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Scared of everything :-( I can't take it anymore?
Ok I'm been thinking that I'm going to die with a terrible disease and fear I'm going to be sick or lost a part of my body I'm crying everyday please help...my body hurts and my hair falls freaks me out because I think I have a terrible disease I always thought you could only die at an old age or for a serious illness It's possible to die without a disease and. Die old? I mean my great grandma lived 100 years could walk was healthy her story is weird she died while she fell in the floor I mean it was fast o blood she just died...please help me I even have had suicidal thoughts I want it to stop please im crying...
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If your hair comes out in chunks, its due to the stress that you're putting yourself under with all this worry. The hair falling out syndrome is call Alopecia and though many possible causes can be listed, with the way you'r feeling, I think I could safely state it is very likely because of the stress.
Stress will cause other things to go wrong with your body. Without the stress, you won't have these symptoms or illnesses at all. Stress will cause stomach ulcers, heart conditions, skin rashes to come and go on your skin, grinding of teeth in your sleep, insomnia, thats a list of various different conditions and the list goes on.
So it would seem natural to realize its best not to stress out over worrying about what ifs.
Do you know where any of our emotions and feelings come from? It comes from our subconscious mind. Its all feelings, good ones of joy and peace but sadness, anxieties and fear and anger. Your awake mind, may want this all to stop, but unless your subconscious mind is dealt with, you're not going to see any relief.
As to why your subconscious mind is doing this, its' anybodys guess. I do have a belief in past lives and have read peoples stories of un natural fears or an ache in a leg that doctors could find no reason for. The ache in the leg person saw a hypnotist who dealt with taking a person back in time to the point at which it may have been caused . Under hypnosis, instead of going back in this lifetime, she went back to a previous lifetime where as a child she played with the door handle of a horse drawn carriage, fell out and the back wheels went over her leg causing a painful break that never healed right. Her subconscious mind somehow never let the memory of this incident go so she felt it in this life.
Others have found related incidences of fears in this life with no reason for them to be fears started in a past life. A person with unnatural fear of snakes, or of being in water or on it, had past lives where they died from a snakebite or drowned and the memory somehow was not let go for this life. Since it sounds like you may still be young, you'll have to convince parents to take you to a hypnotist. Hypnotists are commonly seen to stop a bad habit or get rid of phobias, unnatural fears.
No matter what is causing it, as I said the subconscious must be told that you are healthy and there is no reason to worry and told to see yourself as healthy and able to live to 100 like great grandma. Since it includes suicidal thoughts, they may want to have you see a counselor. There's isn't anything you can do without professional help because this isn't an occasional fear where you can just work on stopping and catching poor stinking thoughts and replace them with the opposite good ones. This sounds a lot more serious. A counselor may help but in most cases from people I know and have talked to, counselings was a hit and miss thing, it doesnt necessarily go for the subconscious mind,they try to get you to work on your problems only with your conscious mind. So if you can talk em into getting you in to see a hypnotist, thats a better place to start. just one or two sessions may fix the problem. If not, you can always still go for traditional counseling.
Feel free to show my answer to your parents.
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Being concious of our own mortality, and a fear of dying is of course a natural human thought. But wise old nature gives us a sort of mental 'inter-lock' that keeps us from contemplating and dwelling on the fact, undeniable as it is and lets us function 'normally' as it were. And get on with the act of living, day-by-day. We could discuss this for a very long time, but I won't bore you. The fact that this thought is strongly forcing it's way into your mind, and too regulalry is almost certainly a symptom of SOME OTHER UNDERLYING fear or anxiety. Or a response to some trauma you have not fully resolved yet. Try to look beyond the fear of death...what's really under your skin? What issue is really worrying you? And how could that translate into a fear of age, death and disease? Do a bit of self-analysis. Some thoughts? Are you still quite young, early teens? Maybe feel that you a growing-up a bit too quickly...feeling that the adult world is now pressing on you? Was the unexpected death of your seemingly healthy relative a real shock to you and your family? Is there some other experience in your childhood that you think may have caused the fear of illness and death to surface now...some bad experience or event, a trauma that you never really 'got your head around' at the time? Did a schoolfriend unexpectedly die young, and it affected you more deeply than you felt at the time? If so, how about dragging the issue out into the light now and facing it head-on, talk it through with your mum maybe, or another relative? Try to tackle it at the root. The root, like the root of a plant can be hidden away, burried and you might have to dig deep to find it. Take my ideas as a guideline only, not solid reasons. YOUR reason will be unique to you in many ways. Good luck in your search. x
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This is what I always tell everyone .. "No one gets golden ticket" And yes, it is very possible to die at a young age. Anything could happen. The only disease I know that makes your hair fall is Leukemia. But you have to go get it check out. Don't sit around and wait for an answer. I suggest you to go the doctors. And also, you can get sick from stress. So, stop stressing and go see a doctor.
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