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How can I get a guy to like me?
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Getting a guy to like you is complicated but can be very simple if you follow all the basic procedures. Let's start!
1. Be CONFIDENT- Over the years I've realized that guys preffer confident girls. I suppose there is just something about them & how they have no fear. Girls who aren't that self assured have trouble being comfortable about someone they like so the guy who they are trying to date never really gets to see the real them. Just pretend he's any ordinary person when you're around him because in all actuality, he is.
2. Be FLIRTY- Guys, just like girls, are afraid of rejection too. If you are flirty & drop hints then they will feel more comfortable about making the first move. Look them straight in the eye, laugh at their jokes & always smile like you know something that they don't.
3. Be AGRESIVE (but not TOO agressive)- What I mean by that is, don't be afraid to hang out with a guy or suggest you go someplace as friends. Call him or ask for his screename! This is being agressive & getting to know him before another girl gets a chance. However, don't be too agressive & clingy because that can really get annoying. Know when to give him space.
Now that you know the 3 basic ways to ask, let's cover what NOT to do & what things will result in him trying to get AWAY from you instead of TOGETHER.
1. DON'T Play Hard-2-Get- Girls have a tendency to have feelings but not share them at all. They want to be a 'tease' & not give a guy what he wants. That's is NOT the way to get into a relationship, truuuust me on this one. The best thing to do is confront your feelings, not pretend that they are non existent.
2. DON'T Be Annoying- I stated this above how important it is that you aren't clingy & annoying. Don't call, IM or attempt to talk to this guy every second. It's can get stalkerish & freak him out a bit. Just give him some space & talk when YOU think the time is right.
3. DON'T Be Nervous- Guys can really sense when you're nervous around them, it's obvious. They'll start to feel uncomfortable too if us girls start blushing & stuttering. Just be yourself & don't feel worried or self concious.
Good luck! ♥
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