I'm a 14 year old guy and im in love with my best friend. We've been friends for about 3 years now and ive liked her for around 2 and a half years now, I've gone out with her before, multiple times actually, and i can say without a doubt that im happiest with my life and myself when I was with her. But she left me because I am too romantic and I am not I suppose silly enough for her, she got her friend to break up with me when she was in a different state on a field trip, I've had my heart broken by her many times but I've never given up on my feelings for her. I do not know how I can deal with the pain i go through every day, sometimes i just want to die, I just can't get over her I've tried but I've never succeded and I now know i never will. She's just oblivious to my feelings and I just don't know what to do anymore. Could you help me?
preppypinkchikk answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 2:51 pm: Hey what yo need to do uis move on and forget about her is not worth your time to be waiting for her! Your young right now and you have a whole life ahead of you! You'll find someone soon its going to take time dont rush anything if u want to find someone that would be honest with you and really have feelings for you and like the way you are. The love of your life will come but it all takes time! Hope i helped and good luck! [ preppypinkchikk's advice column | Ask preppypinkchikk A Question ]
MmSBaBe167 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:29 am: OK Broken listen up I understand you want to be with her but waiting for her is sweet but its ruining your life there are other fish in the sea dont wait for just one i was in that situation before and i waited for my guy friend and i ended up being hurt but the next two days past and i was with one of the greatest guys ever so please try and look around you'll find your match good luck
Michele answered Monday May 23 2005, 11:03 pm: You are both young. Anything can happen. You have many years for your love to grow for each other. She is young, she does not want to be in a committeed relationship. But if you love her as much as you say you do, and I believe you....then she may just come back when she is ready for a real relationship. I think when she compares you with other guys, she will realize that romance is better than being treated badly. But most girls don't realize that they love romance until they are 18 or so, and older. Right now she just wants to be the girlfriend of the "coolest" guy, not the most romantic. Romance may seem stifiling to her now. But in the future, it is what every woman wants.
SO if you are sure that this is the girl that you love. you will have to learn to be patient.
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