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13-f.. My older sister is now 17 and she was aneraxic for a few years and was in and out of the hospital. Shes been out of the hospital for a while now but im still really worried about her because shes starting to get skinnier but very slowly im not sure if its from doing track or not but shes been watching what shes been eating again and sometimes i find it annoying. We never had a good sisterly relationship. We used to fight alot and sometimes she would hit me and swear at me, but i understood why she did it because she was really depressed and didnt like the way she looked.( Even tho she wasnt fat at all and she was beautiful). I'm not sure how to stop worrying can i have a lil bit of advice???
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ok well talk to your parents and adults that are trusted get her help anerexia is a mental health issue and it will kill you so you need to get her help but you cant blame her how you see her is totallly different from how she sees herself she thinks shes a bloated whale you see her too skinny but pretty. she will quit eating till she thinks shes naturally skinny. anerexia can also be because of teens& celebrities that get skinny girls feel bad about themselves.good luck im sure things will be fine
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I have horrible handwriting.It is realy hard to read it.Once I got sent to the principal just because of my handwriting.My teacher said I should go to a doctor.I went for a dance class and you had to bend your thumb and keep your other fingers flat.I ended up bending all my fingers.I was the only one who could not do that.My mother will not take me to a doctor,she says we'll get laughed out of his clinic.Some times even I can't read my hand writing.I am 13/f.
Is there something wrong with me? (link)
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theres nothing wrong with you so dont think that your fine everyone has something wrong with them so dont think that just practice it more and good luck you'll be fine
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I have a friend Luke, and I really like him. As in more than a friend. But Im not sure he likes me. So, he broke up with his girlfriend (Emma) and he really liked her. Then he hooked up with another girl (Rachel) but he didnt like Rachel at all, he was just trying to make Emma jealous an dget back with him. But it didnt work. Soon Rachel and Luke broke up, and he still liked Emma. But then he thought that she wasnt worth the effort so he stopped liking her. When we are in class, Emma keeps telling me that Luke likes me and that he's trying to get attention. But im like "Nah.." And now he's looking for another girlfriend, and asian again. All his girlfriends are asian. And guess what, he said he liked my best friend! I cant stand that...I feel like dying...i worked hard to get to him but it doesnt work...he told his frend that he thought I liked him (which is true) but I said "No i dont" because he doesnt keep secrets that well...And i wouldnt want to look like an idiot. I nearly started crying, so I went to my other group and said that they were leaving me out, and started crying, but I was actually crying because he liked my best friend. How can i make him notice me...he's my soulmate, and were really good friends. He's the perfect person. (link)
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thats very stupid of him to try and make his girl jealous and i just think that only going out with aisians is pretty pointless. so i wouldnt wait for him unless he changes his mind about only going out with just asians and make sure he doesnt like your friend good luck
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well im going out with this kid,we'll call him jack. Hes so awesome and funny and hott and everything..[[haha..but hes a nerd]] b4 we went out his profile said he was desprate...so i was thinking did he go out w/ me just bcuz he was desprate?? we never talkin in school and stuff,but i would really like to,and we dont even hug..how can i slowly but surely get to no him and become a good girl friend to him?? i really love him and he dose to but its boring just to talk on aim ...
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OH my lord ok well hunn dont think you need to change hes the one that needs to change and that desperate thing if your a smart girl you'll know if he dowsnt talk or hug you somin is wrong so you need to get him in check talk to him not on IM im tlking about the phone you need to tell him to act like a real b/f good luck
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i think i need help because like i have cut myself before and i had stopped for a while too.. and then something happend today that just like makes me want to do it again becuase me and this kid got into a huge fight.. how can i not do it anymore what are some other good ways to take anger out... (link)
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cutting is never the answer! not to be mean (!) but you need to take your anger out get a punching bag or scream into a pillow cutting is not the way to take out anger so please dont do it stop completley because you can be hurt severly blood loss and you could kill yourself so please dont do it try something else and talk to someone.good luck
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Yesterday my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We broke up because he has to work this summer and he says itll be really hard for him to just see me for one day a week instead of the six that were used to. I was so sad after hearin this, I cried almost all night cause i really miss him. Now last night he started to second guess himself, and he tells me how he made a huge mistake and he didnt think it thru. Well he wants me back for the summer. What sould i do, I do really like him amd want him around. Should i let him back??? just be friends??? or take a step backwards and say were just dating again????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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just date again because he'll be sad and you will probably rethink it if you dont so just tell him you accept his offer for going back out and you should talk to him about his job plans i doubt that you'll only see him once a week so talk to him and get back together!good luck
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i met this guy at the valentines dance at my school.we started playing a game called poke.and he kept on plating with me for trhe rest of the year.well i started to like him and my friend told him and he said ok and said that alot of girls like him. then i told his sister that i like him and she said ask him.and my bro and his sis were goin out at the time.and i dont want to ask him .should i?HELP!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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ok ok if you like him you should totally go out with him its not a maybe its a definelty YES so dont think about it do it before hes off the market by some girl who is totally wrong for him.!
if your bro and his sis are going out so what you guys can double on the weekends so have fun and go for him before its too late good luck PS-write me anytime im always here!
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i love my X but he has a gf now.. we were together for 8 months and i broke up with him and left for vacations. after i came back he asked me back but for some reasons we never hooked up again and fought. he started dating this girl and now they are together. when he was with her he used to call me but i never answer my cel because i was angry at him. about a month ago we saw each other at a party and he was with my best friend the whole party taking about me, he said "i would leave my gf just to be with her, i still love her." and more.. we talked but not much because i was too nervous to face him. we chatted and i asked him if what he had said was true and he said yes after that we didn't speak again, he didn't do anything neither did i. about 3 days ago he saw my best friend in tennis and they talked. she said "i always believed that you and alex would end up together" and he said "me too".. he always has in his nicks about past love and first love quotes like "i would never love the way i loved you" "it's so hard to forget about you" .. in his profile (wich he updates every week" he has "single" in his status. my parents were getting divorced, i was dealing with bulimia and my mom found out and gave me a hard time, i was feeling very low about me at that time but now i want him back. i think i'm losing him because he has on his nickname "now a love story is coming to an end" ..PLEASE advice me because i DO love him but put yourself in my position and tell me exactly what would you do!! remember that putting myself out there IS REALLY HARD.. PLEASE..advice me!! (link)
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ok well first i bet you love him because this almost made me cry and i think you should call him or send him a letter do something because this letter reminded me of The movie THE NOTEBOOK and that couple was so in love so please talk to him he loves you too and im sure everything will be fine good luck
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okay i have a bigg problem. see me and this guy have been on and off dating SO many times. and we love eachother so much. But the reason we split up was because of this argument we had. we stayed up soo late and just decided to take a break. well, then i started liking this guy in my social studies class,and he likes me. and see he knows everything about me and the other guy. well he asked me out, so i went ahead and said yes because i was gonna take a chance and see what happened. well now that the ex figured out, all these things come out, and me and his brother are really close friends. his brother told me all this stuff i didnt know, and it showed how he really felt about me, and its the same way i feel about him. Now, im split..cuz i like the one guy, but im in love with the other. but see most would go for the one they love..but my friend likes him a ton. so yeah. idk, what should i do?
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this is my toughest question yet but i think you should go for your EX I dont see why you would break off a great thing but if what happened is awful like cheating or something you need to talk to him about it. Maybe it will work out if he really cares for you.because no matter what age you are true love is possible.good luck
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Ok...I really like this guy at my school, but he is going out wit one of my friend and when ever a guy breaks up with her she gets all mad at them for it...and sometimes if she finds out that someone likes her boyfriend or the same person she likes...well then she gets all uptight and mad at the person...I have no idea what to do because i dont want to tell her but I like him more than I thought I would..:-\ Me and him jus started to hang out and that is how I got to no him and now that I am sure that I like him I have no idea what to do! PLEASE help me!! What should I do because I told him that i like him..and he wont really talk to me any more so please give me some help on what I can do...or any ways that you think I could get him to notice me so that maybe he would like me! PLeaSE HeLp!
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OK lost love heres what i think your friend is just like a regular teen but what you need to focus on is the guy and not her feelings if you like him go for it because he'll probly like you too and you wouldnt want to miss a chance if thats the one you want but if your friend has no chance go for it if the guy is not sooo ummm idk if hes not that focused on you then forget it I want my guy focused on me and only me I'm the only fish in his tank!lol but really do what you feel is right and not to be rude but flaunt yourself and make it happen!good luck PS im always here
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I am 15/f and I haven't had a crush in 2 years! Lately, I've been thinking, and I don't know if I am bi or straight! I want to be straight ..because everyone else is..and because it seems like the right way to live..but then my mind tells me that I could be bi..I am sooo CONFUSED! I really don't know what to do because I can't tell anyone! I mostly have girl-friends but I've never been attracted to any of them..sometime's I look at their butts and boobs..(but isn't that a normal thing that girls usually notice about eachother??) I am attracted to guys..sometimes when I saw a hot guy, I stare and tell my friends "Wow he's hot!" I'd like to think I'm straight but my mind keeps telling me I'm bi! I'm so confused! (link)
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ok well just be wat your cmofrotable with dont be something your not and be confident dont hide if your lesbian then just be open about it and if your straight thats kool too just be confident and do what you think is right.good luck!
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hi ,i m really confused wat to do .theres a guy in my class whom i really like but i haden't told anyone bout it.then few days back i got to now that my best frnd also likes him.that was too heart broking but then i thought i shud sacrifice my luv for her becoz i didn't wanted to hurt her.but just after few days when i was having headache i was sitting in the class alone,that guy came to me n said that he loves me very much .i was really shocked actually very happy.he said he wants my answer in few days.i m really confused now.i dont want to say no to him but then i also think bout my frnd.wat will she think of me when she will get to know that i m involved wid that guy.plz give me some answer soon!!!!
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Ok its not your fault that he likes you so just go with it. your firend will be fine. so just be confident.good luck
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Hey. I'm Taylor and i'm in 9th grade.
Okay, I have 3 best friends, Jenna, Kayla, and Mandy. Kayla's hair was straight but she got a perm and it seems like she thinks shes better then everyone else because she has straight hair and boys like her. She barely talks to me Jenna or Mandy anymore. Shes always hanging out with snobby people. What should I do?
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shes a real snob if getting her hair done got the friendship in the toilet go to her and ask whats up if shes your friend she will explain that she was wrong if shes not there are a lot more people you can be friends with good luck
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When I was 9 my mom threw me and brother out on the streets. He was 16 at the time and he took care of me. I'm 15 now and he's 23. Well I usually don't tlak about my past because I really don't think that it's that bad. At least I had my brother and that's more than some people have. Well the school found out about what was going on so I had to go to the school counsellor and talk to him and he told me that it would be a good idea to find someone that I can really trust at school to talk to if I have a problem. I really don't have a best friend I have friends but I never really got close enough to anyone where I was comfortable talking to them about important stuff. Well anyway I finally got up the courage to talk a girl that I've been friends with for a long time. At first she was really nice about it she said she would be there for me and that she understood and that it's ok to talk about things. Then I heard her say that I'm a lier and that I make things up for attention. I finally talked to someone and they did this to me. She told everyone that I pretend to do drugs and that I act all tough but I really don't. I've never said that I've done drugs or even tried them. I don't believe that they are the answer to anything.
My question is what can I do about this? Should I say something to her or pretend like nothing happened? And should I trust someone else or should I just keep things to myself like I did before? Thank you in advance and I will rate high. (link)
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thats sad but if your fine thats good you can talk to me anytime if you need to and your mother was wrong and your brother was an absolute angel to help you. you will get through this time at school to be perfectley capable of living a good life with your brother/? good luck write back
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My best friend stuffs and everyone knows it! She went from flat, from a 32 C in Except she doesn't know that everyone knows, how do I tell her but not make her mad at me?
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CoNfuSeD FriEnD (link)
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ok confused tell her that people found out and she needs to stop to avoid total humiliation dont let her go down for her bone head mistake stuffing is childless she needs to work with what she has good luck
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Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
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ok mixed you need to get the scoop on this guy I have had that said to me that my boyfriend was doing that and he was and i broke it off right away dont be dumb and think hes the love of your life get proof and do what you need to do with high hopes
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Hey i'm a 16/f and tomorrow's my last day of school. Soo i was wondering what are some things my friends and I can go out and do over the summer? Any advice is greatly appreciated! And thANKS! (link)
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ok well lets see go take a drive to the ocean or party at clubs drink just dont drive get makeovers get your hair/nails done anything JUST HAVE FUN
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I'm a 14 year old guy and im in love with my best friend. We've been friends for about 3 years now and ive liked her for around 2 and a half years now, I've gone out with her before, multiple times actually, and i can say without a doubt that im happiest with my life and myself when I was with her. But she left me because I am too romantic and I am not I suppose silly enough for her, she got her friend to break up with me when she was in a different state on a field trip, I've had my heart broken by her many times but I've never given up on my feelings for her. I do not know how I can deal with the pain i go through every day, sometimes i just want to die, I just can't get over her I've tried but I've never succeded and I now know i never will. She's just oblivious to my feelings and I just don't know what to do anymore. Could you help me? (link)
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OK Broken listen up I understand you want to be with her but waiting for her is sweet but its ruining your life there are other fish in the sea dont wait for just one i was in that situation before and i waited for my guy friend and i ended up being hurt but the next two days past and i was with one of the greatest guys ever so please try and look around you'll find your match good luck
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OmG! There's this girl that goes to my school, she's one of my best friends. But it seems that she wants to be exactly like me. She bought the same exact digital camera I had, the same battery charger, she has the SAME necklace I have, and the same exact purse. I usually don't get mad over this stuff. But now she's asking for the same cellphone I have. Am I over exagerating? (link)
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Not at all this happens its just probably she likes you so much that she wants to imitate everything you do. Imitation is the sincerence form of flatterey.Although if she is really going to far talk to her about it dont let her take over but be reasonable.Ive had many times like this and the best way is to talk to them you only need one you not two good luck anything else just write to me i'm always here
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i like this girl, i haven't told her because she said that it will interfere with our friendship....wat do i do? (link)
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ok "interference" my advice is that you should just leave things the way they are if she wants to just stay friends then you must respect her wishes mayb things will fire up cuz summer is on its way dont give up hope
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