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Member Since: June 10, 2005
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Hi, Im going to the Vans Warped Tour in Milwaukee this summer. Its gonan be hot, so what should I wear? How long does it go until? Are there a lot of drugs? Am I gonna get beat up if Im sorta preppy? (im a girl) Let me know! thanks! (link)
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Well..if your wearing all pink you may get a slap. But there is security so as long as you dont go into mosh pits your pretty safe :D What to wear..hmm..nothing slutty ( i mean shorts wise) because of people there...just waer light, loose-ish fitting clithes, like a tank or something! There may be a few people smoking and all, but there wont be major drugs there@ HAVE FUN! And the time span is usually 12 hours..heh
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In my school in Social studies we always have to do projects. And the teacher assigned us to be partners with somebody. I got this boy and ever since i have been working with him for a couple days and everytime we work he gets closer to me. I dont know if he likes me and i dont know if i like him. im all confused. (link)
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Well figure out how you feel..if you like him, be a flirt! play along and if he backs away then you'll know how he feels :) If you find out anything and still need help just ask :)
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Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant? (link)
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With no sex? No not likely..sperm does not last outside of the human body. But it might be posisble if you had it on his/your fingers. Also, if his penis was near you in the lower sence, it may have gotten in. Just incase do a test! To be sure! and about the period, your stressing yourself out with this Im thinking, and this may have delayed you! If you have any more questions feel free to ask! :)
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well....i've been having such a hard time lately....i've been sooo stressed out with school and stuff.i know its almost over but its really a pain.in school today i wasnt acting myself and everyone was asking me what was wrong.im not even sure what is wrong.my mom constantly hassles me to the point of my wanting to stab myself and im really afraid that if i dont do sumthing soon them im gonna end up killin myself or something.please help me!!!!!!! (link)
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NO. your not going to kill your self, you have a whole life ahead of you, seeing your in school. Find your power fase, such as doing Yoga or Reading, something to cool you down. do NOT consider suicide because if you start to you might end up doing something insane (trust me i know lol). Yeah, but nothing can be wrong and you can still be like this, enviroment is major in emotions! And if your mom is hassling you to the point of Depression, tell her...dont be sarcastic though. If you need more Depression/Suicide/SI help just ask hun :)
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ok i always wanted to try something with my friends that are girls..im 14/f btw...and everytime i try to say something they say theyd never do that or whatever ..and i give them hints that i wanna do things with them..what should i do?? (link)
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They may be very conservative people..get them hammered then try Lol jkjk, but, go find some crazy people! Im Bi, so i know how it is. Dont force the hints if theyre trying to back away from you though... and most people wont want to do things :D at your age i mean.. if you need more help just ask!
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my dad just got me a new cellphone yesterday and its a Verizon - Audiovox CDM8600. I like it and all besides the ring tones. Anyone know where I can get free ring tones for this phone, all the free places I have been dont give service to my phone. like bestones.com and sonnerie.net- thx (link)
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Try dirtyhippo.com
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ok..so i want to learn how to play my electric guitar. would the person who teaches people be at a place that sells guitars? or a separate place? what am i supposed to say when i walk in? do you have an idea on how much i would go and how much it would cost? (like once a week, every week day, and so on) what will they teach me? dont say how to play...duh. but what will i learn? do you have an idea how long the lessons will be? (an hour, or what) and do you know how long it would be for me to be able to stop going to lessons? (a month? 3 months? how long?) and am i supposed to bring my guitar in each time i go to lessons? or am i going to be playing one of theirs? i think that would be pretty embarrasing to walk in holding a guitar ready for lessons...but it wouldnt seem right to be playing theirs when you should be getting used to yours or something. but whatever. or do you think i should just buy a tape and learn myself? please help! (link)
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Im in lessons now..and yes if you live near a shop theyre there or youll find some home based ones! And for what to say, just greet he person and ask things you want to know! it may be 35-70 bucks a month also :)THey will show you TABS, and guitar care most likely. Theyll give you many songs to play too! Yes bring your guitar, because everyone has a prefrence to their guitar, and you want to keep yours how you want it! Youll probably stay in lessons for 4 months or so, to get all of the facts down. If you need more help just ask, Im pretty good with music! GOOD LUCK!
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Last night I felt a small, solid lump under my skin just behind my left ear, it only hurts slightly when I press it. I showed it to my Mum and she said it was nothing to worry about and that if it was still there by Monday then she would take me to the doctors. I am slightly worried about it as I have also been having headaches a lot in the past five days. I have also been feeling slightly nauseous. Could these be linked? What is wrong? (link)
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It could be a syst, swollen gland, or a calciuim ball! Systs and Gland swellings go away very soon, just try tnot to toutch it alot and maybe take some advil for it :) But if its a calcium ball..it will either die down, or you can have it removed (Very simple they just make a slice then pluck it out! I have 3 in my ear..so i know it wont hurt!) Or you can just live with it..which is possible because they usually dont expand :D
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i have a black silky skirt for graduation and i got a size that is too big for me. i dont have a dryer so i cant shrink it that way.. what are some ways to shrink my skirt because i dont have a dryer.. i tried to put the skirt in hot water for a few minutes and then blow dry the skirt with hot air.. this doesnt work so what are some ways to shrink it? (link)
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To shrink totally...you should raise the hems and take the sides in (or have someone do it for you)...ayt this point ou can do that or just gain the weight and grow ^_~
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if i ride my bike for around 30 minutes ..will i get a flatter stomach (and how long will it take to see results) and what else will it help ? (link)
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BikeS? those are for your thighs and legs mainly, unless you power ride, like you see in races! But, that is still not the best for a stomach...it would take a few months... to get the fastest results, do V-Sits (hollow holds) or crunches before you sleep, or ...even Yoga on the extreme side! good luck hun :D
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I had a dream that my guy friend & I were "doing things" & I know I'm really starting to like him. Should I trust this dream as like a sign that we should start a relationship? (link)
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Dreams are usually a sign of what you want to live like! Make sure you want to though, like if you like how he acts and everything, putting the "things" aside :) You should feel good around his friends too! Go ahead, start something hun, but dont rush into things until your sure..until then..just dream away :D
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I don't exactly know how to explain so I'm just gonna try. My mom is a great mom and I love her so much! But all she does is try to please people and my brother's take advantage of that. One brother always makes her go out and buy alcohol for them and he gets drunk all the time with his friends. My other brother treats her like she's trash! He talks back cusses her out, calls her names, etc. It's scary sometimes because they get her to the point of tears and sometimes she actually does cry and my brother's and their friends keep going. She's told me before that the only thing that's keeping her from just ending her life is us kids and if we turn on her then what does she have? Nothing, and I'm scared she's gonna take her life. I want to help her get control of her life but I don't know how i mean I'm only 13! Please help! *thank you* (link)
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She should not be treaded on. Plain as that! Get her in a place were theyre not bothering her...and tell her to take a step at them! Next time they askher for something she should be assertive and make them do wht they want to do! Every time she cries, she's just giving in more :) Also, be there for her if you arent already! She needs someone like you :)
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hey i just have a question... my boyfriend watches pron and he tells me about it does that me taht is wants to be with other girls and isnt happy with what i am givin him or is it jsut a guy thing?
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Its mostly a guy thing, they can be COMPLETELY satisfied with their girls and still watch it. No idea why really. lol. But, you may want to see if hes happy to be with you. Like, see what he wants (pretty obvious, like most guys :)) But dont rush into anything!
Hope I Helped-
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ok so i was talkin to my ex n he told me to listen to a song n thats what he wants in life....the song is swing life away by rise against.....the he IMed me n said "we live on front porches and swing life away"...anybody know what the song means or what that verse above means?
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Its not a direct "meaning" mainly an interpretation! For him it may mean like, theyre watching life go by, and are having a great time. Careless, mainly. OR it may be romantic, like how he wants you guys to be close for the rest of life and live it to the fullest :)
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Thirteen/ Female.
I want to be an author, is there an age requirement to be one? Also how can I publish my book?
Thanks,
~K.C~ (link)
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No there is not. I published a book when I was 12, it's around my town : And to publish it, look around/on books for publishing companies! You may also go to a teacher to get reccomendations! Or www.winningwriters.com.
Good Luck! :)
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okay im 14 and i still havent gotten my perios is that something i should be worried about .... or just wait? (link)
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If you do not when your about 16..you may want to go see the Gynecologist. But no its normal, My friends didnt kick in until she was 17 and shes perfectly fine/normal!
-Hope I Helped-
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hi everytime im on my period i kinda get itchy down there. does anyone no what this means? is it serious? and is it normal?
thanxz (link)
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Its probably the pad hun, dont worry it happens alot!
Hope I helped :)
PS- You may want to use baby powder or something like Vagasil if its unbearable :)
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Ok my teeth weren't that screwed but I got braces anyway for a cosmetic reason..anyway, I only get them on for 5 months..it's been 2 months and I don't notice any difference..is this normal or is it just a waste of time..please tell me when I should notice a difference! (link)
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It is perfectly normal, mine showed a diffrence in about 3.5 months! Or it may kick in later, it ranges on how they are aligned! So dont worry, if it doesnt work they will make it :P
Hope I Helped!
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ok so a couple of days ago my chrch went to camp.. jst the middle school people... so i think i really changed but when i came back i broke up with my boyfriend and i just don't feel liek hangin out with some of my friends like that go to my school. iu mean i don't feel liek hangin out with my best friends and i don't know why.. most of them go to church or are vistin churches but i don't know whyn i don't wanna talk to them or hang out with tme even though i love them all to death!! i mean it feels liek im doin the right thing but how can i be doin the wrong thing when i'm not talkin to my best friends?? i just need some help so if someone would!! i rate high!!!!!!! (link)
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Best thing to do- Go do something really fun to you guys! You may just be changing, it happens alot :) If theyre your best friend,s, they should be able to accept you changing! You may not want to hang with them when you go do something fun, but eventually you'll have fun! And if you still feel like this, go meet new people! A fresh face is always a good thing. But make sure to be nice (or however you are originally) to your old friends! Good Luck! :)
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Yes, I'm going into high school next year and yes, I am freaking nervous. I know it's not as exaggerated as the movies make it seems, what with the plastics and all, but I'm not quite sure what to expect. Somebody enlighten me? (link)
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I just went into High Shool Yeah the Seniors are somewhat scary in the beginning, but just act like how your are. Impress no one but yourself :D The worst thing to do is try to be someone your not! And don't be afraid or anything, just watch out for people pulling tricks on you. Always lock your home door LoL! Good Luck in HS!
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