Hey, my name is Ana Barrera. Im 14. I have brown/black hair, dark brown eyes. I basically give my friends advice when ever they need it, and my advice always helps. I like to dance, draw, and in the near future I hope to be a DJ at the hottest club in LA, California. I love to hang out with my friends alot. On my free time I give people advice.
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OK on Friday I'm going to my boyfriends away game. His mom is driving me there with her and I know im going to be so nervous. I dont want to say anything thats going to make me look stupid, but I know im going to end up doing that.. I always do. I was just wondering if you guys had any adivce on what I should do to be less nervous or not say anything dumb that I'll regret. Thanks SO much!! (link)
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Just be urself everything should be fine. Even if u say sumthin stupid it'll be fine.
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i have homecoming this saturdayy.. and i have no clue how to do my make up.. i have dirty blondish..hair andd a light blue and dark blue glirtty dress.. and i have green eyes.. and how should i do my hair! any tips! plz plz ill rate ya ;] (link)
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Try jsut doin sumthin simple like a light or dark brown eye liner or black and try sum of that Colorstay by Revlon, it lipstick and gloss in one.
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i dont kno what to do!!!!!!!!!!
me and my friends all started going to different schools this year for high school. now they have completely changed and its annoying because theyre acting totally different. we used to be best friends but now they have there own friends and i dont think they really like me anymore. i am soooooo mad. please help me somehow!!!!!!
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Try to talkin to them when ur all together if u can, and tell them how u r feelin, if that doesn't work then just lose em cuz if they were ur real friends then they wouldn't just drop u like that.
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What are some good screenname Ideas?
-I love Avril Lavigne
-I LOVE LOVE LOVE orca whales
-I skateboard
-I'm a punk, tomboy type
Thanks, I rate really well (link)
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*rebelsk8r
*punkyorcawhalesrock or punkyorcawhales
That is about all i can think of> I couldn't think anything up for the 1st one.
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okay.. me and this guy have been talking for a while.. well.. last night he called me and was like.. " i like you and i wish you could have come to homecoming with me" and then he was like.. " we should hang out next weekend.. and go to tha mall or something.." and i was like.. omg.. i was so happy.. and then today i come up to mai friend kate and my friend kelsy.. and she was standing with them and all i heard was .. "were going out" and this other girl *hoo looks like a man* said it.. and i was like.. " who?" and she was like.. "marc" (the guy).. and i havnt seen him since.. but she was talking about the same one.. so.. yeah.. what should i do? ILL RATE! (link)
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Tell her wat he said to ya, cuz if u didn't find out that he was goin out with sumone then u would have gotten hurt even more.
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Well, there is this boy in my school named Greg and he is going out with a boy named Shannon. I really like him and we are becoming really good friends and stuff. He is telling me stuff so i think we are on the right track. I have had a hige crush on him since 6th grade and we've yet to go out. I don't know what to do. Do i need to change my looks to get him to notice me?
Signed,
A girl in desperate need! (link)
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Don't change ur looks jsut for a guy. I kno this might sound like sumthin ur parents would say, but a guy should love u for who u r.
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there's this guy who i've met at school and we're getting really close. we like eachother but we didnt start dating... yet.
well his parents and grandparents died and he really doesn't have a permenant home, he just goes wherever and is constantly out on his own. he doesn't really have anyone to support him and buy him clothes and stuff
but im afraid if i date him, my parents will not approve because we've always been brought up from good homes and families. it doesnt bother ME at all but my parents always look down upon "poor" people. also, what should i do/say to him? he doesnt know that i know. i feel bad. should i offer anything? help! thanks (link)
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Wat eva u do,do not offer him anything cuz he might have already had so many offers fron ppl that think he can't survive on his own, but if u really like the guy then it shouldn't matta to ya wat ur parents think it should matta wat u think and how u feel abut him. Just remember that ur parents can't decide who u go out with!!
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Hey i've ben straightening my hair for about 2 years and i just feel like blowdryin it straight wut is the best way to blow dry it straight and make it not look so puffy? THANK YOU!!! * i rate * (link)
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When u take a shower put conditioner in ur hair, then when u get out of the shower, comb it unitl it doesn't have any tangles, then just let it dry a little not too much, but wait like 30 min then take ur brush and blow dry ur hair. That should work.
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Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
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Don't jsut go and have sex with him, cuz then ur gonna end up regreting it, if he keeps on wanting to have sex with u then just explain to him more that ur not ready. Don't let him pressure u into having sex when u don't want to or when ur not ready. If he really loves u then he will stop tryin to have sex with u and is still buggin u about the whole sex thing, then tell him that u need a break cuz things r just goin too fast for u. I kno its hard to tell him that but trust me it would be for the best. If u don't tell him and u end up having sex with him, u might end up pregnant, even if u use a condom u could still get pregnant. So please just tell him, don't have sex with him just becuz he wants to!
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My mom and I are really close, and she told me that since I was 16 I could date now. Well I got asked out by this really awesome guy, who I've been friends with for 3 years. And I said yea. Well I told my mom and she freaked. And the reaosn why, is because hes middle eastern. He's not muslim(and even if he was I'd date him), he's not a terroist, his family are not terroists..he just happens to be from Iraq. My mom is saying stuff like "Sure do what you want, get blown up". How can I make her understand that not all people from Iraq are like that!! (link)
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Aright well first of all wat ur mom said was just wrong. But try to sit down with her and tell her that not all of the ppl from Iraq are like that, and if she doesn't wanna understand then just go out with him if u really like him.
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well, for halloween my friends and i all wanted to be fairys together, just for the fun of it. the thing is, i really don't have that much $ so i m trying to make a costume. does anyone have any ideas on how i could put this all together? just so you know, i suck at sewing. lol. but if its an easy pattern, i can probably do it. thanx a bunch!~i rate. (link)
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Aright, so go to the fabric store in ur area and try to find a pattern that u really like, if it's easy then try to make it, but if it's hard then still try to make it, u still have enough time to make it.
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do y'all know any places i could find cool backgrounds for my advice column? (link)
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Try www.backgroundcity.com.
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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
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If u absulutly, truly love him then there is a good chance that it can work out. I do think that u r tooo young to be engaged. Ur still young u should wait a few years. But if it helpd CONRATULATIONS!!!!!!
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hi! okay well im 11 and i just started my period! ahh! well i live with my grandparents and my grandma is on her way home right now but i havent called her and told her. when she gets home what are some good lines to say to her? plz help! i rate really good! (link)
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When she gets home just tell her, there is nuthin to be embarresed about. So just tell her.
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If anyone has any personal expiereinces with this, that be great!
Anyway, there's a few guys in my school who i talk to and we're regular friends. But, they sometimes say things to me and i dont know how to respond. They say likie, "hey can I get with you?" "ooh ur so beautiful" and " i give you 9 out of 10" I want to flirt back, but i dont want to make a fool of myself. I know theyre kidding, and flirting, but how can i do the same without blushing, or saying something stupid?Because thats what i usually do. I just sit there and laugh. Does anyone have any lines or things to say back to them?? (link)
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Ok I have had the same thing happen to me, still does. Anyway when sumone says "hey can I get with u? just say like "sure meet me at midnight"..."Oh ur so beautiful"..."honey don't i kno it"..."I give u 9 out of 10"..."liar". These r a few responds that u can say, but please make sure that u say these sarcatically. Tell me how it goes!!
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I'm thinking about eventually getting colored contacts. I already wear contacts because of my poor vision. There are 2 parts to my question. The first part is, do they make prescription colored contacts? The second part is what would be the best color to use? I have dark brown eyes if that helps. Thanks a bunch! (link)
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Yes they do have perscription fo rclored contacts, I also have sum wat dark brown skin, and I have saphire colored contacts i think that it looks good. but u could also try green or violet.
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Ok, im a gurl and i have a little mustache thingy and i never really thought to much of it til now. and i feel like other ppl notice it which i know they do. what should i do? should i shave it or trim it or wax it or i dunno lol. plz help... thanx a bunch!!
and ill rate yu! (link)
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Have u ever heared of a little sumthin called "Finishing Touch"? If u have u should get that, it works.
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this guy i like just asked me out about 5 days ago. he is really shy and we like never tlak bcuz we are both really shy...what whould i do so that we can talk more?
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I think that u should come up with sum things that u should talk to him about, but if u can't think of anything then u should go up to one of ur bestfriends and ask for a topic. Then once u got that out of the way then u should just go up to him with confidence and start talkin.
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Okay is it true that laxatives help/make you lose weight?? and also, if you take too much, is it dangerous?? thankx (link)
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I don't kno if it makes u loose weight " I look it up" but if u do take to much it is very, very dangerous and it can lead to death.
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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody... (link)
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To me hooking up means that u start goin out with sumbody.
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