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About a year ago, we bought 4 new Sigma brand tires for our hatchback. Since then, we've put about 20000 km on the vehicle.
Since the new tires went on, there's been a bit of a wobble, which is only temporarily fixed (for about 2 km) when we get the tires balanced. The last time we took the car in, the tech told us that all four tires have shifted belts. From what I understand, this means that all four tires have a serious manufacturing defect, which seems highly unlikely. They're saying that the tires need to be replaced right away, but my B.S. sensors are flashing.
If anyone out there knows cars, how likely is this scenario? Should we be running out to spend the money on yet another set of tires? (link)
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Here's a forum where there seems to be information on the possibility of "shifted belts".
http://www.bobistheoilguy.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=695057
If anything, take it to another shop and get a second opinion, to be on the safe side. It's not uncommon for vehicle shops to do what they can to get money, but you must also take into consideration, that the mechanic may be telling the truth. But, getting a second opinion never hurts.
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I'm a 13 year old girl and I live in pe south africa,I live in a smallish street. I would like to know how could I make some money? Baby sitting isn't a option cs I'm to young obviously. Pls help I really need the money. Oh and I'm a model and a dancer if that helps anything. Thanks to everyone who answers!! (link)
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Making money at such a young age is quite difficult. Have you considered doing house chores for your neighbors? Such as lawn mowing, maybe even light house works such as taking out their trash for them, doing their dishes, etc. Just some things to consider.
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today one friend saw that i habe a bandaid on my hand and asked me if i selfharm or something and i totally paniced,i made some lame excuse and i really hope she bought it,what the hell is so wrong with me,i felt so exposed when she saw it,like it was the end of something,and dont tell me that cutting is wrong,i know that,but it helps me and believe me i dont have anyone who i can tell,noone would understand
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I too use to do this. Until one day I went too far, and ended up in the hospital due to too much blood loss. There's no way to make you stop, but do realize, that cutting can be very dangerous. Not only could you accidentally go too deep, but whatever you are using could be contaminated, or rusted resulting in either a very bad infection, or tetanus. Your best bet to see what tetanus does, google it. As far from what I've heard, there is no real cure for tetanus, so it's pretty scary. Anyway, instead of cutting *which in my opinion is far too dangerous, not to mention, a lot easier to catch* try biting yourself, or replace it with a rubber band. Like, weening yourself off of it. I understand it can be difficult to quit something, it's surprisingly like a drug. A way to temporarily forget, and release the stress and frustrations of the day, but in the end, your physical appearance will thank you. I honestly do regret having done it so often in the past, I'm left with these awful scars. It's something I won't know how to explain to my children should they ever really notice it and ask. Just remember, no matter how grim things look, life is still beautiful, you just have to look past the piles of debris. Be strong, in time you can get past all of it.
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I masterbate sometimes, and i when i orgasm, i dont squirt and jizz everywhere like i want to. Some comes out when i squeeze my penis, but i want to squirt. any advice? (link)
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Perhaps masturbate less, or go longer periods of time without doing it. Some people are capable of "squirting" while others, it's not possible. But yes, try going a month or whatever without masturbating, and see how that works for you. There are even supplements you can take which supposedly enhances the amount and power it comes out at. *shrugs* Try googling up other techniques, I'm sure there are MANY men out there with the same question as you.
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So there's this guy from work that i really like. Whenever weve work together or alongside, I've always felt that there may have been a mutual liking as well. There would be times when he would hug me randomly and multiple times throughout the day , and there was also this one time when he asked if I had a boyfriend, and when I said no, he was shocked and surprised and exclaimed "what?! Why ?.. But ur so attractive !"
The catch is is that he's six years older than I am. I'm currently 16 years old.. Turning seventeen next month and he is still 22.
I know that automatically people would say that it is illegal And that i shouldn't bother. And i understand that. But when he found out my age he was so surprised, that in a way I felt like hes distant himself. Like he doesn't hug me as much and we talk less. But today although we didn't talk much , towards the end we did and he said " hey beautiful ", kept asking when i was graduatin from high school, and when we were by ourselves he hugged me and It was the kind where he lifted me up in the air.
I know I shouldn't expect much from this and I'm not trying to get my hopes too high.. But I can't help feeling this feeling when I'm around him.
What do u think I should do? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with the age difference. My husband and I are 7 years apart. If anything though, if you were to start seeing each other, before you turn 18, be sure that your parents are alright with it, if they are not alright with it, do NOT go behind their back and see him. Just wait it out until you are 18. I doubt you want him getting into trouble. Each state is different, of course, in these laws. So perhaps look up the laws in your state to make sure that if you were to see him, etc, that everything would be alright as well. Because some states require the younger parter *if under 18* to be 16, while others 17, and some not until 18. But, if you find that you have no choice but to wait until you are 18 years of age, yes, do not put too much hope into this relationship, just in case it doesn't work out before then. Until the day you two are capable of seeing each other, there is nothing wrong with being friends.
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I really want to have sex so if there are any girls out there who want i will (link)
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I totally agree with soph0900, and soph0900, your answer is Great lmao! But yes, there are adult "dating" sites, soph0900 has shown you part of the way.
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If a girl drinks sperm, will she get pregnant? is there any harm doing so? (link)
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First answer - No, if she swallows a males semen, she will NOT get pregnant. The only way for a woman to get pregnant via semen is if the male ejaculates into her vagina, and in some cases, near her vagina.
Second answer - The only harm that it can cause her is if the male has an STDs/VDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases / Venereal Diseases) as they will more likely transfer to her.
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so i really like this girl, and she has a boyfriend, im 13/m, and i masturbate. I dont masturbate thinking about other women, but im a small pervert. i dont want to masturbate, but i want to, a part of me says "yes" the other says "no".... what should i do? i really like this girl and i think shes the one made for me... please help! (link)
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First of all, you're 13 years old. Masturbation is completely natural for boys/girls going through puberty. It's nothing to be ashamed of, though of course, you don't want to go around to all your friends and say that you do it. It's a personal matter. With all of your hormones going haywire, you'll get the urges to do so, and it is also a good way to get to know your body.
Second, about the girl of course, she has a boyfriend, so all you can do is respect her relationship with him, and who knows? You are all very young, they may break up, and in time you may end up being her new beau. You don't want to interfere with another's relationship though, as it could cause issues later. If anything, just continue being her friend, and who knows, you two may end up being a couple in time. If not, remember, there are other girls that will make you feel the same way she does. Trust me, even though one person seems as though they are the only one for you, there are literally thousands just like that person. Though they may not look exactly like her, they may or do have the same qualities as she does.
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When Having vaginal Sex What Hole Do You Put The Penis In and how do you shove it up into the vagina? (link)
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There is only one hole down there that the penis can go in to... Well, depending on ones fetish or fancies. But, when the female is lying on her back, the vaginal opening is pretty much right there. The penis will only fit into there, though it may be slightly painful if she is not use to intercourse or has not had intercourse before. Gah, this is a bit difficult to properly explain... Here's a diagram.
http://medical.cdn.patient.co.uk/images/i44_l.jpg
It would be the one labeled, VAGINAL OPENING, that the penis enters... Not the urethra.. that is where women urinate from. ANd it's not so much as shoving it... I would take caution in doing that, as if the female in question is a virgin, that may hurt more than feel good. So insert carefully and gently.
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How many sleeping pills would a 13 year old girl who weighs 45 and is 155cm have to take until she dies?
How long would she sleep for if she took about 8?
How would she feel the next morning( eg.tired,nauseas ect)
Would she die if she took 8?
How would she look the next day?
If she took it at 9 would she wake up at 6:30 the next morning if someone had to wake her up?
This is NOT for me or anyone I know its for a school thing (link)
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There's a problem with taking sleeping pills or any pills really for suicide. It's NEVER a guarantee. You could take them, no matter how many, and still be alright, but the problem is, it'll make you very sick. You'd be getting sick, as well as possibly destroying your liver, which could be even more so painful. A friend of mine took many, and it did nothing but make her violently sick, and put her into severe pain.
Also... If they are teaching you things like this in school, you need to speak with your parents. This is highly inappropriate, even for academical reasons. But, for certain reasons, I won't give you full answers to this question, as it seems fishy to me. If you are thinking about suicide, instead of ending your life, how about going and getting help instead? As I said, this question seems very fishy to me. I am pretty sure schools do NOT teach such things in school.
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For some reason, I LOVE being dominated in bed. I like handcuffs, being choked, whips you name it. But outside the bedroom i'm a completely different person. I'm normally on schedule with my daily routines, shower, study for school because I want to be a nurse. Sometimes when my boyfriend and I don't have sex I get really uneasy and tense as well. I don't know why i'm so horny all the time. If I don't orgasm I actually get sort of angry. It makes me think about having sex with this guy I never been with before and I envision him dominating me because I didn't orgasm. It's not that he's bad in bed I just don't cum as quickly as he does. I've been with my boyfriend and ONLY him for about 1 year and a half. What's the psychology behind me wanting to be dominated thing? If i'm thinking about other guys sexually, is it time that I take a break? So confused. (link)
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First, there is nothing wrong with your likes of being dominated. Everyone has different fetishes. Some like bondage, sadism, and or masochism. While others have what some consider very weird fetishes. It's completely natural. As for fantasizing about other males/females, it's completely natural as well. It doesn't mean that you have to take a break from your current lover, as sometimes it may be the only way to "get off". Anyway, as for this high urge for intercourse, depending if it's just during certain times, it could be due to ovulation. *even if you are on birth control, you still ovulate, the birth control just insures that the egg does not stick and get fertilized* If these urges are ALL the time, then chances are it's just that you have a high libido. Sometimes males don't have as high a libido as women. It's all really a 50/50. Yeah, they say men have higher libidos, but honestly, I believe it goes either way. Men can, as well as may not, and same with women.
As for your partner climaxing before you, have you discussed this with him? Perhaps try foreplay before going right into intercourse, also, there are gels and creams that can either help him last longer, or help you take less time. It's something to look into. Depending on where you live, you should be able to go into an adult store at age 19, if not, then check some things out online *which is usually more comfortable for people, more privacy, and most sites mail the packages under a different name, so instead of receiving a package under "Sex toy store blah blah" they tend to use a different name.* So perhaps consider getting yourself a toy to help you with your urges when your mate is unavailable, or at the time unwilling to "go at it". There are many sites online, with many different types of adult toys. I'd make some suggestions, but due to there being minors on this site, they are not sites I feel comfortable posting. But browse around, and get an idea of gels, creams, and possibly even toys that may suit your needs.
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My friend is 12 and 5 foot 1. She weighs 91 pounds and she thinks she's heavy. Is she underweight, average weight, or underweight? I'm not sure because I'm a year older than her. (link)
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Honestly, it sounds as though she is underweight. Here's a site that may give you a better idea of what she should be weighing right now, according to height. But there are also other factors that go into what one should weigh. She has time to grow yet. Considering she is only 12 years old, she may be the weight she needs to be, but there's no telling honestly, because I'm no doctor.
http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.htm
Here's a site that gives you the ideal weight one should be near or around, just fill out the information, and get the area of weight she should be at etc blah ;p
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Hi. So my husband and I are trying for a baby. He has cum in me multiple times since my last period which started on Jan.23rd. The last time he ejactulated inside me was on Feb. 17th. For a few days before that I started having strong breast tenderness mostly in my left breast along with LEFT lower abdomen pain and pressure. By pressure I mean it feels as if something inside me is trying to push it was out. The pain lasts for about 20 seconds and goes away it comes off and on all day and night. I also have cramping on the left side. On the 21st I went to the doctor he did an HCG blood test but it showed negative when I got the results the next day. Anyways the late afternoon of the 21st I started to get a brown discharge when I wiped. It then progressed slowly to some blood as well. I thought it might be my period coming a couple days early as I had the cramping as well. But My period is usually VERY heavy Red blood with clots and lasts seven days. This was very light and very little red blood was mostly light red and brown blood. It went away yesterday until last night and a little bit continued to today but there isnt alot at all so this would be four days. I still have pains only on my left side. I do have cramping though in all my pelvic area. Now when I went to the doctor he said there is no chance I am pregnant according to the test. But the HCG test was done before my period was actually due and if I just started Implantation would it show up??? Im not sure what to think. Oh I also have had a sharp pain in my left shoulder and arm as well the whole time. Please any advice.....Thanks!!! (link)
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The brown blood is normal, especially for a period. It's old blood from your last period leaving your uterus. As for the cramping, breast tenderness, and bloating, that's natural as well for periods. The blood clots are normal too, as it is mostly the old uterine lining being expelled from your body. Here is something to think about - Did you use to take birth control of any type? Some birth controls, after ending them, may take up to a year to fully leave your system and due to that, it takes your body time to re-regulate itself. Making getting pregnant difficult.
Previously I have also read, that most couples trying to conceive typically fail, regardless of health, and whether or not there was or was not birth control involved. All you can do is keep trying, and don't despair if it takes a long time. For my mate and I, it took us 2 years before we were able to finally have a child *though I'm still pregnant, we are due in april* As with my first pregnancy, we lost it. This one is holding strong. All you can do is keep trying, and hope for the best. It may not happen right away, but in time it will, so keep at it, and don't give up, especially if you really are ready and do want this child. Here are some calendars that may help you estimate ovulation times *it's not 100% accurate, but it can give you a rough idea, and remember, sperm lives inside of a woman's body for up to 1 week*
http://www.babycenter.com/ovulation-calculator
http://www.webmd.com/baby/healthtool-ovulation-calculator
http://americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/ovulationcalendar.html
http://www.thebump.com/calculators/ovulation.aspx
I have posted multiple ones, in case you didn't like the layout of a previous one.
Also, here are some sites that may help guide you into getting your desired little one :) As well as possible difficulties, etc.
http://theadventurouswriter.com/blogbaby/taking-too-long-to-get-pregnant-different-baby-making-tips/
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=53729
Do remember, when you are ovulating, your body usually gives you different signs, here's another site to help you out.
http://www.whattoexpect.com/preconception/fertility/five-ways-to-tell-you-are-ovulating.aspx
I really hope all works out, and remember don't give up, and keep trying. Good luck :)
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So far i have been working out for a few months, losing alot of weight (but im very healthy) i dont starve myself.. to be specific i eat 3 meals a day, i do Insanity and i run for a good hour or more.. i was getting my period normally but after a few it started becoming very irregular, stopping and coming back after a few days. or coming and then randomly stopping after just a little of blood, like i dont even remember the last time my pad was full. :/ and im very worried because i feel like now that im thinner i wont be having a normal cycle, should i not be concerned about this? maybe when i reach my goal weight and maintain it my period will be regular again? When i was 14 i used to starve myself because i wanted to lose weight and i lost a drastic amount of weight in a very short amount of time and my period stopped coming for 3 months then i gained all the weight back and it was very normal again.. but now im 18 and this time it didnt stop COMPLETELY now that i eat healthy and workout but it comes and then it just randomly cuts off, and its starting to really scare me. Please let me know if this is normal, thank you very much :) (link)
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A change in daily routine/diet can effect your monthly visitor. Considering you are exercising everyday, and from what I've seen Insanity is quite the excessive work out, *I watch my friend do it, I can't do it, because I'm pregnant ;p* I honestly believe it will change your period, as it did for her. If anything, I would consult your gynecologist, or family doctor, she did and he suggested birth control pills, if you aren't already on them, try getting put on birth control pills, as they may also help to regulate your period.
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Just had our one year anniversary like 5 days ago...
I just got back from out of town this weekend and I really missed him, sending him texts/pictures; I thought we were at a good place before I left but when i got back today he was busy playing video games and acted like I wasn't there or mattered. I told him he was annoying me so I didn't talk to him and I planned on going to bed but that didn't happen. I ended up taking a cab to a friends house because I didn't want to be around him, he didn't really stop me...does he not care about our relationship? I left his house before I could even call the cab so I walked to the nearest gas station. He appeared there a couple minutes later but where was he when I was walking out the door? He didn't say much besides why don't i just go back and go to sleep and stop being irrational. Cab came just in time and I left so here I am wondering what i should do..
Here's some background info about our relationship:
on/off relationship for the past year
had 3 breakups/breaks
he's jobless, car-less and is always broke
i feel like i support him most of the time
we're both in college and graduating in may
SO my question is should we just break up?
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I honestly feel that people expect too much out of relationships. Such as "Why doesn't he give me all his time? Why doesn't he come after me when I walk away?" etc. But if you really think about it, because women are so confusing, men don't know what to do. We're one way one day, then another on a different day. Then we get angry when they don't do what we wish them to. This is why most relationships don't last, because the women, in my opinion, expect way too much. If you truly do want your relationship to work out, meet on equal ground. He likes video games? Let him play, if you want to interact a bit more, see if it's a two player and join in, who knows? You may enjoy it, and there's something you two can do together. If you are truly that frustrated in caring for him, perhaps sit down and talk with him, and tell him it's getting difficult for you to provide for the both of you, and that you feel he should get a job, if not a full time, then at least a part time. If he can't meet you on equal footing, then perhaps you both are better off breaking up. I mean, if you two prefer different things, and cannot come to a compromise, it's not going to work either way, and since you are getting irritable due to the supporting of him, it may not work out at all. Just do what you feel would be best. Who knows, you may be able to find someone who'll meet your needs. But do remember, everyone has their flaws.
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My last period was in January not too sure the exact date but I know it was,the beginning of the month. February is almost over and I still haven't started my period? Is it too soon to take a pregnancy test or should I wait? If so, how much longer? (link)
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It may not be too early to take one. Especially since the month is almost over. I would suggest however, purchasing several pregnancy tests just in case. The dollar store carries them for 1 dollar, and they are pretty accurate. Though, sometimes you do get a bad one, but not all the time. But I would suggest buying at least 2, just in case *which will only cost you 2.14 all together* take one now, if it comes up negative, or comes up as a faulty one, wait another week and take another. But remember, going to see your doctor is always more accurate, especially if they do the blood hgc test. Good luck.
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I am 13 and I have a crush on my Uncle's son.I love him soo much.I cant stop thinking about him.He is four months older than me.He is really nice to me.I also caught him starring at me many times,and whenever I caught him he blushed and smiles.I am too shy to tell him that i love him and he is also too shy like me.I love him sooo much.Plss tell me,does he loves me?? (link)
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I'm assuming that this boy is your cousin. So, if you two should end up dating, do be prepared for disapproval, by your family, and possibly even your peers. Since dating a close relative is looked down upon in many places. As for whether he loves you or not, it's impossible to say. Perhaps he has a crush on you, perhaps he's like that with many other people as well. I've known many people who blushed at everything/everyone, just because they were shy in general. So there is no real way to tell if he does fancy you or not, other than asking him.
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I'm a 13 year old girl and I was trying to take a pic of myself in front of a mirror. My hand hit the mirror, but it didn't break or crack or anything. I'm just scared that it broke and I just don't see it.. Sorry if this is a stupid question but I have a problem w/ my paranoia and I don't want bad luck ;(
P.S. This isn't a joke :( (link)
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Chances are you did NOT break your mirror... If you did break it, you would of noticed a crack, or even a shattering. I say if you did NOT notice any of this, your mirror is fine.
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I am 13, a girl.
Recently I have been getting this really strong urge for sex and orgasms. I keep trying to finger myself to try and see what it feels like. I have done the 'shower head on your privat parts' and want to know if there is anyway possible to tame these urges. Thx (link)
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Considering your age, these urges are completely natural. Especially since you are still currently going through puberty. Your body has and is still changing, as well as hormonal changes. In time, these urges will subside. If it becomes to bothersome, the best advice I could give you is, when you get the urge, the only thing you can do is try to put your mind somewhere else. Try reading a book, or try exercising. I suggested exercising, because if you do enough of it, you'll be to tired to even care about it at the time. But what you are going is normal. Many children your age get these urges, and in time, they all subside. I've always heard, there's nothing wrong with masturbation, as it gives a person a way to get to know their body. But as I've said before, if they become to bothersome, then try doing something else instead. If you have hobbies, such as arts and crafts, do that, or whatever else you like to do. Hopefully this was of some help.
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can hymen repair (link)
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No, it cannot repair itself. Once it has been broken, it's broken for good. Unless you were to get yourself the surgical procedure known as Hymenorrhaphy, hymenoplasty, hymen reconstruction surgery. Some people believe that if you go so many years without intercourse *sex* it will, but this is not true. It may seem like it due to how the vagina tightens after time, but the hymen, as I have said, will never repair itself. I'm not sure if this is what you wanted to hear, but you're better off knowing the truth, than believing in lies.
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