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I have recently read the hunger games and found them quite gripping and they were so...... constantly suspending. I would like to know if anyone has read any other books similar? I dont like horrors or scary books though!!!!! (link)
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The Game of Thrones (all 7 volumes).
Gone (6 volumes: Gone, Hunger, Lies, Plague,Fear and Light).
You can find out about this books on wikipedia.
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Okay help me out guys. I would say I have a lot of friends not being cocky. I know a lot of people from my town, the town next to mine and then some people from 2 others towns that everyone knows as well. Popularity I'd say im in the middle,but lemme say im fat so honestly it's obvious that's why not as many people like me. I feel like I have no friends though. This is only out of school, no one texts me calls me and honestly I think I could die and no one would notice or call. I have a few close friends (im a girl) who even rarely text me. I never get texts to the point where I don't even need a phone. In school i fel so much better because there's one guy I look forward to seeing everyday who actually likes me i think only as a friend but ivealways liked him. My lockers 2 away from his so i talk to him whenever I can and he's in all my classes. Hes not too popular either even though he could be so it makes me feel so much better. If it weren't for him and my bestest friend who ill call Sally who understands me inside and out I really think Id be very depressed. Sally doesn't text me often tho either which ugh bothers me because no one texts me and I feel worthless because whenever im with my friends they always have someone texting them and im just like playing games or doing nothing or trying to see who or what they're texting about. Not even just girls no guys EVERtext me or look for me which is really upsetting and no one has liked me in a long time ive only had my first kiss im not telling exact but im gonna tell u im under15.someof my friends have hooked up (madeout)with guys and then there's me who no guy ever looks to hu with. I have a great psonality im funny too but basically what everyone sees is fat fat fat. I like guys but no one ever likes me back. I've thought about suicide but don't think I'd ever actually be able to do it. I couldn't do that to my family. I think about myself having no friends and no one ever liking me,being unpopular,being fat and more all the time and i cry at least every other night in bed. No one acknowledges my existence and idk what to do about it please give me advice and don't say anything mean please try and understand me I feel so alone (link)
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Hey don't be so harsh on yourself. You have to start thinking that you're a beautiful girl, basically you have to accept yourself for who you are. Then others will accept you. Trust me I've been in a similar situation and how much you weigh doesn't matter at all-it's your personality that counts.
About those people who you're jealous over as they get a lot of text messages, don't be. Be yourself and remember having a few good friends (like that Sally and that guy that you talk to) are much better than having a lot of friends that you can't rely on. Those two friends of yours like you for who you are and that is really important as you don't have to pretend who you are. If I was you I would just stick around with them and completely block out others, they're not worth your time.
Text messaging. Is it really that important? Not really. If you feel alone go out somewhere, meet some new people or just meet up with Sally or that guy.
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ok im 13 and in 8th grade and I found out a guy likes me I figured it out on my own but even my friends say they can tell too im scared hes going to ask me out 1 because I don't like him that way and 2 cuz like last week me and my friend made a deal thr next guy who asks us out we have to say yes and cant break up with them until a week has passed then on facebook my best guy friend who is also friends with the guy had messaged me asking me would I ever go out with him and I said why then he said just asking then I said idk then we stopped chatting so should I forget about the deal or should I go along with the deal ? (link)
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Forget about the deal girl. Don't ever say yes if you don't fancy them, it's pointless. Just tell this guy that likes you the truth.
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what does it mean when guy tell they guy friend that I was riding her? (link)
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I was riding her means that I had sex with her.
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Hello :} im sorry if this is long. okay so there is this guy(His name is Andre, one of my guy friends knows him...) and this all started when i read a love story and i pictured what the guy and the girl in the story would look like. so i went to school the next day and i noticed the guy in my dream looked just like Andre and ever since then i see him everywhere. at my locker, in the halls, passing classes in the line for the bus, on the bus EVERYWHERE(at my school the girls and guys have to split the gym and he's on the boys side and when the guys had to share the gym with the girls in groups...i was in his group)so i notice that whenever im on the bus and im talking to my friends in the corner of my eye i can see him look my way(im not sure if he's looking at me though :/ )and when i was coming out of the change room i saw him and his friend outside of my change room(which is weird because his is on the other side of the gym closer to the door)and he was looking at me and smiling. since i didnt know if he was smiling at me or if he was smiling and looked at me i just looked away. And i went to a restaurant and got a fortune cookie and it said "a distant romance will look more promising"....ya i kind of got freaked out. and i also went to this physic(i was at niagara falls and it looked interesting....dont judge)and asked her about my love life. she said that i have feelings for someone but i will become more open about it and soon tell them out of guilt...now i dont know what to do.(i saw him twice today by the way) AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO... PLEASE HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO
-Lucy
P.s sorry if this was long :/ (link)
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You're a lucky girl. In my opinion this is destiny for you two to be together (i know that some people don't believe in destiny but trust me it exists).
If you say that you see him nearly everywhere and that you believe that he is looking/smiling at you then just do the same thing. Smile back at him. Maybe go and talk to him about something like lessons (something simple/everyday stuff).
Take it slow, don't tell him straight away that you like him. Check if he likes you first and the only way you can do that is by talking to him. If he invites you somewhere or if he'll talk to you, you will know that he wants to be friends with you.
Anyways talk to him and tell me how it went then I will be able to give you more advice.
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I'm 14, and a girl. So last year I came on this website and I was looking at the "Recent Popular Questions" and I saw a question asking "do I have this disorder?" Me, being nosy as I am clicked on it and it said the symptoms of depersonilization disorder which I only have one( feeling like life is a dream)which is normal but I read if u think too much about it u eventually believe you have it. My grandmother and I have touched on this subject and she got me a counselor. I'm really shy so I don't want to go to a counselor but anyways, I've had this disorder on my mind for the past 10 months and I've been really worried I'm going to get it because it doesn't sound like fun to have at all. I want to live my life, not worry my life away and btw I have ocd(which really sucks) and I have gone some days without worrying about this..I'm just really scared I'm going to get it, how can I forget about tht disorder?? Help is much appreciated(: (link)
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First of all there's nothing wrong with being shy.
Secondly you say tat you only have one symptom of this disorder and trust me that it doesn't mean anything. If you are worried that you might have it then simply go to the doctor and he/she will either confirm it or reject it. If the doctor confirms it then you can start worrying but now when nothing is obvious you should be enjoying life like you said.
And lastly don't believe everything you read especially things from dodgy websites. They're never true-mostly lies designed to make people worry.
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hey. since recently my friend and her bf got in a fight over his new kik account over fall break. then on monday he didn`t speak to her at all. on tuesday he waved at her and they talked a little about the fight but then he had to go to class. later that night he unfollowed her on instagram and he liked a few of her pics. he hasnt returned her texts though. how can she save them both please help. (link)
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If I was that friend of yours I wouldn't bother saving the relationship. She has tried to talk to him and if he doesn't want to talk to her than there's nothing more that she can do.
For a relationship to work two people need to want to make it work. If one person doesn't than there's no point in continuing it.
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I play club volleyball and I am trying to decide if I should also play basketball. It would really help me out but I don't know if I like basketball or not? (link)
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Give basketball a try. You'll never know you might end up liking it.
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So I use to date this guy we'll call him L but then he got too needy and clingy so I broke up with him and started dating this other guy named K. Now K was equally needy and clingy in his own way but for some reason I didn't mind I could take it and when he talks about sweet stuff I get all sorts of butterflies yet when L talked about the same exact stuff I would get annoyed and tell him to just stop. I don't get it why do you think that is? (link)
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The answer is really simple. You're in love with this guy. But this time it's not just some crush or teenage love, it is true love. Nothing more that I can say but congratulations and good luck!!!
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OK, I am talking to this guy, but he doesn't live in the same country as me. He is like 3 years older than me. He plans on moving to the US, and he is like the only person that likes me. But, should I keep my hopes up about him? No rude reply's please. (link)
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No. If you don't want to get hurt than don't keep any hopes. Great you're talking to the guy but are you 100% sure that he'll move to the US. The answer is no you can't so if I was you I'd look around you for people who live near you. It is proven that we don't even know what great people live around us. We like to complicate things (I don't know why but we do) and we forget about the simple things like trying to get to know our neighbors. Try it and I'm sure you wont regret it. Good luck!!!
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There is this guy I like and I think he likes me too but I have doubts sometimes. He started talking to me first. He always comes around me and talks to me. He asks me lots of questions about myself like where I work or what I'm doing on the weekends etc. Sometimes we joke and tease each other. He touches me a lot like on my arms or my shoulder or my back which I heard was a sign that a guy could like you. He calls me doll all the time which I think is a compliment. Sometimes he will even come sit next to me really close and talk to me. He told when is birthday was and then on the day of I said happy birthday he got all happy and said you remembered! So I think he likes me. But he hasnt asked me out yet or for my number. I'm not sure what to do. Should I wait or is there anything I could do to show I'm interested. I dont want to do anything to scare him off or mess things up. Could you please help? (link)
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It is clear that this guy is your friend as he spends a lot of time with you. If he likes spending time with you than he definitely likes you because let's be honest guys don't like to waste their time. He sounds genuinely nice from your description and I have no doubt that he's a great guy. You didn't say how long you know each other for so it is hard to say why he hasn't given you his phone number yet. Maybe he has the same doubts that you have, maybe he isn't sure if you like him. If I was you I would talk to him openly about you're feelings. I know that you might be scared but trust me if he's a real friend and most importantly a real man he'll understand. Remember there's nothing better than a good talk.
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Hi guys . I am 13 and in 8th grade. Okay first off, I have a big friend problem. I have been friends with these two girls, lets just call them Alice and Nicole, roe five yrs. in 6th grade I started hanging out with these two other girls, lets call them Eva and Lauren, and it was fun. In 7 grade something happened with my older sis and I told Alice and Nicole. Nicole told one girl and she told well EVERYONE. I had a breakdown, started going to the school counsels office during lunch and hadn't touched my phone for two weeks when lauren and Eva approached me again(but this time they werent pushing for details) ( they wanted me to keep on hanging out with them but i wanted to stay away from everyone)They said if I didn't want to talk about it it's fine and we bonded. Nicole had apologized a zillion time in that two weeks, and said that some girls saw us talking in hushed voices and said they would tell her crush she liked if she did not spill. I forgave her eventually, but it was never the same. Okay also with Eva and lauren is a girl named Mary. She was new last year and we became friends. This year it seems like lauren has made friends with this mean nasty girl named Sophie. So I want to know who should I be friends with. I know this sounds like middle school drama, BUTNIT IS NOT.I was thinking about killing myself this year cause I felt so alone. Nicole and Alice don't get me anymore and I think Mary would be a good friend but I don't really know her and my parents are always off on buisness trips. Lauren just makes me jealous so that would not work and Eva would not either cause i do not think she thinks of me as a bff. I feel SOOO alone. I am dwelling up all my problems in myself. It is like no one loves you. No one understands you. I wonder if I kill myself people will finally notice me. (link)
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By reading your story I have realized that I once was exactly the same. I thought that I was alone and that I was rejected by my friends (lack of friends). And yes I did try to commit suicide many times but it never worked. Suicide isn't the answer to your problem-it isn't an answer to any problem.
About your friends. If you feel like you cannot be friends with them anymore then find yourself new friends. I know it sounds a bit harsh but the truth is that true friends will always be with you no matter what. Or you could try to know that Mary girl a bit better. You never know, you two might just click. Give it a go.
About your parents. Most parents these days are busy. You should try to understand them because they do it for you so that you will have a better future. If you feel alone then talk to them. Maybe they'll find some time just for you. Or you could go and visit other relatives, they'll definitely be happy to see you.
Hope that this helped you somehow but please whatever you do don't commit suicide as life is too precious. Also try to think more optimistically-turn the negatives into positives.
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