (like MicrosoftWord or WordPerfect) & put some sort of mark in the middle of the [ ]'s if it applies to the boy that likes you. Then add them up & see what your total is. After that, follow the steps underneath your total to see some results :]
[ ] You often find him staring at you
[ ] He goes out of his way to talk to you
[ ] He'll smile at you
[ ] His friends are starting to take notice of you
[ ] His behavior is different around you then others
[ ] He doesn't pull away if you touch him, whether it be an accident or not
[ ] He blushes when you give him a compliment
[ ] When he talks to you, he looks directly into your eyes
[ ] He tends to show off in front of you
[ ] When he's talking to his friends, he glances over at you
(0-1 Checks) Just Friends
He's showing limited signs & maybe some not on the list. He's definitely interested in you, but only for friendship. However, that COULD change so try to spend more time with him!
(2-5 Checks) It's Possible
He might not necessarily 100% like you but he might be starting to develope feelings so all the signs aren't quite there yet. If you don't want to wait & want to hurry up the pace, start talking to him or compliment him & see what he does.
(6-10) Somebody's Got A Crush
He likes you & it's very obvious. If you want to pursue things a bit more, why not ask him to hang out or get his screename. Talk to him as much as you can & if you return the feelings, I'm sure dating might be in the atmosphere!
I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
By the sound of it, he might. I made a handy chart so you can add up the signs & see if he does. Also, if you ever end up liking him, I put some advice in there that might help get a relationship going. Good luck sweetie! ♥
Directions: copy & paste this into a word processor (like MicrosoftWord or WordPerfect) & put some sort of mark in the middle of the [ ]'s if it applies to the boy that likes you. Then add them up & see what your total is. After that, follow the steps underneath your total to see some results :]
[ ] You often find him staring at you
[ ] He goes out of his way to talk to you
[ ] He'll smile at you
[ ] His friends are starting to take notice of you
[ ] His behavior is different around you then others
[ ] He doesn't pull away if you touch him, whether it be an accident or not
[ ] He blushes when you give him a compliment
[ ] When he talks to you, he looks directly into your eyes
[ ] He tends to show off in front of you
[ ] When he's talking to his friends, he glances over at you
(0-1 Checks) Just Friends
He's showing limited signs & maybe some not on the list. He's definitely interested in you, but only for friendship. However, that COULD change so try to spend more time with him!
(2-5 Checks) It's Possible
He might not necessarily 100% like you but he might be starting to develope feelings so all the signs aren't quite there yet. If you don't want to wait & want to hurry up the pace, start talking to him or compliment him & see what he does.
(6-10) Somebody's Got A Crush
He likes you & it's very obvious. If you want to pursue things a bit more, why not ask him to hang out or get his screename. Talk to him as much as you can & if you return the feelings, I'm sure dating might be in the atmosphere!
Well, there is this girl that I'm okay friends with, but now don't really like her that much anymore. My boyfriend is starting to hang out with her more and talk to her more. Sometimes talking to her more on AOL than me. While I was away for two weeks my boyfriend went on a choir trip to Six Flags. Ashley (the girl that I'm okay friends with) and my boyfriend hung out the whole time. IE. Rode rides together, walked together, got food and ate it together. That doesn't make you're girlfriend feel very good, but now she's in his info. It's an inside joke with her, but surprisingly it's about the same lenght as me in his info. Well, my whole info is about him. Am I being stupid to be mad, that's what he said.
You're NOT being stupid by being mad. You have a right to be feeling a bit jealous! After all, YOU'RE the girlfriend & YOU'RE the one he SHOULD be hanging out with alot & you should take up his whole info. Look, I've got to write to you from the "point of view" of the "other girl". I've always been close with this one guy, even when he's gone through relationships. When girls started to like him, I was always the girl that got in their way. All I can say is that the best way to work this out is to talk to him. Tell him that you don't mean to overreact, you're just a bit hurt. If you want it to be extra-effective, make sure you add in how much he means to you because guys like to feel needed. Good luck hon! ♥
would you date someone older than you?
I would, but it really depends on the age difference. I wouldn't date someone more than 1 year older than me because I'm in 8th grade & that would make them in 10th grade so that would be a big gap in my eyes. However, Lots of other girls would date someone older, I'm just not that way.
alright my prob is that since i'm not a jock and not a skater or anything like that girls at my school hate me wat should i do
and how can i get them to like me w/o changing my image
The BEST way to get a girl's attention is to be flirty & confident but not TOO much. A guy who tries to MAKE every girl feel "special" is not liked because then we aren't sure that he is loyal. Pick one girl, that's the bes way. Then other girls will see that you're giving HER attention & they'll want it too. You don't have to be too obvious about it, just sweet & help her out sometime. & if you don't mind me asking, if you're not jock or skater, what are you? Because there are many other appealing "images" so maybe I can tell you how to work with who you are. Just drop me one in my inbox if you would like. Good luck! =]
Hey! I like this guy but I don't know how to go up to him and start talking see the problm is he barly knows I exist plz help.
I was in the EXACT same situation a while ago. I desperately wanted to get to know this guy but I didn't know what to do. My advice is to be around him & talk to your friends, flirt & catch his attention. You don't necessarily have to go UP to him & start chatting because I wouldn't do that either. Just start laughing it up with a few of your buds & have him look over. Then give him a quick smile & he'll have you in his mind for the rest of the day. Then by the end of the day, or the start of the next, he'll come up and talk to you. However, for this to work you have to get that smile in there. Good luck hon! =]