what are some of the best ways to get a girl to like u as more than a friend? i mean were really good friends already but i want more and im not sure if she does yet 2 but i want to know what r the best things 4 me 2 do not 2 screw things up and gain "points" with her?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SWANKiFiED answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 11:23 am: Well, since I'm a girl, I know EXACTLY what guys can do to make us fall for them. Here's a list:
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SWEET GESTURES
-Open doors for her. When you're hanging out one on one, treat her like a lady. Girls LOOOVEEEE to feel appreciated & catered to.
-Pay. Not that we're after money but if you pay, it shows that you COULD be interested & it also shows you care about her.
-Nice compliments. This is a toughie because if you over do it, then it may seem like you're trying too hard. Make about one o0r two compliments the whole day you see her. Don't make them obvious like about hair o0r clothes. Make them meaningful like smell o0r smile.
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IN CONVERSATION
-Really LISTEN to her. Be very interested what she's saying.
-Look her in the EYES. It may be tempting to look other places but when you look someone directly in the eyes it shows them that they are your main focus.
-Be RESPONSIVE. Don't just let her do all the talking. Particpate in order to make it a "conversation". It makes girls know that you're not one to just sit on the side lines.
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RANDOM
-Call her randomly just to talk to her.
-Remind her how much she means to you.
-Spend an overrall alot of time with her ONE on ONE. Even if it's just as friends, it build the relationship.
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