Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday August 28 2013, 12:54 am: Some people think you are no longer a virgin if anything enters the vagina such as a tampon or a dildo.
In the eyes of most of society, when a woman is considered to no longer be a virgin, its because she had intercourse, meaning the males penis entered her. Virgin is a word that needs to be taken out of our vocabulary. It is a very inaccurate word.
Some people will argue the point especially if one knows they are lesbian right from the start. Since no penis ever enters her, is she always a virgin or is she no longer a virgin once she has used vibrators and dildos with a female partner? What about two men? What about someone who has only given blow jobs, does that mean they now lost virginity? A ruler is something we use to measure the length of fabric you are purchasing, but there really is no way to measure if someone is a virgin because the word means pure, untouched. It in no way applies to sexuality. Sexuality covers a vast area of experiences. Even foreplay, touching and kissing is part of our sexuality. So it would be silly to say one was no longer a virgin once they had been kissed.
As you can see....the word virgin is not adequate enough for sexuality in todays age.
Once you have hormones running through your body giving you certain urges and the need for orgasming, then I'd like to call it having your sexual debut when you start off on your own exploring your sexuality.
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