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I hate my legs. They are freckled and ugly. And to make things worse, they are hairy. I hate shaving; it takes too long, I cut myself, I get bored, and hair grows so fast you have to do it every 2 days or more! At my school, and lots of places, it is "gross" for girls to have hairy legs. It's so unfair! How can I rid my legs of hair without shaving? (Not Nair because I'm allergic.) Please help.
laser hair removal is something you can look into
other then that..just experiment with the different types of hair removal things they have out, and see what works best/lasts the longest!
Best Of Luck
im like so worried u no evryone nows like you have to be naked when you do it.. but i hate my bodie. i dont want to have sex then evryone runs away!!!!! k i need help does anyone no of ways to have sex without being naked?!?!? sry if this is uncomforible but hey i cant ask my freinds. they'll think im a freak! k im so enbarressed so plz help! before i make a bigger fool of myself!
If you still feel this uncomfortable about the way the person your going to be with feels about your body, then I dont think you need to do it.
But to answer your question..it would be hard to have sex with your clothes on. My best answer would be to stay under the covers I guess!
Best of Luck!
Hey, I hope you can help.
I went shopping at the mall today and my mom dropped me and a friend off. She never told us when she was picking us up. Apparently, since there was the daylight saving time change, I had a terrible perception of what time it was. It turned out that my mom had said 5:30 sometime before we picked up my friend. I finally got her call at about 7:15 and she was furious. She says that I'm incompetent and can't be trusted, both of which are untrue. How can I regain my mom's trust? THanks!!
You can regain her trust by explaining to her that it was a mistake, and you are going to try to act more mature, and "man up" to your responsibilities! But you can't just say it..you have to do it!
Best of luck hun!
well for the past couple months i have been really sad and drepressed! i dont know whats wronge with me....i like havent been feeling like doing anything but sitting around and i've been crying alot for no reason....i have also cut my self...i dont know if is drepression or what? please help!!!
That happens to me a lot also..mainly because I have an anxiety disorder. you maight have that also, or just some of the symptoms. Look it up Generalized Anxiety Disroder on webMD and see if you can relate. Talk to your doctor about it, and see if they can find some way to help you!
Best of Luck--and let me know how it turns out!
i have this problem, i wont sleep for days and when i do sleep its for a very short time. i also really like to play supersmash bros and other assorted videogames and they keep me up often, and when im not playing them im dreaming about them and wanting to play them. Why cant i sleep is it my videogame habits or am i sick like insomnia? can anyone explain?... IM NOT NORMAL!!!!
Contact your docor, because thats not healthy staying up for days at a time. I dont think it has anything to do with your obession of video games lol. but seriously...talk to your doctor about that. He will most likely diagnose you with something and give you some meds.
i'm 13 and i'm a Christian i'm really big on holding grudges and not forgiving people. i know i know its bad but i'm praying about it and working on it!! bible verses help me alot but lately i cant find any!! i need help on finding bible verses about forgiving..know any?? please help!!
www.bible.com
I am not overweight, but I have a problem in that my thighs and ass are quite flabby and I would like to tone up. I feel very self-concious in swim suits so I would like some exercises to tone up or help lose weight ready for the summer.
Suggestions not involving cosmetic surgery would help!
14/f
I use to have that same problem, so I joined the basketball team. Which is a lot of running..so we know that running helps! Also changing the things you eat...and doing all the other exercises that go along with toning legs!
Hope that helps!
Take Care
today im goin to watch a movie with my boyfriend and some friends. i want to wear a thong with the pants in wearing but im afraid that the pants might slip and show my it while im sitting there. im not a slut so i dont want him or anyone else to see it. i dont know if they would tell me if they saw it since most of them dont even know i have any. any pointers?
Go ahead and where the thong. If you all are sitting there watching a movie, I doubt that anyone is going to see your thong! But if they do see it later on in the night...I doubt that they are going to call you a slut. Especially if they are your friends!
Take Care
hi, i asked a question like 3 days ago and the answers i was getting were...you've got a yeast infection.
my questions is...what exactly is a yeast infection?!
http://www.mydna.com/health/sexual/yeast/overview/basics.html
try going to this site and see if they have a little more info for ya! Its way better then me telling you about it lol
Take Care!
I really like this one girl called Nicole but from what i hear she hates my guts i want to ask why but shes a bad girl always skipping school and stuff (nadda really bad no durgs that i know of) it could just be because shes Goth i dunno. anyways my query is how do i make on friendly terms not a relationship without doing something corny, cheap or expensive(sp?)
thanks a ton
13 male
Solemnstar
well the first thing you need to find out if she actual does hate your guts..(you said that you heard it) And by doing that, you need to talk to her. It could be that she just doesn't trust a lot of people, and maybe its not just YOU personally. SO the best thing I could tellyou right now is to talk to her first, and see where that gets ya..then we can go from there..
First..like start out with "Hey Nicole, what up?" and if she answers....f off you moron, then I would leave her alone..but if she says like "hey" back, then ask some follow-up questions
Hope I helped!
sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance?
I kinda think you do...but on the other hand, he already has a girlfriend. I know you like him, but you dont want to get into a petty situation where you could get urself into something over a boy. My advice would be to back off him. If he was REALLY into you, he wouldn't still have a girlfriend. Wait until he dumps her...then go after him!
HAHA Take Care!
I live in Georgia and around where I live the gas prices have gone up so much in only a few week. The cheapest I have seen near me is $2.06 and thats if I go out of my way to get it. The gas station closest is like $2.10. I am in school and don't have a job, I am looking but it's hard to find a part time job. Does anyone know when the gas prices should start to go down or if they are going to go up...?
Thanks
I dont know the exact time, im sure no one does.. But i was watching the news, and they said it shop start to drop in about 2 1/2 weeks. They said this on Friday, so something could have changed since then...
Hope I helped!
Take care!
I have no clue wat im gonna do for my 13th birthday partay! please give me ideas!
Thanks!
I LOVE lasertag...look on the net and see if they have any centers in your area!
Take Care!
does anyone know about today's holiday? its called smingus dingus =)
no i've never heard of it..what are people celebrating?
me and my family are fighting alot lately.. I have a really bad attitude! and I need help! please give me advice! FAST! I'll try anything!
Try talking to them, or instead of fighting with them, be the bigger person and back off. You can get a lot more accomplished when you aren't mad and saying the first thing that comes to mind...trust me!
Take Care
ok... im dieing here... im not allowed on AIM and im not allowed to watch tv... ive been on this website like allll day and i can't take it anymore... its raining outside... and i don't no why im not allowed to watch tv or go online.. i was allowed on AIM for 15 minutes and thats it... i didn't do anything wrong... can someone give me ideas on waht to do? i have an annoying 11 year old brother and i don't wanna play with him... i can't even play video gamesss!!
Why cant you do any or your normal things if you didn't do anything? If you've been on this website all day, then your allowed to be on the net. Do some internet window shopping. I love that, then I can look at stuff on the net that I can buy when I get to the store. Or you can play some games! msn zone...pogo.com, or sites like games.com and play monopoly.
If your looking for things to do around the house..try some arts and crafts, make a small lil pillow...all you need is a needle & thread, and somekind of fabric for small squares..an old pair of jeans, an old shirt or something.
Try looking in a cook book for something new to cook. You have to eat at some point or another lol.
Good Luck!
ok...so i know this guy named "brownie" lol and he is soooo nice!we talk on the internet 24/ 7 to eachother and we say hi to eachother but it seems like i cant talk to him in person...i get all tonguetied...we go to diff. schools and he is one grade below me!!i also told him on the internet that i liked him...now im super embaressed!!!
Why are you imbarrased? You guys seem to know each other, so you know that he's not just some internet perv lol. I dont think you should be nervous at all! He might just be feeling the same way about you! But nothing will get accomplished if you dont tell each other!!
Take Care!
I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55
No its not a bad thing at all! And your not replacing your "previous" best friend, you just have another one! Who ever said that a person could only have one best friend? Maybe the 3 of you could hook up one day, and get them two to know each other! Then you'll have 2 best friends.
Try it!
Take Care!
I know this requires effort..so 5's to anyone who isnt mean. Can someone go to http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.gsp?product_id=3321515 (i know its long..copy and paste) and tell me if that laptop is good quality, or if its crap? Like..does it have enough hard drive, etc. thank you thank you thank you! :)
its a pretty good laptop if you plan on just dont casual things, like mainly internet and stuff, But if your going to be running like 4 or more programs like photo editing type stuff, its going to be slower. It doesn't have a lot of RAM only 256 MB, mine has almost triple that, and it was cheaper ($699 sale at staples.) Plus, that only has a 40 GB hard drive, mine is 60.
You could probably get it and upgrade the RAM on it, and it would be ok. The screen size is ok. You dont really need a huge one b.cuz for one, it will be heavy, and not to fun to carry around.
Overall it seems ok, if you get it, make sure you get a waranty!
BUT my advice would be to save up a little more and get a better one. You want it to stick around for awhile right! You mind as well get the works put on it!
Good Luck!
Ok...me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 1/2 years now. But for these last few months, it seems like something is missing. We had a fight a while ago, and now we dont talk as much. I dont want to lose her. I dont want so much time to go by that we find it harder to express the important stuff we have to say. I dont know what happened. Lately she never has time for me, its always either somethin else she has to do, or someone else around. I really dont understand it. We have been through so much together, and I can't see myself being with someone else.
I guess all this was my fault. I have done some extremely stupid things in the past, but..I've apoligized for ALL of that, and now i've been completely honest with her, but I dont think she believes me. What should i do?
After you've been together for 3 1/2 years, you have one fight and stop talking? WOW what did you do buddy? lol and if it was that bad, do you still even deserve her? She sounds like a great woman. Anyways you seem like your still in love! therefore, I wouldn't give up. Now im not saying stalk the chick. I just mean call her every once in a while, let her know that she is still the best thing that ever happened to you. In your convos, drop little lines like. "You know I still love you right?" and she how she responds to things like that. Just do something,....work your magic, and dont lose her!!!