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Boy Won't Leave Us Alone
I am 13 and in seventh grade. I sit with a group of nice people at lunch, except for one. "Grady" insults us, cries, yells at us for minor things, and has come right out and said he sits with us only because he likes to annoy us. Once, he started crying on purpose so we would feel bad and sit with him.
We have tried moving to a different table, ignoring him and being unpleasant so he wouldn't want to sit with us. Most of us have known Grady all through grade school, and we have had enough of his crying and yelling at us for no reason. We just want our space. Do you have any suggestions on how to get Grady to leave us alone? Most of us have classes with him, so avoiding him is not an option.
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maybe if you guys TRY talking to him and being more considerate of him, he'll stop acting that way. communication is key. be nicer but not in a sympathetic way. maybe this boy has some problems in his life or something. but whatever you do don't be mean or rude to him, just give him a chance. if he continues to act that way talk to your school counselor about him, so they could talk to him. do not do what the other advisor told you b/c that will just make things worse.
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"you're annoying and hurtful. leave us alone we DON'T like you, don't you get it?" who cares if it hurts his feelings, hes being a dick to you guys!
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