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My names Maddie.I look at life as having endless possibilities. And I don't let others tell me different. I have all different kinds of friends and I won't judge you on what you look like. Meaning, your hair, clothes, or age has no affect on me what-so-ever. I'll love you for who you are, inside and out.
I keep a diary, and I don't care how cheesy it sounds. I like to look back on my life, because it reminds me of all the love, hate, pain, and good times I've been through. I don't complain about my life now and if you ever meet me, you'll come to find i never do. I live life as it comes, so I pretty much NEVER plan anything.
High school. The topic EVERYONE dreads, but not me. You learn how to take care of yourself in high school. As much as it hurts, you become grown. You learn that the friends you had, turn into bitches, and the ones you've kept have meant the world to you. You laugh, you cry, and you fight your way through, but once it's gone, it's never coming back, so you need to have fun.
I'm a writer. And I don't steal peoples stuff. So that means, if I find something of mine somewhere else than where I've put it, it gives me a right to have a lawsuit. Plagiarism is a crime and I will put the judge into action if it happens to me.
I'm not fake, and I really dislike Fake people. There is nothing wrong with being yourself. And I really stress on that. I don't want to have to look at a new friend and wonder if they're lying straight to my face.
To come to think of it, I'm pathetic. Just like everyone else. People will never stop hating me, and I will never have a moment in life where theres not a rumor going around about me. I won't fall in love for a very long time, because I'm only 15. I have a whole life ahead of me. People will never stop talking about me, and calling me names. And you know what? I really don't care. I like being the center of peoples attention and it means nothing to me when they sit there and think up horrible stuff. Yes, i hook up with people. Its because I'm a teenager. I drink, I party, I have a good time, and I honestly could care less if people hate me.
The simplest things make me happy. Like bottle caps. I love them.
I love to get dressed up on Friday nights to go to Starbucks and drink lattes with my friends. I like to go to concerts and run around and laugh. I laugh as much as I breath and no one will ever take that away from me. I don't stress about the little things, I fix them. I love to paint, and draw, and I love Broadway.
Im very random at times, but that's what makes girls, girls. And I'm very proud of being a girl.
I live off of nothing. I can't afford to eat the same as everyone else, dress the same as everyone else, do my hair and make-up the same way, and act the same way. I like myself for who I am and thats the way every other teenager should be. I don't let men get in the way of anything. They're nothing but penises on a pole, and when the right one comes, he comes. But I'm in no big rush.
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im going to be a freshman next year. actually school starts in about two weeks but whatever. and im going to a new school and theres a ton of people at my school.
and in middle school i had 2 boyfriends and a lot of friends.
and next year im going to the high school my middle school feeds into so its not like im moving anywhere.
but im worried since im going to a huge school with so many people that im not gonna get a boyfriend or i might loose my friends right now.
am i worrying too much?
Honestly, there isn't all that much to worry about.
High school is one of those places where you never know what to expect. There's going to be lost friends, found friends, new boyfriends, old boyfriends, all that good stuff.
The only thing you really have to do is go and try and meet new people. My high school has over 4000 kids in it. And not one day goes by when you get into trouble with someone, meet someone new, or even fall into a long lasting line of friendship with some people. Just try to stick to the people who like you for you. Not for what you act like.
Get into some clubs, or some sports and you'll do fine. It's not the big deal everyone puts it out to be.
Just have fun:] You're only a kid once, right?!
15/f
OK so this may sound weird but I'm desperate. The problem is that neither me or my bf are very good kissers. Not to say that I don't love kissing him anyway, I just want it to work and be great but I've never had much experience nor has he. I've heard that practice makes perfect and hey, I'm willing but I was just wondering if there is anything else I can do like any techniques (for lack of a better word) or something that can help me or us become better. If you can, please help.
The best thing you can possibly do is practice.
You aren't ever going to get better if you don't.
But on the bright side, it would give you more time to spend with him, and it's fun too! :]
i went to school with this girl in elementary
we met up, dated-and broke up
i just noticed now...that i wasn't being myself with her and don't know what to do
how can i get her to like me?
or "attract her"
what do girls like?
or find attracting=\?
Aww:]
Well, just be yourself around her. Duh. lol
Girls like when you make her feel special. They love it when you do those little things no one else has ever done for her. Like, write little notes and stick them in her notebook at school when she isnt looking. Or get her a rose and give it to her in front of your friends.
My ex used to come up to me and wrap his arms around me from behind and whisper sweet little things into my ears. Like "you look beautiful" or something like that. Girls like it when you call them beautiful, rather than hot or something like that.
Be sweet. And yourself.
Good luck.
I read somewhere that your period stops when you are in the water? I have a very light period, so will this be true? I HATE using tampons because theyy hurt((hence my other question)) so I am just wondering if this is true or not.
Not to be rude or anything but the other girl was wrong. Don't use pantyliners in the pool, they'll soak up with water and not catch the important stuff.
When you're swimming in water, the only reason really that it seems to 'stop' is because of the water pressure on your body. It may not seem like it but its true. Then, when you get out of the water, usually it starts back up almost a few minutes or so after. So wear a tampon instead of a panty liner, even if you are light.
my boyfriend asked me to marry him but i thought i was under age so i said i cant then he asked to get engaged to me and i dont know what to say
im 15 and hes 16 is it ok or not?
I would wait on that.
Just tell him that you could get engaged, but hold off on the 'wedding' until you are both age appropriate.
You can't get married until you are 18 in some states, and even then, it's still young.
But make sure he isnt just kidding around. That's happened before.
But, anyway, if you love him, go for it. You'll just be engaged for quite a while.
when will i ever be happy?? nothings right and everything's a mess. and I really don't know what to do. i'm only 14 but this stuff still hurts. I feel like guys don't like me because i am me. i guess. I don't wanna be alone forever. someone please help. before i do the unthinkable.
aww.
Now, you've probably heard this a million and one times, but I know EXACTLY what you're going through. Guys not liking you for yourself. That's stupid. Just remember, no one can make you feel like you should be something OTHER than yourself. Otherwise they're just liking you for the wrong reason. You're just going through a dry spot, that's all. It happens to a lot of people. So you're not alone.
Be yourself, and the right one will come. Fot the right reason. :]
what are those last names with hyphens in between two of them?
It's when two people get married and they don't wanna take on just one name. Usually if that happens they would hyphenate both their names together.
I just recently became a vegetarian. The thing is, I really have no desire for meat. However, I feel like I'm eating the same things over and over again. Does anyone know of some good vegetarian foods/meals?
OK. Making food for a vegetarian is kinda hard because you need a certain amount of everything to stay healthy. Thats the way it was when I first started. There was nothing to eat.
But now, you can look on Google and stuff and find all different sorts of recipes for it.
Some of the things I've found real good are:
1. Greek salad with tomatoes and beans.
Its pretty much pasta, diced tomatoes, feta cheese [or without if you don't eat cheese like me.], spinach and beans. Really good.
2. Tofu peanut stir-fry.
It's the best way to eat tofu, especially if you haven't tried it yet.
The best thing is to research it. Look at local libraries or something for cookbooks and photocopy a few recipes at a time. Thats what I did, and I love being a vegetarian.
do all my friends get boyfriends and i never do. is there something wrong with me? i mean guys tell me im hott & cute but i can never get one to be my boyfriend.
f/15
Aww. Theres nothing wrong with you. Don't TRY and get a boyfriend, be yourself and have fun and the right one will come to you.
okay so your making out with a guy and what not.. how do you let him know you want him to go under your shirt.. without actually saying it? cuz i mean come on that'd sound kind of stupid. the more answers the better!
thanks much.
Chances are, if you put your hands under his shirt, or even take it off, he won't be so shy and his hands will start to wander.
It worked for me, so it should work for you, too. lol
Also, another fun tip. If you want to get experimental, run your fingers through his hair and stuff to make it messy looking, and take his shirt off and stuff. It sets the mood.
alright im 14/m and theres a girl that lives in the neighborhood next to me whos 13/f and really pretty, however her friend, 14/f, get jealous of me whenever i hang out/talk to her and she tells the 13 year old that im a player and a bunch of bull$#!T that really makes me look bad and i was wondering how i get around that cuz i REALLY like this girl.
The best thing to do is to go up to this girl who's talking crap about you and tell her to stop and that it's getting on your nerves. Either way, you live next door to the girl for christ sakes, tell her how you feel. If she likes you back she won't listen to her little crap talking friend and go out with you. Tell her that her friend is wrong and that you're not a player.
How do you get over something like this? I mean like I see my girlfriend with just some friend of hers and I just get crushed I don't know how to fix it :(
Umm, well. No matter what, she's always going to have guy friends. You can't stop that. If she likes you a lot and ya'll are going out then there's nothing to worry about. You need to trust her. There is no point in having a relationship without trust. If you start to get jealous just start talking to one of your friends to take your mind off it. She's not flirting, she's probably just talking. Its no big deal. Hope I helped:] Good luck.
I have 6 straightners at home 3 of them are $200,$260 and $219 there all expensive but they dont work i straighten my hair then 2 minute laster it starts flicking everywhere and i hate it i put products and the same thing happens i tried no products and it still happened any advice ?
OK. straighten your hair, take a dime size amount of regular hand lotion in your hand and rub it in to your palms, then take your hands and lightly run your fingers through your hair. Don't put a whole lot in otherwise you'll come out with gunky hair. This helps smooth fly aways.
are freckles harmless or are they a sign of sun damage?
No. They're harmless. Just think of them as defining you're uniqueness.
My boyfriend is black, and i am white. he wants to hang out over the summer, but my parents are extremely racist and would NEVER let me go anywhere with him. i have told him that but i am afraid that he will break up with me if we dont see eachother all summer. ahh help me please !!!
I know how you feel. My parents are racist too. Your best bet is to get a bunch of friends together to go see a movie or something and invite him too. Sit somewhere other than with the group or something and after the movie go back and rejoin them. Just an idea. Don't care what your parents say if you like him a lot. Do what you want.
I'm getting my first car soon, and my mom said I have only $2,000 to pay for it. So..I did some research and found a car. Here's the info about it:
-1992 Toyota Corolla
-131,000 miles
-$800
-Air Conditioning
-AM/FM Radio
-Cassette Player
-Automatic Transmission
-Manual locks & windows (not power)
The seller also got a new starter and a new battery for the car. Should I buy it or keep looking?
OK, you want a car thats going to be reliable. A car someone is selling for 800 bucks, means something else is wrong with it that they're not telling you. Leave it. Go look for a car with lower miles, and preferably a newer year. A 1992 is a 15 year old car. Try bumping up a few years and looking through them. Theres bound to be one you can rely on to get you from A to B and is in your price range.
I know that leggings and short denim skirts have been a trend and probably are still a trend for some people. I wear leggings whenever I wear a short skirt because they're just more comfortable. I don't have to worry about my skirt lifting up when I wear leggings. But... is this look still in style? I saw a whole bunch of people wearing it at my school and this year at my school, but ever since my friend said it looked tacky I've been noticing less people wearing it these days. I still wear it. I just don't want to look like an unfashionable weirdo. Is this look still "in" at your school? Tell me what you think.
I think they're as ugly as anything. Don't follow trends, but if you wear it and like it, go ahead. Wear what you feel comfortable in, not what everyone else is. Duh.
what's a good straightener that works really well? ****PLEASE**** do not say *CHI*, *SOLIA*, OR ANY STRAIGHTENER OVER $45. sorry if i'm sounding overly-dramatic, but i really have like no money and i need a straightener badly and never in my life will i spend more than 45 or 50 bucks, (not even 50) on a straightener. thanks so much!
I do fine with the "Conair" I have right now, they're cheap and won't burn your hair off. I wouldn't spend 50 bucks on a straightener either when you can go pick up one from Wal-mart and use it and it's exactly the same.
ok i realy like this other girl but this is my best freind i talk to her way more and iget along with her more so this monday is her birthday so iwas thinking of doing something nice for her or even asking her out so what should i do for her any ideas?
Ok. Umm, ask her out. lol. DUH.
But like, do it in a way no one has ever asked her out before. That way she'll say yes.
Like, Make her something and give it to her with "will you go out with me?" inscribed in it or soemthing creative.
Girls love it when you make hem feel like you worked hard for them. Either make her a case for something she always has on her or get her a camera and take a picture of a piece of paper or soemthing with "will you go out with me" and when you give it to her, make her press the review button so it shows on the screen.
Come up with something like that to ask her. She'll remember it.
ok well i asked her about it like one of this people toldme to to do but she wants to wait and i dont want to wait! and i have begged and stuff but she wants to wait what should i do?
andi have so much presure like these guys that arae going all the way with there gf and i just want third base!
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a guy that needs help
OK.
First rule. NEVER PRESSURE A GIRL INTO DOING SOMETHING SHE DOESNT WANT TO DO! and I stress that because if you do it too much, shes going to leave you.
Second. Ignore your friends. Theyre showing off and chances are, their girlfriends dont know theyre doing it. Not every girl wants their love life painted on a wall.
Third. DONT BEG. Thats making you sound desperate. No girl wants a desperate boyfriend.
If youre really into the girl, dont push it. It'll come naturally.
Ask her when she thinks she'll be ready, and then work on doing a little more experimenting when youre making out or something like that to really tell her youre ready. But again, DONT PUSH OR PRESSURE HER INTO IT. She wont like it.