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ok i LOVE this girl but we are really good friends and i dont wanna screw that up but i really wanna go out with her, do you know of anyways that i could use 2 really get her 2 like me or find out if she likes me?
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Wellllllll, I've gone through this before except I was the girl & I had a crush on my guy friend. Unfortunately, when people develop feelings for one another, there isn't a gaurentee that their friendship with stay strong. However, if the two of you are mature & comitted to stay friends no matter what then you'll be fine.
You have a few options to go about this. Here are some of the BEST ways:
GET A FRIEND TO FIND OUT
This isn't always the most reliable way but it DOES work alot of the time. If you have a close friend that is also close with her, have him/her find out how she feels. That's what I did & it worked out. I found out he felt the same way & now we're dating.
USE THE SIGNS
There are some pretty obvious ways to know if someone likes you. If you 'google' it, you'll be amazed how many sites there are that provide helpful hints about how someone feels about you. They really helped me out with my last crush. If enough of those "signs" apply to her then I would go for it and ask her out.
ASK YOURSELF
This takes the most guts but it has a 99.9% chance of a good answer. Girls like guys with enough guts to ask them themselves. So if you want, take the chance & ask her. Go for it! Then you can go right into asking her out & if she says no then just say "oh okay" & act like nothing's up.
Let's say she likes you...
I've always had trouble deciding whether a certain relationship was worth the friendship. I've finally decided that yes, relationships are & if you both handle it the right way, you won't have to risk a bad friendship.
Let's say she doesn't...
Just be nonchalant about it & act like it's no big deal. Unless you want to fess up to having feelings, you don't have to tell her. It may be hard to get over the thought that she doesn't return the emotions but it will be fine after a while.
Good luck! ♥
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