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well....i've been having such a hard time lately....i've been sooo stressed out with school and stuff.i know its almost over but its really a pain.in school today i wasnt acting myself and everyone was asking me what was wrong.im not even sure what is wrong.my mom constantly hassles me to the point of my wanting to stab myself and im really afraid that if i dont do sumthing soon them im gonna end up killin myself or something.please help me!!!!!!!
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ok, you're either very, very stressed out right now, or depressed, or possibly both.
first of all, you should know that no matter how bad things are, it's not worth dying over! you're life is so important and although we all say things such as "i don't know how i can go on when things are this bad" we have to believe that things will get better.
you should try sorting out everything in your head first. really try to figure out what exactly it is that has been making you so sad lately. if you could try to pinpoint a few things then you're off to a good start.
as far as your mom is concerned i understand. i love my mom but she can be very over-bearing at times. a lot of the times, if i'm too upset to talk to her straight out i'll write her a note and leave it on her dresser, basically asking her if she could please let up a bit because things have been very hard lately. i'm sure if she really knew what you were going through she wouldn't be such a hassle.
also, maybe you could try talking to somebody. i know it sounds so cliche to say something like "find a friend or adult you trust" but even what you're doing now, asking others for help, is a good step.
if all else fails, listen to emo music! (haha at least you'll know you're not alone in your hopeless, "i hate everything" feelings!)
seriously though, i hope things get better for you and my advice was somewhat helpful!
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i went through this you need a you thing like mine is running and no one can take that away when im upset i grab my shoes and a cd player and hed for the door fing something that takes your mind off of everything else this passes tiime and gives you a mini vacation
hope this helps
love talktome 224
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NO. your not going to kill your self, you have a whole life ahead of you, seeing your in school. Find your power fase, such as doing Yoga or Reading, something to cool you down. do NOT consider suicide because if you start to you might end up doing something insane (trust me i know lol). Yeah, but nothing can be wrong and you can still be like this, enviroment is major in emotions! And if your mom is hassling you to the point of Depression, tell her...dont be sarcastic though. If you need more Depression/Suicide/SI help just ask hun :)
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hey buddy
whoa not a good idea to kill your self i have had a hard times at school to with my school and other things to....i have wanted to kill myself several times but you know life can be a bitch sometimes but you have to realize everyday isnt going to be the same everyday has a different swing..... if you kill your self you are going to miss soo much if you leave....you arent going to know what the real world is like out there when you are older....or what your going to be....also there is going to be soo many people out their that actually care about you and are going to miss you no matter if they are or arent your friends....just take each day minute by minute and think about all the good stuff that you have achieved in the past couple of day minutes or hours and dont think about the bad stuff...that will bring you down!!!
well i hope this helped you out any!! i know what ur going through...so im here for you always and forever!!!!
love heather
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First, don't even talk about suicide.
I'm not even sure what you're stressed, maybe homework or studying but, maybe the problem is that you're not scheduling/making use of your time efficiently.
Like everyday, I make a list on what I need to do, I keep a daily calender and I just rank everything in order of importance, and just follow through.
Also, if you really need to take a "break" I would advise you to sit your parents down and tell them the stress that you're under and if possibly you could take a day or 2 from school to reboot and you catch up on whatever you're stressing about.
GOODLUCK LOVELY!
Let me know how everything works out! :)
If you have any more questions or need follow up advice, please by all means feel free to ask me.
<3AMY!
*Disclaimer-I write my comments without reading/referring to the previous comments before me.
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Ok, killing yourself would be a PERMANENT solution to a TEMPORARY problem.
Your biggest problem is that you are young and you are not in charge of your life yet. Your mom is still the boss. It may seem like a long way away, but one day soon, you'll be the one who makes all the decision, and you'll wonder why you were in such a hurry to get there. YOu will look back on this time in your life and think, "wow, life was simple back them">
Guaranteed
MIchele
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Stop and take a deep breath. Your mom loves you. That is the most important thing to remember. Sometimes it doesn't seem like anyone cares.. but the person who cares the most is the one giving you a hard time. That sounds weird now because you are young one day that will make sense. If moms didn't talk to you and get in your business THEN they don't care. Try making up a name and writing a letter to that person. That sounds wierd too but nobody will see this letter and a lot of times writing it down and saying it out loud helps you to make sense of it. Sometimes ladies go through some odd times during PMS... we cry we laugh we have short tempers. And sometimes we just want to cry for no reason. Have a bath and a good cry. Maybe a cup of hot choc. too. I'll listen if you want to write outloud to me. mrk1221@hotmail.com Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary feeling. Don't do that. You have your whole life ahead of you to get an education, have a career and a wonderful family. Your mom loves you and she was your age once. Talk to her, give her a chance.
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