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Last Update: January 18, 2009
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for one and a half years. He still has his exgirlfriend's engagement ring in his drawer. When I ask him what he is going to do with it he just tells me he don't know. He says, "what should I do with it?" I am sick of looking at it. She has caused so many problems for us. I just want the ring to be gone. He says he doesn't want to just give it away because it cost too much money. At this point I am ready to throw the piece of metal in the dump. What would you suggest to do with it. (link)
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Have him sell it to a jewler. He could probably get close to the amount of money he paid for it, and it would be out of your life forever. If you feel this strongly about it, you need to take the initiative to talk to him about selling it or pawning it. You could even offer to go sell it yourself, then he would get the point of how strongly you're against it.
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I'll admit, I am only 14, but I love the military. I have wanted to be a fighter pilot dating back to when I was five. My father recently retired from the Navy, and I want to join USAF, but I can't. I have diabetes. I find is very discouraging and discriminating that diabetics can not join. If one wants to join, I think the oppurtunity should be there. Right now, I am in Junior Air Force ROTC and my high school. I love the class, and I we (the "flight") were informed that if we joined the service, we would automatically be started at a higher rank than the others. But I do not have the choice to join, and I am considering to write to George Bush explaning how I feel. Should I? (link)
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Yes. You are trying to pursue a career with something you love and are willing to do whatever it takes to do this, but if you do write the letter, which I think you should, you should have your parents, as well as some friends and people who support this, sign it as well. Kind of like a petition. It is your choice and you want to serve your country. Write the letter. You deserve this chance and opportunity.
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Well how can I put this..
First of all I'm 14/F. I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe you could tell me if this is why..
Well I've like MANY guys. And some have seemed like they've like me too. For example, there's this kid that I "like" (you'll understand the quotes in a minute), and it kind of seems like he likes me too now. But now that he is kind of flirting with me, I'm starting to not like him now. What is this?!? It REALLY confuses me. I don't know why I am like this, can anyone explain?? Before the guy started flirting a little bit with me, I definately wanted him to like me, no doubt about that. Of course I did, cause I liked him. But now that it seems he likes me..I'm kind of avoiding him. Am I afraid of a relationship? I feel as if I will never have a boyfriend because of this reason, and it makes me sad & confused. Please help? (link)
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well, yeah. I've been in this position before. You think that you really like this guy, and then the feeling totally disappears. Completley. And you feel disgusted to be around him. You're not afraid of a relationsip, but I can definetley tell that you just haven't met the right guy yet. When you do, you won't feel the way you do. I didn't figure that out and just ignored the feelings, which led into bad relationships. You'll meet a guy who you don't feel that way with.
Nothing's wrong with you.
And not having a boyfriend isn't the world's biggest disaster either.
You wait until you find the right one.
Good luck sweetie.
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Well my teeth weren't that messed up in the first place but I got braces anyway to fix 2 kinda crooked teeth...anyway I'm getting my braces off in 1 week and to tell you the truth, I don't see much difference..when i look at my teeth (tilting my head up in the mirror..haha) they're still not PERFECTLY straight! should I tell my ortho or what should I do? I'm not pleased..and the thing that I wanted to fix in the first place..never got fixed! someone please help! (link)
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You need to go in and tell him that you are not satisfied with it. They have to stop the retainer if the braces haven't worked. It's your money so you decide what happens with it. If you haven't noticed a difference, you need to talk to him about exactly what is bothering you. Seriously, you can tell him to delay it because it is your money. I'm sure if you discuss this with him it will be alright. Call for an "emergency appointment" and straighten things out.
Good luck hon
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I'm 14/f and I am having trouble with my skin. I don't have too much acne (a couple pimples now and then.. but thats not my problem). I have very light/fair skin and my cheeks and around my nose are really red and between my eyebrows is covered in little acne dots and is very pale.
Can anyone give me any advice on what kind of makeup to use where? (link)
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Wow. We're like sisters. Pale skin and a little bit of acne. First of all. Don't go for the foundations and concealers. Find a powder. I would suggest L'Oreal true match. It's only about 7 dollars and works like magic, keeping away shine. You can get it at any drug store. Good luck honey!
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okay, i have dirty blonde hair that is long. i wanna cut it shorter with choppy layers. also, im thinking about getting side bangs. do you think it will look good? here is what i look like. www.myspace.com/tara_xoxo (link)
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That will look sweet. I think you should definetley go for the layers, but I also think you should get some light blonde highlights. But don't cut your hair above your ears. Get layers that are a littler longer then that. It'll look really nice with the shape of your face.
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ok here is the sitution i am 13 and in 7th grade there is this boy i like and i thought he liked me because all the time he grabs ma hips and rubs his you know what on m butt. and i sorta like it but when my friends ask him if he likes me he says no whats up with that please help i rate high (link)
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He is using you. He doesn't like you. Yes, he may like your body, but he doesn't want a relationship. He's just a horny little boy trying to get his dick into your pants. Don't you get involved with him honey!
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I'm starting to throw up my dinner each night. I know this isn't good, but i cant stop myself. What should i do? (link)
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You really need to see a doctor. That can lead to early cases of bulemia and it can totally destroy your throat. Go to the doctor sweetie. He can perscribe something to help you keep it down;.
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I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.
This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.
I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions? (link)
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You need to call CPS. Those children aren't being taken care of correctly, and the fact that the mother got so defensive about it is a red alert sign. You need to report this before one of them gets seriously injured. I had something like this happen to me once, and I didn't report it. I seriously regretted it.
And if you do send CPS and they find out everything is alright, then you know that you did the right thing in keeping the children safe.
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Why doi have stomachepains2 days after having sex? (link)
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Well, if that was your first time, it's perfectly natural. Even if it was your second time. You just haven't stretched out your stomach. It's perfectly natural and should go away within 3-5 days.
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i got my period for the 4th month at the beginning of november. the very beginning. so i had it for like a 5 days. 2 days later i got it again and i still have it now heavy as ever. is this normal? it sucks so much nd i have used SO many pads!!! (link)
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Sorry to say honey, but since this is the beginning of your period, it's probably going to be irregular for quite a while. Nothing you can do about it. I'm sorry.
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I have a problem with bad breath...i always brush my teeth, i chew mint gum CONSTANTLY and i eat mints all the time, and yet my breath still stinks, what can i do to make it fresh?!?!?! (link)
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FIrst off...stop eating the mints and gum. all of that sugar just gathers together on your tongue, creating the bad breath.. Stick to the brushing and talk to your doctor next time you see him. but definetley stay away from the gum unless it's a special occasion or so.
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Im 16 and ive been going out with this great guy Jason(changed the name)for 3 years and have been best friends for 7 i really do love him .we only had sex once but i still got pregnant I told Jason and he was happy and said he wanted us to keep the baby but I still havent told my parents yet Im 5 months pregnant we told his parent and she totally freaked out so Jason* is living with a friend. My parents are really relgious so theyll want me to get married but I dontn know if Im ready to get married because I dont want to marry Jason* and then get a divorce so how should I tell my parent Im pregnant? (link)
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Well, I'm sorry to say, but if you're deciding to keep the baby, I think that you should get married. You've been together so long that I don't think it would be a big difference. You need to have a nice family for that baby...not have it grow up without a father. You do need to tell your parents so that they are prepared for the baby and in case something goes wrong, they don't just "find out" You need to sit them down and tell them. If someone else tells them, they might feel betrayed and hurt that their own daughter didn't have the decency to tell them.
Good luck darling
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Recently i met this guy called craig... and we went out . but then he had a nervous breakdown and got really depressed and started cutting himself and he dumped me after we had only been going out for two weeks! and he was going on about how he didnt know if he loved me and all thats stuff. Then after his depressive stage he came back to me saying how sorry he was and that he had chnaged and that some how he wuld show me that he cared etc. As stupid as i am .. i agreed and this was only on Tuesday, and everything was fine and he usually goes on msn for me all the time or texts me. But since Thursday i havent had one text even though i have text him and he hasnt been online... im scared that ive got my self into something i shouldnt again, and he doesnt actually like me
im so confused!!! please help iz he for real or is he messing around with me???? (link)
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Sweetie, I'm sorry that you haven't already realized this on your own, but you need to get rid of him. He isn't for real. He's probably into a stage where he doesn't know what he wants. Find someone who is theirself and doesn't feel the need to take out their depression on you.
There are better ones out there I promise
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I'm a senior in highschool. I've never been very popular but always had some nice friends. Well anyways I just found out that a guy in my english class has been talking about me behind my back. I've never done anything to him so I was suprised to find out just how mean he has been. Well according to some reliable sources he has called me ugly, stupid, and made hand gestures about my stupidity. I'm in the top ten percent of my class so I really don't know why he thinks I"m stupid. My friends tell me that when the teacher calls on me and I answer a question no matter what my answer is he will make fun of me.
The meanest thing he has said was that I was gross and no guy would ever want me. He is friends with my crush and I'm embarrassed if anything got back to him.
I have gone home in tears somedays.
I'm thinking of reporting him to the principle. He also bullies other people.
Why do you think he's so mean to me? (link)
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This screams that he has the lowest self esteem ever.
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To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away? (link)
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Wow. I was in this EXACT POSITION a little while ago. No darling, it's not love you feel. You just miss him and his company. He is so not worthy of you. Find another guy who will treat you right, and yes, I know exactly how you feel, except I let the guy do sexual things to me. I just missed him for a while, but i really realized that he was scum later on. You will get over him. It's not love. Please don't think it is.
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Hey peeps. I am thinking of becoming a goth. But I have some dilemmas.
1 my mom wont let me be what I wanna be. I know the consequences. I told me mom that I wanted to dye my hair black, and she freaked.
2 I cant get past the metaphores. To goths, gothic sayings may have a meaning but when I hear or see gothic sayings or quotes or whatever, all I see is stuff about blood, guts, and death.
3 Idont know any chain stores that has a lot of gotic clothing and silver jewelry with the gothic sighns.
Help. (link)
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Okay, well first of all...why do you want to become a goth? If it's for the right reasons..then go for it. If you're changing to becoming a goth because your friends are doing it or it's considered the "cool" thing. Just don't change who you really are. But if you're really into it, you can find that kind of jewelry online, I can almost guarantee you that you won't find it in any stores..Hot topic has some but mostly just kiddie stuff...Gothic clothing can be found on the internet as well...As for the hair dying thing..if your mom won't let you....You need to talk to her about it. Sit her down and give her the reasons that you want to dye your hair.
Tell me how it goes.
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I'm ill and have been for years and i struggle with going out. Because i didnt go out for 4 years and barely go out now my lovely blonde hair turned a horrible mousey dark colour. I really miss my blonde hair, it's getting lighter again now i've started to go out more but it will take ages to go back to its natural colour, if it ever will.
I want to dye it, just one of those home kits where it washes out really quickly just to see if i'd like it. I'm really worried about it turning out a disaster. If it turns green or anything will it go back to how it was before i dyed it? or will it ruin my hair? also because my body is weak, which includes my hair, will it make my hair fall our or get thinner or ruin it in any other way?
thank you (link)
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Well, for starters, you're just going to have to deal with your hair for now unless you want to put up with dying it. It will regain it's color, but you need to take your outings slowly. Don't start going out all day...Take it slowly...30 minutes..then an hour...then two hours..
Build up time...
Good luck sweetie
and you'll get the beautiful hair back.
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Ok. I have been thinking about loosing ALL of this weight! But if I do I am afraid that my arms and stuff will become excess skin and hang there like a 60 year old womans! I have ALOT of streatch marks on my arms up next to my shoulders and it already hangs (LOL) and some of it could be because I ahve long arms and stuff. But I don't know what todo. Be Obease and Die or Be So Ugly that I wish I Would Die!
-Nicole (link)
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Wow. First off...you're not 60 years old..so your body isn't going to adapt to your new weight loss like that of a 60 year old. I suggest that yes, you should try to lose the weight, but slowly! slowlyslowlyslowly! If you loose it all at once, then you will have saggy skin, but aim for..say...5-10 pounds a week. Then you won't have to worry about the skinnnn
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I get mad when people just annoys me at school. They think I'm doing something that I'm not and I hate how they embarass me. I think that they are being racist to me. I'm a senior in highschool. I don't even have anyone to hang out with there they all just rejects me. they think I copy them or trying to be in their group that I don't like.And they also make a point that they are just so perfect and they act well and I'm not. People that I don't even know also avoids me when I'm not even going up to them to talk or whatever. I can't take it anymore. What do I do? (link)
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Wow. Friggging assholes. Sweetie, you do not have to put up with that shit. Because that's what it is. You need to stand up for yourself or simply ignore these behaviors. The only reason they continue trying to irritate and harass you is because they can see that it gets to you. If you just try to ignore it, yeah, it's going to be hard, but if you try...then you will definetley get the better of them and they'll leave you alone.
Good luck darling
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