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I can't figure out which hairstyle looks best on me. I've tried mostly everything throughout the years.
Right now I have short wavy-ish hair. It's a little above my chin. It's more or less the same length. And I have bangs.
Is there anything I can do to make it look any better? Sometimes when after a shower, my hair dries more wavy like and it looks really nice but I don't know how to keep it that way. I'm not really good with curling or flat irons.
What kind of things would I need to use to make the curls stay? (link)
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using hair spray or gel or any of that stuff after you get out of the shower will make your hair look oily and gross, instead, go to Sally's beauty supply store, or i dont know if they have one in your state but there should be something like that, and look around b/c they have all kinds of hair products you can check out their web too and see if you find it:
http://www.sallybeauty.com/
and as for the hairstyle that will fit you best, you can put up a link to a picture of you that way people will tell you what hairstyle or cut will flatter you most, hope I helped:)
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14/f
For my age i guess you could say im overweight but for all the muscle and height i have to me..im not really. I weigh about 160 pounds and you may say holy crap she is fat but im not i just have like a stomach that goes out but like not really (bro calls it a poochie) but like me and my friends always call each other fat playing all the time but now it has gotten to my head and i think i am...when i loose my virginity for the 1st time i want to be confident with my partner to be able to show him my body with out being scared...how can i do this when everything just seems so wrong..i also wear a 36C and feel my boobs are look really weird cuz they dont look like some on movies i no this all sounds weird but please help is it just a phase?? Thanks! XOXO (link)
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if you want to be more confident about your body, and want to be healthy, you can always try eating healthy and doing more exercise. do fun things like taking dance class or something like that so you can be getting in shape and have fun at the same time. :) it isn't about being skinny and looking hot or anything but being skinny isn't so healthy either, but being out of shape can lead to a lot of health problems later on when you're older, but since your only 14, that's a good thing so you should work on getting in shape now, but remember to have fun with it too, and don't stress over it. hope I helped!
:)
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17/f-- I have acne on my shoulders and chest. What are some products that you have tried that worked? There dosn't seem to be as many prodcuts for body acne than face acne, and they are not really advertised, so I have no idea what to go for. I use Neutrogena for my face and it really works, Its not perfect but its a big improvement, so I tried the Neutrogena body acne wash, and it helped only a little bit. But its normal to have a little acne on your face (for a teenager), plus you can cover that with makeup, but the amount I have on my shoulders is embarrasing. Plus on my face, I have like small pimples/blackheads, but on my chest it is like fairly large pimples which is just discusting. So, what products?? (besides Neutrogena- tried it.) (link)
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that's b/c you have dry skin, i have it too but it doesn't show because i moisturize a lot. one important thing though is do NEVER scratch if it itches b/c it makes it worse, instead put lotion on whenever it itches, use 'IMAGE essentials ultran healing for extra dry skin' it works really well, or any baby lotion, or see a doctor and they can recommend what's best for you to use. :)
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i'm throwing a party for my friend for her sweet sixteen. there will only be like 30 or so people there. i'm making the playlist. i've pretty much raided the internet (google, top song charts, youtube) for like techno / trance / eurodance / house / club / dance / electronic songs (cause those are the genres that people dance to -- i want everyone around and moving!), but if you guys were going to a cool upbeat party, what song / songs would you DEFINITELY want to hear? (NO COUNTRY / JAZZ / CLASSICAL / DEPRESSING SONGS)
list as many as you'd like! :)
artists i have:
katy perry, all-american rejects, basshunter, coldplay, jack's mannequin, britney spears, M.I.A., kanye west, leona lewis, onerepublic, the shins, mgmt, lady gaga, flo-rida, soulja boy, and young love (as well as other DJs who have their own remixes).
i have every song on the "top iTunes list" when you google for the list, but what were some RECENTLY popular songs? (e.g., soulja boy was a huge hit)
thank you! (link)
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Rhianna- disturbia, don't stop the music
flo rida- ayer, low, elevator
Darude- sandstorm
benny benassi- satisfaction, i love my sex
cascade- every time we touch
Pitbull
timbaland, keri hilson- the way i are
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i know that everyone is different, but i just wanted to know how long it took for anyone to get over thier first love....i went out with this guy for about a year, and i love him so much...he's always on my mind, i do try to keep busy and i'm really working at it, i know i will get there. Someone told me that it takes about 4 years. I guess it depends on the person but how lon did it take you to get over them?thank you!:D (link)
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it depends on how much you like him, usually it takes about 1 year at the most, but that is just me. for most people it would be about a year to get over someone though or maybe 2 years.
:)
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On this Hannah Montana episode, pause at 0:25 and look at Lily's shoes.
I LOVE them. Does anyone know the brand of them so I can go buy em?
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o0h i see, they're DCs
http://product.dcshoes.com/womens.asp?category=SHOES
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14/f
I'm not fat or chubby or anything. I just have stomach I want to get rid of. I know exercising would help but I don't know what to do. Running? I think sit ups would work right? But how many? And eating healthy. Is there anything else? I weigh about 103, that's normal right? ha, I have a lot of questions as you can see. The other thing is that I don't want to exercise in front of anyone, like family kinda of thing. Its kinda weird unless I want to play basketball or something with my brother. And how do you tone your arms and legs? Thanks so much and sorry for all these questions. (link)
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running works mostly your legs but its also good too, doing 30 sit ups a day would do the trick and it takes around a month at least to see a difference, power walking is good if you dont like to run. I did a lot of that over the summer and it gave me really nice abs, like power walking for about 40 minutes a day or every other day and doing sit ups push ups and stretches. doing yoga & pilates in the comfort of your own room or living room is also great. & remember to drink lots of water! hope I helped:)
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I have dark brown hair and side bangs. They are kind of growing out but yeah. How do you cut your bangs to the side but I don't want them short. I want them longer but then not too long. My hair is straight and flat but thick. My hair is layered too. Is there anything different I can do? I put it up sometimes. But as in haircut? I don't want it shorter. My hair seems kinda boring. If you have any ideas please help! Oh, and if I wanted to curl my hair it comes out quick and I suck at curling my hair. I flipped it once and it looked cute but I really can't do it anymore. Is there any way you can help me? Thanks so much! (link)
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front bangs are really cute right now and especially when u curl it, you'll look like a super model! not a lot of people think they can pull it off with the front bangs so you could start:)
http://www.zimbio.com/Hairstyles+with+Bangs/articles/5/Celebrity+Haircuts+Best+Bangs+Hairstyles
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I'm 21 year old guy that goes to university in a small town. This last summer I did a study abroad trip to London. It was great time, and a highlight of the trip was when I met this awesome girl from France whom I grew really attached to and spent lots of time with. Obviously I eventually had to leave, and ever since I've been back things haven't been the same at all. I don't really keep in touch with the French girl, and besides she has a boyfriend. I did feel very happy with her though.
I felt really lonely when I got back to the states, and so I choose to occupy all my time being busy with school, working out, my job, and friends. It's been over three months now, and I'm still regularly very unhappy. I've been on a few dates since I've gotten back, but the girls seem totally uninteresting to me. It's gotten to a point where I just don't even feel like trying anymore. It's been three months, and ever since I've been back I just feel really lonely and depressed. I look forward and wish I could sleep all day, and I've lost interest in the many activities I used to like. I have a ton of friends, but I don't even want to spend time with them anymore. I feel like the thing that's missing in my life is love, and it's hard because it seems to me that it's impossible to find. I just want someone to think about me and someone I can care about. I'm very ambitious and outgoing so it bugs me that I can't obtain such a crucial part of my life. I feel like the life I'm living isn't the life I want.
I really appreciate you taking the time to read this, as it's something friends of mine wouldn't totally understand.
How should I deal with my situation? Besides the obvious places like, clubs, bars, or coffee shops how can I meet people?
Any help, suggestions or just reflections on the situation would be helpful for me.
Thanks a bunch (link)
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Sometimes being alone can help you find yourself and know yourself better, depends on how you handle the situation though. you can always meet people when getting together with your friends. but for now, don't worry about finding love, b/c at some point in your life you will find it & enjoy life while you can. Hope i helped:)
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well im 17 years old and this guy at my work is 22. hes soooo cute and he kinda would flirt with me but i always thought of it in a silly type of way because he seemed to old to be interested in a girl like me. but today he gave me his number.. so i realized maybe he is interested?! hes so cute but do you think hes too old for me? (link)
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age is not but a number, so go for it:)
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I am 13 and in seventh grade. I sit with a group of nice people at lunch, except for one. "Grady" insults us, cries, yells at us for minor things, and has come right out and said he sits with us only because he likes to annoy us. Once, he started crying on purpose so we would feel bad and sit with him.
We have tried moving to a different table, ignoring him and being unpleasant so he wouldn't want to sit with us. Most of us have known Grady all through grade school, and we have had enough of his crying and yelling at us for no reason. We just want our space. Do you have any suggestions on how to get Grady to leave us alone? Most of us have classes with him, so avoiding him is not an option. (link)
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maybe if you guys TRY talking to him and being more considerate of him, he'll stop acting that way. communication is key. be nicer but not in a sympathetic way. maybe this boy has some problems in his life or something. but whatever you do don't be mean or rude to him, just give him a chance. if he continues to act that way talk to your school counselor about him, so they could talk to him. do not do what the other advisor told you b/c that will just make things worse.
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Well...If you hadn't read my other questions, this is a short summary.
I am a senior (high school) and I like this guy..We have been really good friends since like august (even though we knew each other before..offically started talking august) I thought he liked me..but i was wrong.
This past sunday we went out to eat and he told me he just got a girlfriend..since 3 days...and hes known her since july...I smile and acted all happy for him even though i was crying on the inside. I swear i have never felt this way..I didn't even start crying until i woke up the next morning. I knew i wasn't ever gunna tell him how i felt cuz it always ruins the friendship..and thats all guys ever see me as...is a friend...so i guess that's all we are..and that's better than nothing...but i wanted something more.
I don't know how to feel..I don't know what to think...and my crying is different...all i have are tears out of my eyes...no sound at all..i must be really hurt.
What should I do? (link)
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Time will heal. don't worry about that b/c it happens to all of us, and it's very painful I know, but love doesn't always work out for everyone, but just b/c it doesn't work out for you with this guy, doesn't mean it won't work out with anybody else later on or in the future, you've just gotta wait for the right one to come, and don't give up hope. you're a senior in highschool, so you've got a long time ahead of you, in the mean time, enjoy life and have fun being a teenager while you still can, love can wait. I hope I helped:)
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I noticed recently (about two weeks ago) that inbetween my left leg and pubic area (where there is a crease) there is a lump underneath the skin that feels like a small grape. It's not painful and I checked my right side to make sure I didn't have one on the other side. I can feel it intensely when I lay down. I'm not sure if it has anything to do with this, but I am sexually active and always use protection. I know this should be a question for a doctor, but I was wondering if anyone has had this before that could maybe give me some infomation to spare me a visit? Or is this something that should be checked out? Thanks. (link)
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it could possibly be a bug bite, like a spider bite b/c i've had one before and it kind of sounds like what you have, or it could be b/c you're wearing tight clothing, wear looser clothing so the skin could breathe, but these are just my guesses, it'd be much better if you do go see the doctor though b/c they can tell you what it is just in case if its bad. hope i helped:)
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What are some good Christmas songs?
I'm not talking about "Jingle Bells", "Silent Night" or songs like that.
I'm talking about songs like: "Santa Baby by Marilyn Monroe" and "Merry Christmas Baby by Brighten" things like that.
I really need this for a mixed CD before Christmas.
Thanks in Advance! (link)
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this christmas- chris brown
mariah carey- all i want for chrsitmas
pussycat dolls- santa baby
ashley tisdale- last christmas
all i want 4 christmas- pretty willie
christmas witout you- Xscape
cascade- last christmas
destinys child- 8 days of chrsitmas
beyonce- ave maria
destiny's child- carol of the bells
miley cyrus- rockin around the chrsitmas tree
aly&aj has a lot of christmas songs and so does demi lovato
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How do you delete stuff from your browser? Like say I have a myspace on my browser. Is there anyway to delete your history of ever being on there? Thanks. (link)
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go to TOOLS, and then go to PRIVACY and then you can clear stuff or set up other stuff like that.
:)
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Hey I was wondering does toning your body make you look bigger? I want to gain weight and look bigger but I am very unfit so I want to be healthy too. I have Celiac Disease so it is hard to gain weight with fast-food and junk food because I can't eat most of it, and it is hard to work out because I'm unfit and get tired easier.
Ok, so basically, can someone tell me what does toning do to your body and will it help in my situation? Also, what are some other ways to gain weight (I don't care if it is muscle or fat, I just want to put on those kilos!!) (link)
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you can always take up a dance class or something fun like that b/c you don't too tired and you can enjoy it too:) and drink lots of water everyday b/c it WILL help you a lot when exercising. hope I helped:)
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Does the LG Chocolate 3 have iTAPn or T9Word? Also, any complaints on the keypad? I'm wondering if the buttons click loudly or if they're hard to press. Thanks. (link)
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the keypad is the only bad part of the phone but the buttons don't click loudly though, and they have T9Word.
hope i helped:)
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My boyfriend doesn't have a very large penis. I don't care i love him for him.. but sometimes it makes sex harder cause he slips out all the time. Do you know any positions that work better for people with smaller penises? (link)
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the doggie style can make even the smallest penis feel large.
this is the snake position: you’ll want to be lying flat on you belly with your legs closed. For ease and comfort, slip a pillow beneath your hips until your bottom arches upward. straddle your hips while he maintains an upright position and he places his genitals behind ur bottom. Gently spread ur thighs just enough for him to allow penetration and slide his way in.
and the V posistion is also great.
hope I helped:)
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What are some gift ideas for my boyfriend?
He's 18, senior in high school, not really into sports or anything. He likes music but gets it all online for free. We're been going out for about 7 months. I already got him a hoodie but out of ideas...wanna get him something he really wants, not just a typical gift like cologne.
Any and all ideas will be appreciated. (link)
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even though he gets free music online, it'd still be sweet and heart touching if you give him a mixed cd of songs he likes, or:
http://www.usa.canon.com/consumer/controller?act=ModelInfoAct&fcategoryid=183&modelid=16338
http://www.circuitcity.com/ssm/Rock-Band-2-XBOX-360-014633191141/sem/rpsm/oid/217319/rpem/ccd/productDetail.do
http://oakley.com/pd/5219
http://www.verizonwireless.com/b2c/index.html
these are just some ideas, hope you find something:)
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For homecoming I'm designing my own dress but can't figure out what is a good top half that will flatter my boobs.... I know ruffles do the trick (thank you Ouran High School Host Club) but I want something else because I can have the bottom and top be ruffly. Any other ideas?? :(( I need to know soon because if I go home I have a TON of Seventeen magazines that I know have good ideas. Too bad I need to know by today or tomorrow or the next day at least before the 25th.
Thanks please help (link)
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Ruffles sounds cute, or maybe make sequins, or jewels to it, something like this:
http://www.papayaclothing.com/shop/goods_detail_v1.php?goodsIdx=4583
Neck lines like that will be flattering since you have a small chests, i have little boobs too lol so your not alone, and I hope I helped:)
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