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Alright so I known this boy since 6th grade. I told him I liked him in 8th grade and also in 9th grade. We're in 10th grade now.. And we would seriously call each other every night. Text, facetime, snapchat, you name it. But these past few weeks have been different. I think it's because we just started school again & he may possibly like another girl. Him and I have study hall together & my friend, Sierra, joins our little group. They've got close. His wallpaper on his phone is Sierra. He wrote her a note and called her 'babe'. But I know they aren't dating. And the word going around is that he might ask her to formal? Well I've confronted Sierra. She said it was true. I was heartbroken. It's the fact that I wasn't even thought of. He knows how I feel about him & all of a sudden he ignores me. I don't know if she will say yes or not. But Sierra knows that I like him. I come to school everyday and tell her what he and I have been through. I could never look at them the same. But my question is..what should I do? I'm pretty sure that Sierra doesn't like him. But I have a feeling that he likes her. Should I not talk to him until he talks to me?
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I have never had a relationship before so I wanna be smart about this (link)
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It's very clear that he likes her. If he didn't, he wouldn't have a picture of her on his phone.
Don't ignore clear signs and make up excuses for it.
I was in the same situation once. I was heart broken so I stayed away, but before I did, I told him how I feel about the whole situation. I wasn't dramatic or anything. I spoke from the heart sincerely and calm. Afterwards, I just left and I said to myself, if a man does not see how much I love him, then I will waste no time in loving him anymore. It's very hard, but I know my worth and how I should be loved by a man. So, I left him and her to do whatever they please and I did me. Needless to say, when it didn't work out, he came back to me. But DON'T fall for it. When no one wants a man, he run back to the woman who actually loved him. And remember, you're not an old shoe that he can run back to.
And your friend may lie due to making you feel a little better. But watch, she could easily go behind your back if she is not a true friend. Be careful.
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I like her very much, but i never talk her, and also she know about that i like her. But i think that she does't like me because of her no response towards me . But i make eye contact with her many times. And i am madly falling in love with her..... Now what i do? I am from India. (link)
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If I were you, I'd ask her straight up does she like me. I don't like to continue to like someone when they don't return the feeling. So, ask her and see if she does or not. No matter the answer, you'll know what to do next.
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how can a man die with a essay way without any pain ?
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No matter how bad life can get, seriously, dying is not any way to make it better.
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my boyfriend and me were in the same school 2 years ago. after i shifted we were still friends until he proposed and we were in a long distance relationship. i am 16 and he is 17. he is very supportive and nice . we had several ups and downs but he wrapped it back together...it took a long time but he did. i love him very much and as a girl i want to have some physical relationship with him i.e. i want to talk to him about it and maybe chat . once i did so, he reacted very awkwardly and stated that he DOES NOT LIKE these things. i was hurt and he soon made up for it and said he liked it and we did it a few times on net. but now we are back to the same condition. he does not fly kiss, does not touch, does not talk about anything physical. he is not naughty and whenever i say i like it and u do not...he quickly changes the subject.he has never ever said that i am wrong about him. i am really going mad and i am extremely hurt. i love him so much and he loves me too. i know he has not had any past experience to behave like this. i have tried talking to him but he refuses to talk upon this subject. what is wrong with me?..and him?...why would a boy who loves a girl NOT WANT TO BE PHYSICAL OR TALK ABOUT BEING PHYSICAL ...WHEN THEY MISS EACH OTHER AND ARE SO FAR APART?..plz help...what can i do to bring this change in him? (link)
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Sometimes, some men feel uncomfortable about it because of their size. They're afraid that you're going to ask and if they tell you the size, you might not be satisfied with it. That could be one reason.
Needless to say, my husband is not that physical as well, whilst I am. I told him that this is not working for me because I am physically active. He express his love with words, while I express with love making. So, to make it right, I told him, every week, we make love 2 times. He agreed to it and we're still working on it.
Sometimes, it gets to me too because when a man acts like that, it could make a woman feel unattractive. But work something out with him. He can't run from it all the time. Sex is a part of life.
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um recently i have been born with a special gift called autism and most likely it made it me view the world in a fun way but from time to time ive been judged and criticized for it even by my lunatic grandpa and back in the early 2000s i was never understood for it so how can you get somebody to take you seriously for it and acccept you with no criticizing (link)
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On the real, that's life. People are going to judge you and criticize you no matter how good you are. It's in the human nature to judge.
It's up to people to take things seriously or as a joke.
Just be comfortable in the skin that you're in. No matter what hurtful things people may say, know that they're not any better to judge you.
What other people think is not important, what matters is how you view yourself. So, always be positive.
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what happens when you download something (link)
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Uhh, you downloaded whatever you downloaded?
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Ok I'm been thinking that I'm going to die with a terrible disease and fear I'm going to be sick or lost a part of my body I'm crying everyday please help...my body hurts and my hair falls freaks me out because I think I have a terrible disease I always thought you could only die at an old age or for a serious illness It's possible to die without a disease and. Die old? I mean my great grandma lived 100 years could walk was healthy her story is weird she died while she fell in the floor I mean it was fast o blood she just died...please help me I even have had suicidal thoughts I want it to stop please im crying... (link)
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This is what I always tell everyone .. "No one gets golden ticket" And yes, it is very possible to die at a young age. Anything could happen. The only disease I know that makes your hair fall is Leukemia. But you have to go get it check out. Don't sit around and wait for an answer. I suggest you to go the doctors. And also, you can get sick from stress. So, stop stressing and go see a doctor.
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Hi i am fourteen in the uk but desperate for sex i have even gone onto sex finding websites. I have tried masturbation and do it often however it just isnt quite enough please give me some advice (link)
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I think you should stick to masterbating. You're too young for sex. And it takes time to find what makes you feel good and what not.
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18/f/New Zeland
Ok, I have had one bf before but tbh I am inexperienced with guys.At my work there's this guy (27)who comes in to the back as he's related to the manager.
He's known for flirting with the teenagers who work there-they've since left. It's quite obvious he likes me (making jokes and things).
But my question is not related to my situation, its more general. Why do males generally find younger girls attractive/desirable? Because to me it doesn't make sense-I mean what's attractive about a girl that lives with her parents and stuff who is 10 years younger??
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The only thing I can think of is ... Fresh meat. Hahahaha!
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I am from india. My boyfriend is unhappy with me. All I can do is cry everyday. I dint treat well in the beggining. Gave my friends more importance n all..I cheated on him once and begged for forgiveness. He said forgave me. But everytime we fight he brings it up. Feels like shit.why is he still with me if he can't forget wat I did. He says he can't sleep without drinking every nite,make him very unhappy and disturb him a lot. But he says he can't be without me. I'm trying to change to make him, us happy but all he says is he's not happy with me. It hurts so much!! I really don't wanna live a life thinking how unhappy I made him. If I die maybe in my next life atleast ican be a better person. When we started going out he was the nicest guy ever! Then I changed. God knows why. I was really rude to him amd fought a lot. And he changed after that too seeing me all differnet.we both are so fuckn unhappy. He doesn't easily forget any small mistake I make. Anything I say by mistake also he'll fight with me. If there is any advice to make things normal again, please give me. Or else atlease tell me how to kill myself. Whatever I try I'm scared I'll end up alive and be a huge disgrace for my family.I really love him so much and I'd even die if my non existence makes him happy too. n i c (link)
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Why do you want to kill yourself?! Love yourself more than you love anyone else! Not everyone is going to love you, and just because they don't, it doesn't mean that you're not special. You'd be waiting your life for no reason if you kill yourself. Everyone's life is special. Your mother did not go through 8/9 months to have you so you can kill yourself later in life. Think twice before you do anything stupid, such as killing yourself.
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Can a girl be virgin again (link)
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Uh ... No.
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So, I had swimming today and this guy in my swimming lesson told me to meet him in the area where people sit to watch their kids/friends swim so he could give me my number (since I was leaving to take a shower and go home.) So I was like "okay".
Well, I took and a shower and went home. And I just realized the poor guy must've been in the pool waiting for me to show up so I could get his number.
Uh.. I didn't go because my Dad was watching me while he was waiting outside and the whole pool and entrance area is glass.
Anyways! That's not rude is it? ;~; or maybe he thinks I'm playing hard to get?
I mean he's just my friend, and much much older than me. Probably in his late 30's. So there isn't really anything else to it.
I just told him I went somewhere without telling my parents and he said I should at least tell someone where I`m going which is why he told me to get his number after swimming class.
;-; Anyways, was I totally rude and inconsiderate for forgetting to go? (link)
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I don't think you were rude to forget. EVERYONE forgets, what can you do about it? LOL. And yes, to that person it may be rude because they're thinking you ditched them. Hahaha. But next time you see him, just tell him that you forgot. I'm sure he'll understand if he isn't an ass.
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Ok so 13/f and I have a boyfriend that I might break up with. He hasnt done anything wrong but I think I might like another guy and I dont want to hurt my boyfriend. How do I be mature about a break up. He is my first boyfriend and I hope not my last. I was thinking of saying something like this..
"Im sorry but I dont want to hurt you by saying this but I dont think we should continue to date. However, I really want to be mature about it and I know it'll be hard but I just want to be friends. I just feel like our relationship hasnt gone anywhere from where it started out. I hope your not mad and I want you to understand. Im really sorry about this and I dont want to be one of those people who just continues a relationship even though they arent attracted to the person. I hope u understand"
Is that good? I dont know what else to say. This came from my heart and its all true. Opinions? advice? thanx!
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Sweety, there is absolutely no way to break up with someone without hurting that person. No matter how nice you say it or word it nicely, it'll hurt.
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My friend's grandpa just died last week and now I can't get him out of the house. What should I do? (link)
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When someone is sad/depressed, it doesn't matter how fun something you offer to give is because to that person, everything is dead at the moment.
I remember how I felt when my husband and I were still dating, we were long distant, whenever he left home, I would be soooo upset and depressed, I didn't want to do anything at all. Even going to a fun theme park, it just didn't seem fun to me. My sisters would do everything they can to make me happy, but I was still always sad. It got to the point where they'd get frustrated because nothing seem to work, but what they didn't understand is that, missing someone who means so much to you when they're no longer there, hurts very much. You feel so alone even when you have people there because you only want that one person to be there with you. It takes time to eventually get yourself together. I got over the sadness over time. Time does the job.
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I have so much bottled up. I feel sad , insecure most of the time. I have many friends but i feel like i can't talk to any of them about personal issues. I recently moved and i miss my old friends like crazy. It's been over 3 years since but i still miss them. They probably don't remember me anymore and here i am sad about it. I am a junior and soon i'll be in the real world. I want to do so much. I want to help all those who are in need. Help change the world. I have big dreams but how can i accomplish them if i feel like shit. I really do. i don't feel smart enough/pretty enough. I have so many people around me yet i feel alone. People say i make them happy because i'm always making them laugh but nobody seems to make ME happy.. Am i depressed? I feel happy at times but at night i start thinking and bring myself down. What can i do to improve? thanks (link)
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If you don't love yourself, how can anyone else love you? That's the thing with people now a days, they want someone to love em, but love starts with loving yourself.
Insecure? Sweety, you're beautiful in your ways. There will ALWAYS be people who think you're beautiful and others who doesn't find you attractive. And that's life. There is both ugly and beautiful/handsome in everyone.
So, you're sad because no one can make you happy? And that's exactly the reason why you should depend on yourself and make your opinions matter most. If people can't make you happy, at least you could make yourself happy. Love yourself!
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well let's see here it goes i am 21 years old female my sister is 30 years old and she moved in on Thursday mom made a special trip to Florida to get her after she beat up my mom and beat me up and she only wants to live with us when she has know where else to and when she doesn't have a girl friend that she can move in with yes I said girlfriend she is gay . she has a 10 year old son and a 12 year old daughter that my mom have custody of because she had her kids walking in a drug infested neighborhood at night with no shoes no jacket and we were not allowed to see them . she has showed her 12 year old daughter sex toys in the past while she has stayed with us. I think that she is on drugs she doesn't care about anybody but herself . my other sister who lives in Texas can't stand her either. I am scared of because she hits me cusses me and i have told mom before that i am scared of her and I don't have the money to get my own place so I can't move out . her girlfriends always come first before her sister her mom and her kids . she gave me a bloody nose one day and hurt me so bad I had to go to the emergency room that was about 2 years ago when that happened and she is already bossing me around she hasn't changed at all . what should I do . (link)
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Well, first of all, she is a disgrace! You never put ANYONE, other than family members, first in your life! Your mother gave birth to you, so she should be number 1.
You sister seem to want everything her way and she seems like the kind of person who lose her temper easily. It takes courage to stand up to anyone who bullies or treat you like shit. But hey, if you're tired of it, then you mist take a stand. I don't know who she think she is to be acting like she's the boss, when she's not, but someone needs to put her ass in check!
You see, I'm the kind of person that don't take anyone's bullshit, I stand up for myself because I don't tolerate people treating me like shit. So, if I were in your position, I'd have a talk with her and make sure EVERY single damn word gets through her head, but with people like her, you need to stand your ground. Don't let her know that you're scared. Be confident!
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My life is completely over. I feel I don't want to live anymore ((IN TEARS)) I'm ready to leave this world an be with my grandfather where there's no worries no pain and no problems..I always asked my mom why did she have me I should of never been born. I find myself going through deep depressions to the point I started to take all the pills I have, swallowing bleach, and eating rat poison, I don't want to live anymore my mind is set. My depressions are beginning to worsen I often cry myself to sleep and hope that I don't wake (link)
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Whoa whoa whoa!!!! Listen, sweety, life is not easy, and it'll never be! No one gets a golden ticket, alright? We all go through hardships and the best way to deal with them is to keep on fighting and remind yourself that when it's all over, the good will come. Bad things doesn't last forever, nor does good things, but that's life! We learn to deal and cope with bad and good.
You were born for a reason. You may not know why, but don't question why you were born, you should cherish it! Some babies that are born doesn't even have a chance to live. You're blessed to live in this world.
Now, I don't know what the deal is about your situation, but killing yourself is never the answer, it doesn't solve anything. It only makes it worse for you and your family. Don't take your life because it's hard, keep on fighting, sweety!
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I wanna have sex (link)
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If you're not old enough, then you should wait. Don't regret anything is the best kind of sex.
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I am 17 and don't know so can a 17 yr old get prego? I need to know because I want to have sex... (link)
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Yes, you could definitely get pregnant. Haven't you ever heard of 14 years old girls getting pregnant?!
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Hi,
I'm a thirteen-year-old girl who is probably bisexual, and I have a crush on another girl. She's absolutely amazing. She's gorgeous, thoughtful, and funny, and we have a lot in common -- for example, we both love writing. She's bisexual too, and there's also a chance that she might like me back.
Whenever she sends me a text, I get the butterflies and want to say something back. We have been texting each other for a few days now, and I want to reveal to her that I like her without making it too direct -- like I want to flirt with her while texting.
If you have any advice on how to flirt while texting without making it too direct, I would really appreciate it. Thank you!
(P.S. I know I'm only thirteen and that it seems like it would be a little too early to decide my sexuality. But I have known for a while that I see girls in the same way I see guys. I am aware that this might change later.) (link)
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A couple days only? Sweety, I know that the beginning of everything is really exciting and you think you'll feel that way forever, but things change. I don't think you should tell her just yet that you like her. Wait a little bit longer. Don't rush into things especially if you don't know for sure if you're bisexual. Like I said, things change. And about flirting, it's always direct. You can't secretly hide trying to flirt.
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